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Sep 17, 2006 @ 3:54 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Patch926


Posts: 1
seriously, any advice on the best way to try out a Girl girl experience for the first time. I am in a relationship with a guy i really love, im just a bit curious and i dont know where to look.
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Sep 17, 2006 @ 9:34 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
robodad


Posts: 7,823
Don't worry, I'm staying out....
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Sep 17, 2006 @ 10:29 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
spongebob777


Posts: 7,904
I'm just here for the visuals.
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Sep 17, 2006 @ 12:34 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737


Hey, I kinda like my feminine side?

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Sep 17, 2006 @ 1:36 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,951
My honest opinion, as a bisexual woman, would be to not mess around with chicks while you're dating a man you "love". But then again, I could be totally old fashioned, you know.
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Sep 17, 2006 @ 2:05 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
johnw_6


Posts: 194
i thought they were rules about "guys stay out" i.e gender etc etc Rule 7 no?

Aaa to go where I'm not wanted?

anyways if your in a relationship with someone you love surely looking for another one or being unfaithful both/ either wouldn't make sense?
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Sep 18, 2006 @ 8:58 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
lilangel4u


Posts: 94
if you are that in love with your man, dont do it. It is only sure to mess things up. how do you think he would feel...you want to try a woman because hes not good enough...what if him and her played as well...how would you feel? i think it is a common fantasy to be a in a 3some, but there is a time and place and the relationship isnt it. if you become single try it then, otherwise let it be a fantasy.
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Sep 18, 2006 @ 9:09 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Loreli


Posts: 25,398
your curiosity could cost you. if you love him, don't screw around on him.
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Sep 19, 2006 @ 2:15 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Kenn159


Posts: 4,402
Just me in the process of staying out.

P.S.
This thread is akin to someone saying dont think of a elephant,so then of course you see the elephant .
Telling guys to stay out is just a invitation for us to come here.


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Sep 19, 2006 @ 8:49 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
everrett


Posts: 471

Posts: 129
Just me in the process of staying out.

P.S.
This thread is akin to someone saying dont think of a elephant,so then of course you see the elephant .
Telling guys to stay out is just a invitation for us to come here.
QFT
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Sep 19, 2006 @ 11:17 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
kattsmeow


Posts: 22,624
People have "fantasies" doesn't mean we are to play them out.
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Sep 19, 2006 @ 11:31 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
zulamaze


Posts: 1,266
If you love him, discuss it with him.
He may be one that would say yes, can
we make it a threesome. And in that case
NEVER do it with a friend of either of yours.

And as Lorlei said -- it could cost you your
love, so better to discuss the topic hypothetically
with him first. That way you can find out his views
on the subject.
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Sep 21, 2006 @ 5:39 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Victimofchanges


Posts: 5
Hi there, I''m a little bit sort of new here, but I had to put my two cents in on this, because....

For starters, I really don't think that most men don't mind that a woman of they're love would ever bring up subjects like this one. The truth of the matter is the fact that most men are very insecure in so so many ways and that is why that most of the time they tend to have a very hard time expressing themselves.

I think that for the most part, men like to be they're women's hero in every way possible and never really ever want to come out too forward with they're one and only true woman. Instead they just like to sit back and hang loose and wait for "next" thing that the woman has to either do and/or say and then they would react to that and this is what makes it all safe for the most part(for the man's side that is). But never play the "guessing game" and never be evasive with him either to your man if you really love him, this will only make matters even worse, for he'll sence that something is wrong and he wants to know what exactly it is(men have that animal instinct like that). Instead, just simply come out with how you feel and what you like to do!

Mainly, most men like to see some girl-girl thing go on in front of them, that is one of almost every straight man fantasies to be truthfully honest with you and if you where looking for that open relationship anyway, I think that 9 times out of 10, being with another woman is you safest bet really. It is alot better then you with another man.

Just don't totally leave him out. It's about what he thinks really about this, but the only thing that I can only imagine for you to do is to either let him join in, as in anything that DOES NOT LEAVE HIM FEELING LEFT OUT, that is the only thing that can make that a real problem for what I can see!

It's all up to the other girl too, but if you and the other girl even feel uncomfortable about having him in the room while this is happening between the two of you ladies, no problem, I suggest using a CAM and then you and him can enjoy the experience over and over again! And he won't feel so left out then...maybe.

Try and see you never know.

Aren't you happy your living in the 21st Century where you can find so many different ways going around different situations with technology?

Now another thing, your best bet is to either put out an anonymous ad in the paper or on the local web want ads(after you have decussed this with your man first, make sure you do that) and then do an interview with her, see what she is like. There is alot of ads out there of women looking for couples and vice versa, so you should really have no problem there. But just to be safe and not misleading, your better off just putting down in your ad "couple looking for female", young older, whatwever you like.

Well, that should be about it.

Oh, and BTW...

Never take a woman's advice on what a man really thinks!

Good Luck!
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Sep 21, 2006 @ 5:24 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Loreli


Posts: 25,398
QFT

huh?
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Sep 21, 2006 @ 10:06 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Victimofchanges


Posts: 5
Yeah, I guess my wording by "interview", would be a little too cut and dry, but like I mean to find the other girl that way by ad and meet together somewhere and see what happens. What ever she does, before Patch goes ahead and does anything, I think it is best that she talks about it to her boyfriend first.

Lying might get her caught and doing it can just bring in that guilt factor and that can be a mess too.

Just an opinion.
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Sep 22, 2006 @ 10:01 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Danger


Posts: 1,246
your curiosity could cost you. if you love him, don't screw around on him.

CLOSE...but i WOULD screw around ON him and forget the girl!
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Sep 26, 2006 @ 1:08 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
warrior674


Posts: 6,580
I'm staying out too...


I'm just quietly observing.
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Sep 26, 2006 @ 11:12 AM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
kinglouis2005


Posts: 856
*peeks*
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Sep 26, 2006 @ 12:40 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
RachelVaz


Posts: 1,219
well, - you have to ask your guy how he feels...
if he is okay - u should explore that part of you...
it is not compromising your sexuality - only experimenting...
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Sep 26, 2006 @ 6:49 PM Bi curious Girls? guys stay out...    
Bojangles102


Posts: 478
If you want to have sex with any one but the guy you love.....You really don't love him...You're in the relationship for selfish reasons.....Do him a favor and break it off...NOW !!!
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