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Oct 11, 2006 @ 12:11 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
shellsmack1


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I find that I masturbate more when I'm involved with someone compared to when I'm not dating anyone. I suppose it's because I'm getting it more while involved, where as when I'm not dating, I don't act on it as much because I'm not being aroused as much, so the vibrator takes a back burner. But it's strange how when I AM dating a man, that vibrator is getting new batteries right and left!!

Can anyone relate to this?
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 12:19 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
lj450


Posts: 9,550
Not me.......I never allow a relationship (or lack thereof) to affect my masturbation.
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 5:43 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
shellsmack1


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I don't allow it, it just happens.
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 6:11 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
IceDog


Posts: 153
I agree, seems when in a relationship my sex drive is stronger then when not in one. Go figure.
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 6:15 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
I'm just a manic wanker anyway, and just can't seem to stop.
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 12:07 AM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
WickedWench


Posts: 1,613
I'm just a manic wanker anyway, and just can't seem to stop

Nothing wrong with that but if a guy is a "manic wanker", what's a woman?
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 12:23 AM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737
I'm just a manic wanker anyway, and just can't seem to stop.

Manic wankers, unite, China!

But sometimes I feel a little self-conscious....almost as if somebody's watching?

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Oct 12, 2006 @ 12:35 AM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
SunBabe


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It seems it can take YEARS to wean one away from guilt.
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 2:14 AM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
Need a hand Sunbeam?
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 3:40 AM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
SunBabe


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~sigh~ ...or something
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 3:52 AM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
chinabull2000


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~sighs~
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 10:36 AM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
ynot77


Posts: 453
just give her the sumthing China.. she's cute and deserving...might cook for ya ..
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Oct 13, 2006 @ 9:19 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
Always_Striving


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I find that I masturbate more when I'm involved with someone compared to when I'm not dating anyone

For the sake of humanity, STOP IMMEDIATELY share those hot moments with your partner, then maybe he won't have any thoughts about seeing another woman to get some because you don't feel like putting out. Turn the mental thing into a physical reality. Women need to melt down their vibrators and start getting freaky in bed on a regular basis to keep the guys hanging on and wanting to come back for more.
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Oct 13, 2006 @ 11:06 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
definitelydi


Posts: 12,602
When I don't get' any for an extended period of time, it's easy to forget the appeal! Sure, I have spells of...uh..."the mood" but not nearly as much as when I'm active. It makes sense Shell!
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Oct 14, 2006 @ 12:05 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
candylily


Posts: 1,347
I agree with Striving. Save it for when you're with him, but I do fully relate to the increased interest when there's something fresh in your mind to think about.
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Oct 14, 2006 @ 12:48 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
Spider374


Posts: 123
I don't think that masturbation affects the heat of the next encounter you have with your gf/bf--unless maybe you go to the bathroom to rub one out real quick before jumping into bed with them Otherwise, it's just a symptom of an increased sex drive and you'll be just as horny the next time you get together. At least that's how it works with me...although I do it all the time single or not
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Oct 14, 2006 @ 8:49 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
shellsmack1


Posts: 852
For the sake of humanity, STOP IMMEDIATELY share those hot moments with your partner, then maybe he won't have any thoughts about seeing another woman to get some because you don't feel like putting out. Turn the mental thing into a physical reality. Women need to melt down their vibrators and start getting freaky in bed on a regular basis to keep the guys hanging on and wanting to come back for more.

Oh man, you have no idea. I'm one freakin' horn dog and just because I masturbate on my own time doesn't mean I'm not giving a hot roll in the hay.

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Oct 14, 2006 @ 9:22 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
WickedWench


Posts: 1,613


Do you really think that just because we have vibrators we STOP being horny? Or we'd prefer a vibe to a REAL penis?

Holy Moly!!! What planet did you just fly in from?

I really believed men were not intimidated by those buzzy things.. apparently I was wrong.

Striving...honey.. baby...schnookums... C'mere. .I got a secret for ya lover ...closer.. I wanna whisper it to ya. If I gotta get "freaky" in the sac to keep a guy? Then he ain't someone I wanna keep in my bed..There's more than enough creative sexual activities a couple can do to keep it rockin' and rollin'. And I'm damn sure, like most women on here, that I could keep a man happy for..a while ...

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Oct 14, 2006 @ 9:53 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
ynot77


Posts: 453
how did i miss this.....and why WOULD someone think a woman mastubating would have any neg affect on him?
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Oct 14, 2006 @ 10:52 PM Masturbating more when dating someone...    
candylily


Posts: 1,347
Well, it makes me less interested. That's the trick I used to use on myself before I went on a date to make sure I didn't do something I might regret later.
If I just allow myself to think about it, but not act on it, I'm much more ????? not sure how to put it
Anyway, I was married a long time and I would get aggravated at myself if I didn't wait for my husband because the need lessened. I love having sex when I'm feeling like a sex-starved maniac. I think he may have been "raped" a few times, but he didn't seem to mind, or at least he didn't press charges.
As in everything else, I'm sure we're all different.
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