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Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:23 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
How long has it been or you and how does it effect your daily moods?? It's been 2 years for me and it feels like that part of my life is over.I just don't feel worthy of having it in my life anymore.Men just don't seem to find me attractive or sexually appealing anymore.They just have their limits with me without going all the way!! How many of you feel the same way??? I'm thinking of becoming a nun!!!!
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:29 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
Am I that disgsting to look at??I get ignored and pushed aside like I'm a freak or something.Alot of men flirt with me and call me sweetie,gorgeous,cute and sexy but don't want to be with me and the ones that I have been with only want me to touch or suck their penis.So what's wrong that they don't want anything else???
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:38 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
Loreli


Posts: 25,398
I will say this in the nicest possible way........
if you ACT the way you POST, you're driving them away. it's YOU
the blow job issue was already addressed in your other thread...if you do that before you are in a relationship, then the guy(s) just getting some satisfaction.
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:43 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
beckyiv42000


Posts: 14,576
and your HOW OLD?? come on yer really like 12 or sumpin right??
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:51 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
Heaveninawildflower


Posts: 18,602
Yep, once more unto the breach -

Your low self-esteem (which I know you'll deny) shouts itself out here, and probably in the real world too. There are always opportunists who'll pick up on that and use you. It's up to you woman! If you feel you're unattractive, you'll project that. And if you believe it, see what you can do about it!! You're 38 for crying out loud! Certainly old enough to be able to see the obvious, and young enough to change your life - but it's your choice. You can keep doing what you're doing and come crying in here that it's not working, or you can look at what's bugging you and change it. Einstein said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results...so, are you sane or not? If something''s not working, change it! Do you want to lose weight? Try walking a few miles a day. Do that for two weeks, then come back and tell us how you feel and how people are reacting to you...I'll bet you'd find a huge difference. Not so much because of the weight you might lose, but the fact that YOU are taking action. You're creating your own reality instead of being a passive victim. Please, please try it...believe it or not, the people here would love to see you turn your life around, but YOU have to do it. Anything we say is just background noise until you 'get it'.
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:12 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737
Are we still giving advice to this woman?
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:12 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
beckyiv42000


Posts: 14,576
Heaven you are soooo much more diplomatic than I
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 2:02 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
Why can't you people just answer the original question instead of labeling me?? No,I don't give blowjobs before being in a relationship!! I only do that to people I truly care about and if it involves some sort of relationship.
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 2:07 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
Heaveninawildflower


Posts: 18,602
If there's a relationship, why don't you ask them????????

Or just say, I cum first?

(So much for being diplomatic...I'm taking Einstein's advice, even if she won't)
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 2:20 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
2averagegirl


Posts: 17

Well if you are in some kind of relationship with them just tell him.......NO Blow Job till we have sex..........then if he says no you just say byeeeee.
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 2:56 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
daisy315


Posts: 4,946
omg... I am getting a migraine folks... I feel the need to poke my eyes out now...
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 3:15 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
SunBabe


Posts: 12,279
omg, I not only sprayed my screen with coffee, but I wet my pants, methinks!
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 3:32 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
definitelydi


Posts: 12,602
I'd advise her to masturbate but her own hand might turn her down.
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 4:47 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 4:48 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,951
i don't get any either but that's because i turn them all down.

seriously wawa wtf?

what do you think we're your counselors or something?
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 4:50 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
Pete73052


Posts: 19,370
Yep, once more unto the breach

Um... better you than me...
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 4:51 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
i think wawawa's a fake, probably just trying (and succeeding) to wind everyone up.
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 4:58 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
luvshorses644


Posts: 1,571
OMG... yet another thread with the pity party going on? WaWa, gal, please, please, please seek counselling.. you really, really need it.

The low self esteem that Heaven was talking about.. you either have the worse self-esteem I have ever witnessed, or, like some other people I know that always ask "why" they never are... fill in the blank with whatever you want: 1) why aren't they loved.. 2) are they ugly... 3) if people flirt and tell them how pretty they are, why don't they want a relationship.... this type personality asks these questions to get positive remarks .. like .. 1) you aren't loved because they haven't seen the real value in you... 2) oh, no, hon, you aren't ugly, it's just that they cannot see the value and beauty of you because they have been hurt or rejected or some other nasty thing has happened and warped them.. 3) they flirt because secretly they want you to make the first move because they are so shy....

If any man that you might be interested in or think you would like to have a relationship with reads these threads, they will run for the hills. No man wants a woman that doesn't care for herself because if you don't care about you how will you ever care about some other person.. love begins with yourself!!!!!!! And, gal, you are starting to sound a whole bunch needy... men do NOT want a needy woman, but rather an independent, intelligent, self-confident woman who can take care of herself, but would love to be in a relationship where she can share the good times and bad times without the constant drain of the energy involved in reinforcing their interest in you ALL the time!!!!

I am not saying this with any bit of hurt intended.. but, WaWa, lady, you have to heal yourself before you can love anyone else.... please seek help .. you are NOT achieving this on your own.. PLEASE!!!!!
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 9:49 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
username57


Posts: 1,041
You hit a home run...a grand slam, with that response luvs...
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 10:34 PM Life Without Sex!!!    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,699
I took a look at your pics, and you are average looking. Don't be ashamed of that, most people, including me, are just average. So, if looks aren't the problem, what is? Is it your hygene? Do you bathe, wash your hair and brush your teeth daily? If not, you may be smelling the joint up, that will turn off most guys, who wants a stinky woman? But let's assume that you are clean and sweet smelling. So now looks and odor are out, that leaves personality. Are you driving men away when you open your mouth and let out a constant stream of whiney drivel? If you are always looking to be the star of your own soap opera, most guys aren't interested, drama is only good on tv and in the movies. In real life, drama is a pain in the ass. If you need a daily pity party the only one you are likely to ever hook up with is Mister T since he loves to pity the fool. The rest of us males don't need a pitiful woman. Adjust your tude woman, and guys will be interested.
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