| Nov 6, 2006 @ 11:33 AM |
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crackerchickie
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Ok, part of my job is that I have to help people with their holistic health. I have to counsel them with all parts of their life. Ya whatever, laugh if you will, but no one has discovered my incomptetency, so keep it that way, K?
Anyways, a couple have come into my practice and want to know what to do about the guy's retarded ejaculation. He's 56 and has had a problem for about 10 years. He's had the problem with different women, different scenarios, etc. The mental health part Iabout it being an inability to trust blah blah doesn't fit this guy. Also, enlarged prostate doesn't fit the clinical picture. This guy can go for hours and not ejaculate. (Not that I thought this was a problem, since my marriage was to the 'minute man'  ).
any info?
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 11:42 AM |
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chinabull2000
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Could be some kind of mental block, maybe it happened to him once and he got so pranoid about it that he worries too much now.
Can he cum when he has a wank? Probably, so all will be ok. I'd tell him to change positions when getting the jiggy-jiggy on, perhaps try a straight missionary but hold his body further up over the woman so every time he thrusts down their pubic bones grind together and his shaft is rubbing firmly against her.. works for me every time. 
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 11:46 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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Okay it got VERY hot in here just reading that China ...^^
Okay Cracker does he masturbate often? sometimes they cannot ejaculate in a timely manner without whackin off themselves... they get SOOOOOOOOO used to one kind of stimulation yanno?? that all others are non effective .. this also applies to women
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 11:48 AM |
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crackerchickie
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He was very shy on the Health history regarding masturbation. He's kinda an ole farm boy and was not too pleased about being dragged to my office. He didn't really admit to masturbating anymore...I will have to find out the complete picture.
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 11:52 AM |
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robodad
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I will have to find out the complete picture. Please! No pictures! 
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 11:55 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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hmm ole farm boy eh (gonna get some chit for sayin this but um) maybe he likes the sheep better?? *duckin n running for cover*
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 11:57 AM |
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chinabull2000
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He didn't really admit to masturbating anymore...I will have to find out the complete picture. If he can't open up to you, then you can't really help him very much.
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 2:35 PM |
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crackerchickie
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LOL! I promise, no pictures!  And ixnay on the whole sheep scenario, I just about sprayed coffee all over this computer.
He admits to ejaculation with masterbation, but intermittenly with a female (didn't ask about farm animals, lol). I am thinking that this problem is anxiety related, as he has comorbid agoraphobia with a huge side order of anxieties. There is no problem with micturation, so I have ruled out prostate. He admits to this problem with other females, so I have ruled out current relationship problems (he denies this anyways). He states he is not able to 'relax' during coupling.(In my limited experience, I was not aware that one needed to relax, as it's more of a climax thing for me, but guess it's different for others.)
I am considering prescribing some lorazepam to help with the anxiety. I just don't want him to be asleep during lovemaking!! so I'll low dose it fer now.
Now, I need you people to help me with other sexual problems that walk through the door! My god, doesn't anyone just f*** anymore? 
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 2:37 PM |
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crackerchickie
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Oh, and chinabull, nice ass!!! 
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 2:45 PM |
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SunBabe
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CRACKER!!! I've missed ya!!!
And from a WOMAN'S point of view...well I need to "relax" and trust before the big "O". "Mechanical" just doesn't cut it (unless it's been AGES -- like now  )
~psst~ "Minutemen" can go longer the second and third round 
Oh! Check the side effects of the drugs! SOME of 'em actually inhibit libido Elevil/amytriptyline was pretty good, though 
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 2:54 PM |
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crackerchickie
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Sunny! missed you too! Stuck in this godforsaken masters programme where they expect me to think all the time!
'Mr. minute's" cheese has slid offa his cracker, and I have no intentions of talking to him again, unless he reads the Ontario Child Support Guidelines and realizes his contribution doesn't equal zero. 
Ages? Me too.  The only sex I get is when clients come in and tell me about their lives. Talk about teasing!
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 7:52 PM |
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sjpinatl
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Not a Dr. Here, but is lorezapam something you take all the time? I was actually misdiagnosed for celiac disease for a long time and was given Klonopin for just occasional use. This is not very addictive and does not have to build up in your system, so you can use as needed. Also does not spike in your system like vallium, I'm told. This was easy for me to take one or two times a week and I did and not have side effects. Maybe lorezapam does the same thing...
I will tell you that my first little impression, not that I know a lot about this situation..Is that either his religious upbringing in the country church told him sex was bad, so he "turns off" during, or, his partner has been mean or is not attractive to him, so he "turns off". I mean turning it off in his head but going through the motions....
Edited to add, I thought of one more thing. People who smoke a lot of pot for a long time who go off of it get this way, I have heard. Don't know if this applies to him. I hear women complaing that their ex-pothead husbands need to go back on the stuff so they will be good in bed again
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 8:07 PM |
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SunBabe
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Cracker...ummmm, did you get an honest answer on alcohol consumption? From experience, I can tell you that it can be "inhibiting" (to the point of being downright annoying )
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 8:13 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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See good thing I ducked that coffee woulda hit me square on !!!
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 8:58 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Not a doctor, but I like to play doctor....
I'd ask if he has any numbness or lack of feeling in his penis, particularly the head. Men need stimulation to cum, and any kind of nerve damage, or excessive masterbation can cause a deadning of the area. No woman's vagina, mouth, or ass can grip as hard as his hand can, so if he is one of those guys that really squeezes hard when he beats off, that may be the problem, he's just not getting enough stimulation, or at least not as much as he is used too.
And finally, ask if they are using condoms. I know that I have quite a problem cumming when I wear one, and I'm sure I'm not alone. They do cut the amount of stimulation quite a bit.
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 9:06 PM |
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chinabull2000
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Oh, and chinabull, nice ass!!! LOL thanks CRacker
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 10:35 PM |
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Empath
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Cracker, I hope you don't mind....I just wanted to say a little something in regards to the Lorazepam....
It can be quite dangerous if he is a smoker.
The reason I say this, is because my mom is a smoker, and she has more burn holes in her clothes, bed linens, floors, furniture...you name it, since being put on Lorazepam. I have begged her not to use it, and for a while she stopped, and the burns stopped. She started taking it again about three weeks ago, and guess what? Yep....she's dozing off again, mid sentence.....and she is on a low dose.
I guess I just get a little panicky now whenever I hear about Lorazepam and older people. Sorry.
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| Nov 7, 2006 @ 3:24 PM |
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Desserts
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Now don't be thinking takes one to know one, I have video. Could it be his penis is so small it's like doing air. Stress can kill, so maybe it can kill nerve endings. Well, back to the Sheep.
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| Nov 7, 2006 @ 3:57 PM |
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SunBabe
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Poor Cracker, I can just see her pulling out a tape measure
I guess the visual is even funnier because I know where she works...in a 'non-traditional' community. Let's just say that it was amazing that her patient even showed up. She has to be 25% nurse, 75% diplomat...not the easiest job in the world, for sure.
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| Nov 7, 2006 @ 5:13 PM |
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sciurusniger
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I know where she works Kinda makes ya wonder what happened to the "F" in "BFE", doesn't it?
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