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Nov 25, 2006 @ 3:21 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Chevy1


Posts: 63
I get hit on mostly by married or 'separated' men. Online and off. Work and personal.

So here's my deal on married/separated men -
You have a woman. You live with her, go home to her every night and are with her on holidays and weekends.
You bought her a diamond, a house, a car. You pay her bills, buy her food, holiday gifts. You probably bought her clothes, jewelrey, furniture, pool, etc
And after all that, the woman won't/doesn't want to, Have Sex With You.
So what makes you think that I would?

That's honestly how I see it and I just don't see how married men think they have the right to get mad and/or act stupid when I turn them down.
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 4:04 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
swingpup


Posts: 4,105
You appear to be a very beautiful woman. I think it's a case that for extremely beautiful women like yourself that it's an occupational hazard of being beautiful.

For some males it's the "Grass Is Always Greener." They DON'T have the right to become upset or stupid. Most of that behavior comes from the novice players. Many are able to accept "No thanks" in a respective manor and move on.
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 8:28 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Ron9


Posts: 386

Umm ....... nice ah ....... er ......... umm cat yeah cat.
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 10:05 AM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Thor1960303


Posts: 3,345
Both genders seem to think this is a gender specific thing.Apparently it's not so as much as it seems.People always seem to want what they can't have.I never got hit on by a woman until I put a wedding ring on.I've known single guys who wear wedding rings to clubs and they say it works to get women to hot on them intead of vice versa.

Go figure.
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 1:33 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Loozinit


Posts: 83
Married men hit on me too. I just tell them to go sleep on their couch and fantasize about me~ They all sleep on the couch you know
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 2:01 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
beckyiv42000


Posts: 14,576
married guys hit on me too al the time I usually respond .. what makes you think I would want you I mean you cant even keep your wife satisfied
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 2:09 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Loozinit


Posts: 83
Good one
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 3:35 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
luvmycats


Posts: 10,208
I just tell them to go sleep on their couch and fantasize about me~ They all sleep on the couch you know

I usually respond .. what makes you think I would want you I mean you cant even keep your wife satisfied

Both good ones!
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 6:18 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
LovingRomantic


Posts: 321
Cheavy 1...Way to go girl...that`s telling them...tell them to take a hike to nowhere...because that is where they are going ....
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 6:45 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
sciurusniger


Posts: 2,958
You have a woman. You live with her, go home to her every night and are with her on holidays and weekends.

You bought her a diamond, a house, a car. You pay her bills, buy her food, holiday gifts. You probably bought her clothes, jewelrey, furniture, pool, etc.

And after all that, the woman won't/doesn't want to Have Sex With You.
So what makes you think that I would?
Gods, I LOVE this. May I steal it?!?!

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Nov 28, 2006 @ 8:22 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
encorrgbl


Posts: 1,390
Y'know, I've never been hit on by a married man...

(And I'm not saying I aughta be hit on by one either! LMAO!)

Good point Chevy1 If they're doing that, they're losers, and why in the world would anybody wanna spend time with a loser???

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Nov 28, 2006 @ 8:33 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Loreli


Posts: 25,398
I have been "hit on" a couple times by married men. But, more by "separated" men. I have only once heard why they are "separated" that is easy to check. The rest appeared to be on "time outs."

Not gender specific-it happens quite a bit, I'm sure.
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 11:38 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
You bought her a diamond, a house, a car. You pay her bills, buy her food, holiday gifts. You probably bought her clothes, jewelrey, furniture, pool, etc
And after all that, the woman won't/doesn't want to, Have Sex With You.

And if she DID have sex after he bought her all that stuff? Uh....isn't there a NAME for women in that line of work? And isn't it ILLEGAL to be in that line of work virtually everywhere in the country?

Forget all the "stuff", a woman should have sex with her husband only when they're both in the mood and actually FEEL LIKE IT. No, wait a minute...I'm a bit of an idealist, I guess. A woman should NEVER have sex with her husband. Instead, the two should practice making love. Hmmmm....you think if they did that, that neither would be out hitting on someone else?????

Just....a thought......
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Nov 28, 2006 @ 11:39 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
eaglespirit519


Posts: 308
Well I liked what everyone had to say. But I like the e-mails of them asking my permission to talk about how they have been on the couch for 4 years and are in a sexless marriage and would I be interested in satisfying them.. "DUDE, NO OFFENSE but you live miles away, you are married, I don't want or need to know what your sex life is or isn't so I am sorry but you have picked the wrong woman to ask that of.. For I don't go there! Best of Luck to you!
And like someone stated, then they get all pitthy at you about it.. Why? They are the cheaters and if you are that unhappy RUN FORREST RUN!!! 911 Whambulance please...
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Nov 29, 2006 @ 6:06 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
aussieyank


Posts: 14
I have never slept on a couch before. Honest!
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 8:13 AM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
magicmunchkin65


Posts: 62
Cheers to everyone!! I agree with all of the above. Me, myself have never been hit on by a married or seperated man but if and when It happens I love what Loozinit had to say. I have however slept on the couch...........my ex hubby snored

The Munchkin
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 12:56 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
emperorguy


Posts: 393
Have a very comfy couch, often fall asleep on it, only to awake to the TV blaring out a commercial for get rich quick schemes at 3 in the morning. Then I stumble off to bed.
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Dec 2, 2006 @ 10:03 AM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Chevy1


Posts: 63

Yeah, they ALL sleep on the couch.
They ALL have wives who don't like sex. (No dumb-ass, she likes sex - just not with YOU.)
They ALL think 'separated' means 'single'.

Too FuNnY.

Whenever a married/attached/separated guy hits on me, I ask, "What's in it for me?".
Their answer is always the same lame thing (you know what it is, ladies!)
And my reply is always, "So? I can do that for myself and most probably better than you can. Go beg your wife/girlfriend."
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Dec 2, 2006 @ 11:45 AM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
eaglespirit519


Posts: 308
Ditto that Chevy.. don't NEED no man have to want to be with that man.. LOL..... and i can take care of my own as well
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Dec 11, 2006 @ 2:33 PM Just my point of view...what's yours?    
Thor1960303


Posts: 3,345
This is one reason why I think prostitution should be legal.It would give you ladies a break from these horn dogs who live in a sexless marriage.Counseling a couple who don't sleep together is difficult at best and it only goes so far.Sometimes you just have to look the other way on things you may not like.
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