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Dec 17, 2006 @ 3:55 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
candylily


Posts: 1,347
Do you have a profile on the adult site and would you want to admit it if you did?
I do, but for safety and privacy reasons I don't have my face pics or too much personal information on there. One of the reasons I keep a profile there is to read what men say and how they act on an adult site. As pointed out in another thread, some people's profiles here seem to be written based on what they think other people expect them to say. On adult sites, people are more honest. So if a guy is bi-curious or wanting no-strings sex or as many partners as he can find, he may include that in an adult profile but not here. As long as I stay anonymous on there I can read and observe. I think it's very useful information to know what kinds of sexual behaviors or fantasies a man might admit to if he isn't trying to be politically correct. Any thoughts on this?
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Dec 17, 2006 @ 4:39 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
The_love_Giant


Posts: 693
I guess being 19 I have every open view towards sex. So I would tell people if I have a profile on a adult site.
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Dec 17, 2006 @ 5:08 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
luvmycats


Posts: 10,208
Candy, when I first started finding things out that my husband had kept from me. I joined one just to ask questions and learn things. Did I ever learn things! Some very interesting, some just down right discusting.

I still don't understand why he hid what he did, it was mild compared to some things people enjoy. I also found out that I have a couple mild fetishes... Who'da thunk?

I do have a profile over there, but when my puter went down a while back it lost my auto log in and I can't remember my password. So it has been a while since I have been over there.

On adult sites, people are more honest. So if a guy is bi-curious or wanting no-strings sex or as many partners as he can find, he may include that in an adult profile but not here.

I find that to be true too. I know a few guys here do have profiles over there and a couple have been real eye openers!

I do like to go read their forums, they have soooo much fun over there, that was one of the things I did was go over there and laugh! The funniest ones are in the intrduce yourself forum. They have been allowed to make them into "rooms" it is just TFF!
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Dec 17, 2006 @ 5:15 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
The_love_Giant


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Dec 17, 2006 @ 6:36 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
swingpup


Posts: 4,105
Thanks Candy, I had forgotten all about it. I have now completed tweaking it...my Adult Match Doctor listing that is.
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Dec 17, 2006 @ 11:12 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
ash_is_unforgetable


Posts: 842
I joined Adult MD before out of curiousity on what type of people were on the site ect.. Mostly I got scared lol Most mail I got on that site was by couples looking to own a female and other freaky stuff lol

*AsH
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 12:32 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
SunBabe


Posts: 12,279
Once upon a time I had a goofy profile over there, but for the life of me can't remember my screen name or password (if anyone comes across a profile with a picture of "Side Imapact Air-bags" -- and a couple of other naughty/silly pics -- from Florida, please let me know )

I've peeked a couple of times, out of curiosity, to see how the site is coming along in comparison to this one -- I just found out they have BLOGS, too -- and got an occasional giggle trying to match up who was who here and there

Yep, if I was really interested in someone, I might like to know what they have to say on an "adult" site...maybe it's good or maybe it's seriously scarey

(I don't think much that I've ever read has embarassed me, personally -- some people embarass or get uncomfortable much more easily, though)
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 12:34 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,950
I'm too much of a prude.
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 3:51 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
hiriya


Posts: 1,378
I don't have yet
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 3:59 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
warrior674


Posts: 6,580
No I don't. I would never ever admit it even if I did.
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 9:47 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
Thor1960303


Posts: 3,345
I've got one there.It's just for laughs,I do the same thing there that I do here,post forum threads and sometimes blogs.They're aren't as talkative there as they are here.Met some really cool people though.
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 10:57 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
I'm not going to admit I've got one over there, no way, no sirree.
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 11:38 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
julia143


Posts: 1,696
Nope...what the heck for? If I wanna get laid, all I have to do is wave some guy down in the real world. It's the same thing. You don't know what your getting into...or with whom....and it is all about sex right? (I have not even looked at the adult site)

My method prevents the whole world from knowing what sexual activities I might be interested in. Again...I don't think women would have a hard time getting "just" sex from a local man down the road...
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 11:45 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
razzired


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I don't have a profile on this adult site, but a year or so ago, I did have a profile on a different adult site.

My thinking when I put the profile up was that I wanted to get away from the men I was meeting on regular dating sites, who had visions of hearts and flowers and happily ever after.

Boy, was I wrong. That profile didn't last long. No matter how clear I was about not wanting to see pictures of little willy, not being interested in being anyone's entertainment while they were in town on business, and absolutely not interested in helping some fictional wife fulfill her husband's threesome fantasy, those were the emails I got.

Ick. Yuck. Phoeey. There's not enough penicillin in the world worth the risk.


MJ
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 2:11 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
zulamaze


Posts: 1,266
No I don't have one there.
I am waiting until I become an adult.
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 5:28 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
HiddenIdentity


Posts: 133
I don't have a profile on Adult Matchdoctor simply because I'm not interested. Why would I try to sell myself on a site that isn't really all that appealing to me at this point in my life? I'm not a prude; I'm just not interested.

Also, if I were to have a profile on Adult MD, I'd probably keep it fairly secretive, mainly because I'm not all that comfortable with the idea. Besides, it's easy for outside people (friends, family) to find such things. That would be mighty embarassing, if I do say so myself.

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Dec 18, 2006 @ 7:14 PM Adult Matchdoctor?    
Aries361


Posts: 273
I admit that I do have a profile over there, mainly just to chat. I am not into having sex with strangers. But itis kind of cool to be over there and not have to worry about being a total PERV!
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 2:07 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
HiddenIdentity


Posts: 133
But itis kind of cool to be over there and not have to worry about being a total PERV!

Good way to look at it.
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 8:08 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
LadyMazo


Posts: 184
Whoa, folks - back the truck up! Too many misconceptions about that site floating around here! Allow me to clear some of them up for y'all:

Being on AMD, despite it being an "adult sex and swingers" site, does not mean one is there to get laid with random strangers!

Being on AMD does not mean one's intergrity is questionable.

People over there are not necessarily more honest; just as with any site, you will always find people who lie about who they are, their marital status, as well as their...er...um...attributes (among other things).

Many of the same subjects discussed over there are also being discussed here - there is just less curbing of language over there...which is, I'm sure, part of the intent of creating such a site. (In fact, someone here just started a new thread asking about dominant women *he said dominate, but the correct word is dominant*).

Pervs? Hey, I call the site Pervia for a reason! But to think that there aren't pervs on this site is simply naive (especially since I see several people from there over here, as well.) And to think that everyone over there (even most) are pervs is equally naive.

Needless to say, I have a profile there, too...SxzeBBW. I signed up for AMD just after joining this site - HUGE difference in responses, despite the fact that my profiles were (not are) pretty close to identical. And I'm not just talking about "wanna f*ck* emails...the number of responses and profile views I got (get) over there by far exceed what I've gotten here. (in 90 days on AMD, over 30,000 profile views; over here in the same amount of time, less than 1300)...

Yep, I get tired of the dick pics and crotch shots - after a while, I barely noticed them (habituation) - but even so, behind those pics are real people. Many people choose to not show their faces out of a desire for privacy, but it would be a mistake to think it's because they are pervs...ask them and many will tell you it's because of the stigma of adult sites being for pervs only interested in anonymous sex...

One does not have to post a provocative pic to get noticed over there; the same pics I have here are also on my profile there. One does not have to talk "smut" to find a place. One does not need to have loose morals to be there. One does not need to bother with unwanted emails. Guess what folks - you can filter out mail from couples or people into things that you're not!!! I suggest that before anyone judge the site - or anyone on the site - you take the time to get to know the site and a few people over there. You'd be surprised at how very wrong these generalized misconceptions are.
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 8:36 AM Adult Matchdoctor?    
ynot77


Posts: 453
LadyMazo
WELL SAID! ......people spend wayyy tooo much time ASSUMING they know something and in most cases assuming does what we were taught....makes an ass outa you n me.....

*jumps in car n races over to AMD to find Candylillys profile..'' mmm now if i were that cute....what would i call myself?"
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