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Dec 18, 2006 @ 10:53 AM Dominate women..........    
allchris68


Posts: 11
How many of you ladies would consider yourself to be dominate in the bedroom
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Dec 18, 2006 @ 10:15 PM Dominate women..........    
ash_is_unforgetable


Posts: 842
Nope, I'm not dominate at all, I'm the shy submissive type...

*AsH
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 12:21 AM Dominate women..........    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,955
i'm a submissive.
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 7:31 AM Dominate women..........    
LadyMazo


Posts: 184
*cracks her whip*

Why do you ask?
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 8:27 AM Dominate women..........    
ynot77


Posts: 453
*cracks her whip*

Why do you ask?


just wonderd ma'am
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 8:41 AM Dominate women..........    
icequeen241


Posts: 26
Difine "dominate"...there are different levels to this word. Do you consider agressive as dominate? Do you consider being tied up by a woman as dominate? Do you consider vinyl, leather, whips and chains as dominate? I suppose with most women it is a matter of mood, needs, and who your partner is. I have a "friend" who loves it when I take charge of matters...but do I consider myself dominate? No, I just have my agressive moments. It is all subjective.
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 11:57 AM Dominate women..........    
allchris68


Posts: 11
I like the whole thing. I have been on both sides of it. Just every now and then you need some fine tunning
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Dec 19, 2006 @ 12:22 PM Dominate women..........    
LadyMazo


Posts: 184
*laughs wickedly as she reaches for her cuffs*
First of all..ynot - calm down. Don't make me restrain you!


Now, in all seriousness, icequeen241 poses good questions, as there are varying ideas of what dominant is (or should be) as well as varying degrees of that lifestyle. Is an aggressive lover a Dom/Domme? Well, if taking the initiative makes one a Domme, then I'd be one. If it means cuffing someone the bed and commiting wicked acts of debaurchery means I'm a Domme, then I'm not...thought the thought is rather appealing *sly wink*.

I don't happen to think that aggressive is the same as dominant...and I've recently come to understand that being submissive doesn't mean having no control. Being dominant is not the same as being bossy; a Dom friend of mine did a very good job of explaning this in a blog on the adult site. I'd say it's a good idea to read up and think things through before embarking on anything - there are good Doms/Dommes and bad ones...


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Dec 20, 2006 @ 9:33 AM Dominate women..........    
justask4it77


Posts: 204
domanante women? there are such a thing??
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Dec 20, 2006 @ 1:14 PM Dominate women..........    
bevrice


Posts: 11,141
I am neither dominant nor submissive.
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Dec 20, 2006 @ 10:02 PM Dominate women..........    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,699
Finally, someone that knows how to spell dominant! That was driving me crazy.
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Jan 1, 2007 @ 12:03 PM Dominate women..........    
Monsterboy


Posts: 287
Men are in a bit of a, you should pardon the term, bind about this. We're conditioned that we should be dominant in everything, but sex most of all. Whether because of that, general conditioning regarding power, or something more instinctive, fantasies of submissive women doing whatever we say are prominent. But many -- if not most -- of us want a woman who is at least aggressive in sex.

Especially as some women seem to think being submissive involves having no motivation of their own; it's not just lonely at the top, it's tiring. ("Dammit, show some initiative! That's an order!") I'm reminded of Margaret Cho's line, "I don't know if I'm a bottom because it turns me on, or if I'm a bottom because I'm lazy." Men need a break from playing Alpha sometimes.

Note: Hmm, tried to change the heading for Touch's benefit, but it didn't take.

[Edited on 1/1/2007 12:31 PM]
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Jan 1, 2007 @ 12:16 PM Dominate women..........    
Blondino


Posts: 4,553
amended the heading spelling for you Touch ^
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Jan 1, 2007 @ 3:41 PM Dominate women..........    
The_love_Giant


Posts: 693
I love dominant women. There really hot and there great in bed. I would rather a dominant women then someone that lets me rule in the bedroom.
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Jan 3, 2007 @ 6:51 PM Dominate women..........    
newfie6750


Posts: 1,882
I agree got love a Dominant woman She know what she want
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Jan 3, 2007 @ 7:00 PM Dominate women..........    
Heaveninawildflower


Posts: 18,611
One comment here...just because you're on bottom doesn't mean you can't be alpha...leverage is a wondrous thing.

(And thanks for the spelling correction from me too....aaargh )
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 5:12 AM Dominate women..........    
The_love_Giant


Posts: 693
One comment here...just because you're on bottom doesn't mean you can't be alpha...leverage is a wondrous thing.

I have to agree with Heaveninawildflower
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 5:48 AM Dominate women..........    
tonyuk32


Posts: 42
dominant women are fabulous in the bedroom but a sometimes dominant and sometimes submissive women is so much better after all variety is the spice of life.
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 4:58 PM Dominate women..........    
wiccked


Posts: 12,300
i can be both- just depends on the "mood" i am in!!!!
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Jan 6, 2007 @ 3:35 PM Dominate women..........    
The_love_Giant


Posts: 693
wiccked
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