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Jan 2, 2007 @ 9:21 AM Ladies,do you really do this?    
Thor1960303


Posts: 1,770
Testing David DeAngelo's accuracy here,we've had so much fun with his stuff before.Do you ladies test your men?The following is supposed to be a quote from a woman about tests.Does any of this sound familiar?

Women test guys. That is a fact. Why? In most cases, it is
because we don't want to date some dumbass. In other cases, the
woman just might enjoy jerking guys around - this is probably a type
of woman you want to stay away from.

In my mind, there are good tests and bad tests. Chances are the
crazy psycho/immature girl is going to pull some bad tests on you,
so here are a few to watch out for:

1) The 'blatantly flirting with another guy in front of you' test.

2) The 'getting mad at you for no reason to see how you react' test.

3) The 'yelling at you for checking out another girl to see how you
react' test.

4) The 'canceling a date for no reason' test.

5) The 'getting you really hot while making out but then saying no
to see if you really respect me' test.

There are probably more that you guys know more about, but those are
the ones that pop into my mind right now. But, feel free to make
your own list. I consider most of these either pink or red flags.

VeryBadGirl


I remember this was common when I was in my 20's dating girls in their 20's,yet I've seen it in women in their 30's and 40's as well.Is this really necessary?
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 9:50 AM Ladies,do you really do this?    
pixie2hug


Posts: 101
I have never done any of this or at least knowingly, I have been married, a great deal of my adult life to an abusive guy, so I might have been too afraid, even when we were just dating, but the Pixie of today, prefers open, honest communication to this sort of trickery,or err testing.
Peace, and hugs to all!
Pixie
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 9:59 AM Ladies,do you really do this?    
daisy315


Posts: 4,113
gee. my ex b/f pulled every single on of those on me.. and more..
it's not just ladies that do that.
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 3:37 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
wiccked


Posts: 4,326
i have never done anything like that, EVER!!!!!
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 5:40 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
Loreli


Posts: 19,231
Nope-not me...
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 5:51 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
SunBabe


Posts: 12,007
Good grief, I've never EVER done any of these things in my entire life. How ridiculous, childish and unproductive
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 6:41 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
definitelydi


Posts: 12,602
But...but...this one is SO fun!!!

The 'getting you really hot while making out but then saying no
to see if you really respect me' test.
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 8:43 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
justpat770


Posts: 21
Good grief, I've never EVER done any of these things in my entire life. How ridiculous, childish and unproductive

DITTO ! Very Childish !
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 9:28 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
BandTMom


Posts: 26,396
But...but...I'm not good at tests!!

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Jan 2, 2007 @ 9:58 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
TingleyAllOver


Posts: 152
I agree with Sunbabe and Justpat on the ridiculousness of Mr DeAngelo's supposed test. I have never done any of these things and never will.
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 10:03 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
BandTMom


Posts: 26,396
And I agree also. People who pull this garbage do not deserve our attention.
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 10:06 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
RareQuestor


Posts: 1,400
Hmmm. I notice that it is the older, wiser ladies who deny this. It is my experience that the younger ladies definitely test their men. In a way, it is not surprising since we tend to be insecure when we are young. It takes a certain amount of experience to realize just how foolish this kind of behavior can be.
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 10:36 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
ash_is_unforgetable


Posts: 837
I will admit that I "test" men but my version of the tests aren't as mean and cruel as some of them listed. And no it has nothing to do with being insecure or anything.

*AsH
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 11:01 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
username57


Posts: 1,038
Yes Rare, the older wiser ladies are denying doing this. LMAO! I agree with you the younger ones play a few more games, But I've seen more than one lady my age and older playing that crap. They are gonna be old maids and we are gonna be old farts one day waaay too soon. Why can't we jall ust quit playing childish games and get old together?
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 11:06 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
BandTMom


Posts: 26,396
Sounds like a good idea, User!
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 11:14 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
SunBabe


Posts: 12,007
Well, User, I was never into any sort of games when I was younger OR older..or married. Why, for Pete's sake? If one needs to "test", one musn't have any confidence in EITHER party or the relationship.

Yah, I may spend the rest of my days as an Old Maid, but I won't resort to myself (or someone I'm interested in) playing stupid games...I guess I've always been secure in whomever I've been involved with.
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 11:23 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,683
So, is this going to be an open book test?
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Jan 2, 2007 @ 11:29 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
BandTMom


Posts: 26,396
I was hoping for multiple choice, Touch!!

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Jan 3, 2007 @ 9:24 AM Ladies,do you really do this?    
unluckyinlofe


Posts: 61
I was hopeing it was going to be a practical exam..
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Jan 3, 2007 @ 12:32 PM Ladies,do you really do this?    
beckyiv42000


Posts: 11,680
okay Ill say it .. I was hoping for an ORAL exam I ALWAYS so good on those
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