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| Jan 21, 2007 @ 7:21 PM |
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signme
Posts: 9,590
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Well there are games and then there are GAMES. You have to decide which type is appropriate to play. And I heartily agree with goodidea, hearts and minds are way too fragile to play games with. Is that why we have bodies too??? 
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 8:14 PM |
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myperogative
Posts: 39
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Tests? You mean I might have been being tested and didn't even know it???
Actually when I first begin to talk with someone, especially on the net....I call it "my tests" but its not really a test ( babblebabble) lol
I do have a certain type of man that I am hoping to find and I do have some questions.........
Does questioning constitute testing?
As far as game playing...forget it. Those are really red flags and the answer is always .....RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!
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| Feb 5, 2007 @ 5:24 AM |
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leggyfilly
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ladies,its not tests we need,its standards we need to make for ourselves and stick to them,its easy realy 
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| Feb 5, 2007 @ 10:10 AM |
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HarleysB_WV
Posts: 860
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While I, personally, don't feel the need to test my "date", I know a few women that do. Some of you know my "health" status. I figure if that's test enough for any man that wants to be a part of my life. If they stick around past the "health" explanation, they don't require further testing.......lol
Oh! One friend of mine will actually make up a scenario just to put her potential S.O. through the gamet!! And then when he reacts just like MOST people would react she gets all worked up and upset with him and then tosses him to the curb. LMAO!!!! Some people will just never learn. 
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| Feb 5, 2007 @ 10:51 AM |
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Desserts
Posts: 335
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I have one test, are we having fun. Other than this watch & listen. Testing me wouldn't be fun & I believe in pay back.
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| Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:07 AM |
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Desserts
Posts: 335
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I am not saying this to up my rating, fact is being sensitive is not a plus for a guy in the singles world. It may be I have had to deal with the testing more than the average cause many peple mistake sensitive for being weak. I agree with leggyfilly, have your standards & keep them strong.
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| Feb 5, 2007 @ 2:33 PM |
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momma24
Posts: 390
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I agree with leggyfilly, have your standards & keep them strong.
funny, some of those who are close to me have already told me that I will be single forever because I am not willing to settle for anything less than my standards.
Honest
Loyal
Successful (not earning a high salary necessarily, but has obtained career he desired)
Loves children
Spiritual
and most important...I want a man who stands beside me and my son. I don't want a man who pulls me around, or who needs to be dragged or carried.
my dad laughed and told me I would have to date someone more than half my age to find those qualities...lol. kinda sucks to be "settled" at 24.
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| Feb 6, 2007 @ 8:23 AM |
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MusicMonster
Posts: 2,954
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I think a lot of that sort of thing is pretty common in many relationships, Usually in newer ones I would suggest, where someone isn't completely comfortable with the other and feels the need to test them. Some of it is probably subconscious, but a lot of it goes on. Most of it is based on insecurities in my view. But then there are a lot of insecure people. (some for good reason, others not).
Good to hear that a lot of people here are firmly against it. I am too.
-MM 
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 12:16 AM |
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Moundpuppy
Posts: 27
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I have to agree with you MM I am totally against testing. I feel if I have to be tested in any way then they for sure don't want me around and I walk. I don't need it or want it. First if I say I am with someone I am with them and no one else. I may look at another woman and the woman I am with may look at another man it is only human. I feel if I have to test her then there is no trust and visa versa. with out the trust then there is nothing there. I have one thing I believe in more than anything else. If I give my word in anyway I will not break it no matter what unless I am in a condition I can not change the outcome. and to me a relationship is like giving my word. if you lose everything you have in this world the one thing that will keep is your word as long as you honor it the most. So testing a lady is out of the question for I take them at thier word until they prove otherwise.
Oh have to say the argueing part is something else since the making up can be quite exciting. But to just do it to make a person mad or test them NO.
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 10:30 AM |
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EyesofBlue72660
Posts: 12,795
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1) The 'blatantly flirting with another guy in front of you' test.
2) The 'getting mad at you for no reason to see how you react' test.
3) The 'yelling at you for checking out another girl to see how you react' test.
4) The 'canceling a date for no reason' test.
5) The 'getting you really hot while making out but then saying no to see if you really respect me' test.
My take on the above is.......bottom line - anyone that performs these tests is insecure, immature and needs to realize prom time is over!!!
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:09 AM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 28,435
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^^^
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:14 AM |
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budo13
Posts: 3,085
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yup childish b.s besides i would fail all of them 
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 10:51 PM |
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momma24
Posts: 390
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yup childish b.s besides i would fail all of them
that's ok, you wouldn't want to be with anyone who does that sort of thing anyway, now would ya?!
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 12:05 AM |
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KAOS2007
Posts: 6,679
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If he passes the oral who cares about the rest 
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 12:08 AM |
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momma24
Posts: 390
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/\/\/\/\  good point! /\/\/\/\
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 12:13 AM |
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budo13
Posts: 3,085
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wear do i sign up for the oral exam 
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 5:14 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 21,280
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No I don't,,,  err, what was the question again Alex??
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