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| Jan 15, 2007 @ 11:58 PM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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Hey everyone I have a question........there is this guy I work with and I'm attracted to him. I don't want to have intercourse with him, I only want to perform oral on him. How should I tell him this? Or should I tell him this?
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:06 AM |
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swingpup
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I think you should tell him that.   Tell him no f***y only sucky 
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:08 AM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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how would you recommend i say it to him?
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:15 AM |
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swingpup
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When I'm approached I like to hear the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth so you may desire to try something to the effect of "you know I would like to provide a very satisfying evening of oral pleasure to you" and my response would be or his may be "as long as I have the opportunity to reciprocate."
That should get the hormones in motion. There you have it. Let me know how it turns out. 
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:19 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Just say.... "Ya know dude, I'd REALLY like to give you some head, are you cool with that?"
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:20 AM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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honestly that is what i thought..........something like "has anyone ever told you they just want to give you head"
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:31 AM |
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swingpup
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If you would care to practice before the shindig takes place that could be arranged. I'm most always available for practice sessions 
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:33 AM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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now that is such a huge sacrifice for you 
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:34 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Puppy, it looks like she's lots closer to you, so you can volunteer for the practice sessions (It'll probably take a few at least)
But I get all the west coast head!
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:42 AM |
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swingpup
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Ya know Touch some women they just don't always understand and/or appreciate the sacrifices made by men purely in the name of sex
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:43 AM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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oh of course we understand and appreciate the willingness
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 5:59 AM |
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candylily
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I'm at a complete and total loss here, WantaMan. Why would you want to do just that? That seems completely and totally desperate to me. Are you afraid he would not be interested in having a relationship with you so you're thinking about offering him a blowjob since there's less chance of rejection? Your profile says you want a man who cares about you. Giving oral sex to a man seems like a pretty one-sided deal to me. Most women who offer their services like that expect to be paid in cash. Go ahead and tell him that and I'm sure all the males in your office will want their turn too. You'll be pretty popular for a while.
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 6:28 AM |
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willsmalto
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holy son of a gun! that sounds way too gross to me. don't fool around with your colleagues, woman. how could you even think something like that?
ok, do women get any pleasure giving a man a BJ? all kidding aside but I don't understand why a woman who's attracted to a man wants nothing but go down on him? are we feeling insecure here or what?...I don't get it
It'd sound ok if a man said so, not a gal
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 6:31 AM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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I don't think we are compatible enough to be a in a relationship. It has nothing to do with fear of rejection. So you are telling me you have never just been attracted to someone physically? I don't believe that. Just because I'm a sexual person who enjoys satisfying a man oral does not by any means make me a prostitute, as you so eloquently put it. It just means I'm not afraid to say what I want. Thanks for your input though, that is why I put the question out there, to get all angles.
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 11:12 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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WHYYY am i getting WAWA flashbacks?? 
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 11:49 AM |
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TRS1958
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Just out of curiosity...you say that you are physically attracted to this guy. Why would you think that oral sex is any less of a relationship than intercourse? If you are just out for pleasure or to pleasure him I really don't see any significant difference.
Kinda reminds me of a recent president we had saying...I did not have sex with that woman...as he wipes the slobber off his weenie.
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:15 PM |
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kattsmeow
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^^^ Kinda reminds me of a recent president we had saying...I did not have sex with that woman...as he wipes the slobber off his weenie.
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:39 PM |
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candylily
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Wills, To answer your question as to whether a woman gets pleasure from giving a guy a blowjob, the answer for me is yes, no, and maybe. Yes, I love to do it when I'm with someone I love and/or am in serious lust with. No, I don't want to and won't do it to to anyone I'm not in a relationship with and I would find it completely degrading and disgusting to be used in that way. Maybe I will do it even if I'm not completely in love with the guy if he's very good to me and does everything he can to give me pleasure. I would feel selfish if I didn't, but I only love to do it when I love the guy.
WantaMan, of course, I'm attracted physically to a few men, but that has never in my life made me think "I really want to s**k him". I usually just think I would like to see what he kisses like and I might have an urge to touch him and imagine what it would feel like to be pressed into his chest in a nice long hug. Those are fleeting thoughts and it doesn't get more detailed than that until or if we actually kiss.
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:46 PM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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Well I guess it's good that everyone has different views...that is what makes us unique. Different strokes for different folks and all that.
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| Jan 16, 2007 @ 12:54 PM |
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iwantamantostandbesideme
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I never said that oral sex isn't sex TRS, of course it is. That is a ridiculous thing to say, from the president or anyone else for that matter. I just said I wasn't looking to have intercourse with him, I just want to give him a blow job.
And I don't see how that makes me insecure.....as a matter of fact it makes me secure enough to know what I want.
Once again, no one has to agree with me.....that is why I just put the question out there. If you agree, fine....if you don't, fine.
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