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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:24 PM |
How Much Sex Is Appropriate?
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LipGlossQueen9
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Men, if you were in a relationship with a woman who had virtually no sex drive, what kind of compromise would you come to as to how often you'd make love? I'm talking about a serious relationship, not "dating". At this point, you're in love with the person and your relationship should be about more than just sex, but the girl just doesn't want to do it.
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:26 PM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,527
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if i love her very much, then we can work it out
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:30 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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As much as you want.
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:40 PM |
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tatiana329
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Some of that depends on age, health status too. Some people have medical things going on and do not have a strong sex drive. Others take steriods and other things to make them want to do it all the time. It really has to be something both people are comfortable with. If you base the relationship on sex and something happens where one cannot perform sexually, the relationship is over.
If thats ok with you, then your ok to base a relationship on sex. Lots of people do, they think love is a feeling of butterflies and lust, and they feel they are in love then.
Wouldnt work for me.
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:41 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Well it's often said that sex is vital to a relationship, and if one partner just isn't interested in it at all, and one is very interested in it, don't you think there should be some sort of compromise?
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:53 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Certainly there should be a compromise, a gentleman would limit himself to only once a day.
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:56 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 21,280
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And if he can't, he knows how to "handle it".
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 10:44 AM |
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everrett
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I would hope that the one that was not interested in sex would do other things to take care of the partner that does want it once or twice a week, and have real intercourse at least once every week or two. I can not imagine a person with a high libedo handling less.
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 11:12 AM |
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FattedCalves
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Even a couple defined as sexually active only has sex 2 to 4 times in a MONTH in most cases. Some of the physical and psychological cases may not even do it that often in a year or may be completely uninterested. In those extreme cases, if the couple are otherwise satisfied with each other then the sexually interested partner should take it outside of the relationship. No reason to have someone who is averse to or far less interested in sex being forced to "perform" for the purpose of maintaining some sort of minimal legal requirement or something. Relationships are far more than sex it is true..but you can do EVERYTHING else with a friend or acquaintance.. you can sit on the couch and knit, argue about your relatives, go to Home Depot, hang drapes, and balance checkbooks with the folks from the old age home down the street. If this is what someone is supposed to spend 25 years at the end of their lives doing to satisfy a notion of marital fidelity then it has no real meaning to speak of. To make a claim on someone else's life and body requires that you are offering some sort of satisfaction to that person. If you can't meet their needs and desires within the relationship then those needs will be met outside the relationship. It may ultimately end or destroy the relationship or the couple will agree to go their separate ways.
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 1:12 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Even a couple defined as sexually active only has sex 2 to 4 times in a MONTH in most cases. 
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 1:53 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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once or twice a week,
even that seems like too much.
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 2:58 PM |
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T_i_m
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As often as possible, preferably a few times per week, twice a day on occasion.
I would never get into a relationship (let alone fall in love) with a woman who had virtually no sex drive.
[Edited on 1/20/2007 3:03 PM]
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 2:59 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 21,280
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I have to say, at this point in my life, I like it as much as I can get it. I wasn't always this way though. I love my 40's and am really looking forward to my 50's even. Love and Sex gets better with age!!!!
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 6:16 PM |
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swingpup
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The medical prognosis would be an important factor. She must have had a hell of a sex drive (libido) in the first place or we wouldn't be together. If I was truly madly and deeply in love with her the problem would be worked with physically and/or emotionally as needed.
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 6:20 PM |
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CaNaturalBlonde
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I have a very high sex drive, prefer it every day... morning and night, and afternoons when I'm not working  and I think it's very important for two partners to have similiar libidos.
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 6:22 PM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 28,435
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What's sex??? 
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 6:24 PM |
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CaNaturalBlonde
Posts: 1,809
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^^^^^  I'm hoping it comes back to me, like riding a bicycle 
My bicycle has been in the shed way too long and collecting cobwebs.
[Edited on 1/20/2007 6:25 PM]
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 6:24 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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Let's talk over an iced tea young lady 
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 6:27 PM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,527
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i have too be honest here, i love sex, and can't get enough, hey 17 times a day is good enough for me. but for me too be able too want sex that much, she has too rally turn me on
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 6:27 PM |
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CaNaturalBlonde
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^^^^^ not sure if that was mean't for me or mom, but bring your cobweb duster, big boy! 
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