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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 2:28 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I've noticed that this happens a lot...
There's a man that has a girlfriend...his friends are all going out to the strip club and they invite him. He says "No, I don't want to disrespect my woman like that". Instead of just saying "Hey, that's your loss", the men start making fun of the guy, calling him "pussy-whipped", and saying "hey man come on, she doesn't have to know", or "hey man come she won't get mad at you." Why do they do this?
My ex boyfriend didnt' like to look at porn. Believe it or not, he just didn't. I would invite him to view it with me, his friends would invite him to view it with them..and he didn't want to. However, when he turned down my invitations, I would back off. His friends would not, and they would start calling me controlling.
Why can't you all just back up off your friends when they're trying to show their girls some respect???
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 3:34 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Hm, waiting to hear some answers here. 
It also goes, Why, when you have quit drinking and doing drugs,(called growing up) people around you think youare crazy? Then, you seem to sit home alone at night because everyone is out doing the party thing.
My oldest son is going through this right now. The "guys" think he should be out having fun.( Fun as in drugs, alcohol, and trying to get laid) What does he say? "Been there done that, and don't want to do it again."
Come on guys,,,what is up with this?
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 3:58 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,951
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Come on guys, this is the only male mystery that I feel I need to uncover. Let me know why you do this.
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 4:12 PM |
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robodad
Posts: 7,823
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I'd tell you, but the other guys won't let me 
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 4:18 PM |
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winterrenegade
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believe it or not the guys that i work with think i am strange and gay, just because i don't talk about wanting too go out and get laid, or wanting too beat someone up, let alone because i don't smoke cigs, do drugs or drink.
they believe that that is how the world works, that you have too sleep with every woman you can, get into fights, and sit around drinking and doing drugs.
if you don't talk drugs or alcohol then they don't want anything too do with you.
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 4:30 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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they believe that that is how the world works, that you have too sleep with every woman you can, get into fights, and sit around drinking and doing drugs
What!!! You mean that's NOT how the world works? I better go sit down, my head is spinning....
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 4:44 PM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,528
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sorry too disapoint you touch, but no there is actually a real world outside of that small head of yours. 
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 7:22 PM |
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Aries361
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This kind of thing happens mostly with younger people. It's called immaturity. If guys ever did stuff like that to me I would let them know that they were just being jerks and if they didn't like it they could stay away from me. I guess I lost some jerk friends that way. No big deal.
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 7:59 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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sorry too disapoint you touch, but no there is actually a real world outside of that small head of yours
Well OK, as long as it's just the small head.
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 8:17 PM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,528
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dude you got a very dirty mind 
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 8:26 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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dude you got a very dirty mind
So do I, apparently.  I thought made that joke on purpose (it WAS a good one, btw)
And what Aries said. "Maturity". It just takes some people (~ahem~ ok, mostly guys) YEARS to reach that stage (if they haven't died from all the drinkin', drugs and gettin' laid the wrong way before they reach that stage  )
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 9:09 PM |
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robodad
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"Maturity". It just takes some people (~ahem~ ok, mostly guys) YEARS to reach that stage I'm almost at that stage... 
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 10:21 PM |
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Strandedboarder
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There's a man that has a girlfriend...his friends are all going out to the strip club and they invite him. He says "No, I don't want to disrespect my woman like that". Instead of just saying "Hey, that's your loss", the men start making fun of the guy, calling him "pussy-whipped", and saying "hey man come on, she doesn't have to know", or "hey man come she won't get mad at you." Why do they do this?
Oh you silly girl...the reason is obvious!
It's a man thing 
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 10:36 PM |
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TRS1958
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Actually, it's not a man thing...it's a boy thing.
Men have respect and show respect. Boys on the other hand...don't even know the definition of the word respect.
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 11:17 PM |
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Strandedboarder
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It's a man thing.
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 11:32 PM |
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tatiana329
Posts: 1,122
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I have to agree withg TRS.
Some men will always be boys and sometimes men are men. If you make sure you have a man and not a boy, there would be none of this nonsense.
Life is just too short for this kinda thing of peer pressure to act dumb and not respect people who love and care for us.
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| Jan 31, 2007 @ 12:00 AM |
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willsmalto
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did she say "men" or "friends" lol....theres no pressure here when it comes to friends( tho theres sometimes) cos my friends are those we have a lot in common.
But if and when theres an emergency or something worth doing than indulging myself into the things we share in common, I just go for it. if my "friends" are real friends, they'll get it...except they're jerks and thats when I start questioning our friendship.
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| Jan 31, 2007 @ 1:00 AM |
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Dragonfaerie
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It's a Macho , Manly ... wanta be cool knida thing . LG
( sex , drugs , rock n' roll )
I can tell you ' a lot ' of things about guys , send me a letter sometimes.
Thanks
DF
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| Jan 31, 2007 @ 3:04 AM |
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Always_Striving
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He is not part of the pack anymore, most young guys (me too btw) would call it {{{VAGINISED}}}. The same syndrome happens to all of my friends that get married. 
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| Feb 1, 2007 @ 12:07 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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This sounds like a bunch of high school BS to me. I do what I wanna do, and if I don't want to go someplace, I don't. If somebody started giving me shit about it, they'd get told to leave and not return.
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