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Feb 26, 2007 @ 3:24 PM CASUAL SEX    
jasonbriggs


Posts: 3
was just wondering why men and women just cant get together and do it??? y does there have to be all the shit in between if your not looking for a long term relationship?????
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Feb 26, 2007 @ 4:47 PM CASUAL SEX    
Laidback742


Posts: 4,679
If thats what 2 people want, go for it .... thats up to them .... but .... many people don't feel that way about it .... I've had enough one-nighters in my life, its not something I want anymore .... whatever works for you.
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Feb 26, 2007 @ 7:45 PM CASUAL SEX    
shellsmack1


Posts: 852
We were made to be one and that is what sex does. If you don't want the unity don't make the connection. Now don't get me wrong, I've had my share, but in my heart this is how I believe.
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Feb 26, 2007 @ 8:12 PM CASUAL SEX    
AngelLight


Posts: 5,620
Men and women can get together and do whatever they want....do what you wish....seek and you can easily find what you're looking for or need at this time in your life.

Some might feel that "all the shit in between" is something called communion....come, union.....and it is worth everything, in between two people.
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Feb 26, 2007 @ 8:52 PM CASUAL SEX    
blueyes101


Posts: 12,080
I sometimes have to remind myself that "just sex " would not be alright. I mean it sounds good and all,,,,,,,,,but I still remember ,the feeling the morning after.....and that has to be 20 -25 years ago.........I guess you miss the closeness, and in the end, that is exactly what you don't get..........That it actually means something.......
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 1:07 AM CASUAL SEX    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
y does there have to be all the shit in between ....

Uh....cuz someone didn't wipe???? Just a guess.....
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 1:36 AM CASUAL SEX    
bevrice


Posts: 11,141
Well, I guess you can do that if sex means nothing to you but recreation, if you like empty meaningless sex, if you don't mind waking up the next morning wondering why you did it, if you don't mind worrying about stds because the person you had casual sex with has probably done the same with at least a dozen other people. Lol, you say you wear condoms? During oral sex?

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Feb 27, 2007 @ 2:03 AM CASUAL SEX    
SunBabe


Posts: 12,279
[Allegedly] 18 years years old and he's looking for casual sex through the internet?
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 6:32 AM CASUAL SEX    
Laidback742


Posts: 4,679
Imagine that, Sunny ..... most of them just want boob pics.
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 6:43 AM CASUAL SEX    
daisy315


Posts: 4,946
considering the consequences of having one nighters.. most folks these days are wise enough to know that it just ain't worth catching something you can't get rid of.. or possibly dieing from..
when I was working in the medical field, the majority of my AIDS patients were infected by one-nighters. It's pretty sad when you don't know the last name of the person that is responsible for your impending death.
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 9:27 AM CASUAL SEX    
shellsmack1


Posts: 852
Casual sex is destructive, not only to the body, but to the mind and heart.
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 2:36 PM CASUAL SEX    
GibsonGirl93


Posts: 1,162
I think it's different for everyone. As much as I'd like to be a love em and leave em.....I care too much about people and their feelings, etc., to do that....But it really doesn't bother some people....Just depends.......
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 3:39 PM CASUAL SEX    
jasonbriggs


Posts: 3
i didnt say i was lookin for it i was wondering
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 5:34 PM CASUAL SEX    
tinylion76


Posts: 11
I think the reason that all the shit in between happens is because men tend to not be upfront. They lay it on thick, act like they are interested in more than just sex just to get the girl in the sack.
Men don't seem to understand that maybe being honest doesn't work as often, however, maybe if you tried just saying," look, I think you are hot and I want to get down your pants, are you game? But I'm not looking for anything serious. "
you'd have less of the "shit inbetween".
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Feb 27, 2007 @ 11:33 PM CASUAL SEX    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
I think it's rather dangerous to generalize like that, and I do my best not to do it. The presumption there is that "ALL MEN" are as you described. I, for one, have never been one to feign interest in a woman just to get her in bed. If I display interest, it's genuine. And it NEVER means that we have to make it to the boudoir. On the contrary, if SHE displays an interest in being physically intimate at too early a stage in the relationship, I'll politely decline, turn, and then run for the hills......just the opposite of your generalization, would you not agree?
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Feb 28, 2007 @ 12:18 AM CASUAL SEX    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,699
You're right! I prefer sex to be tense and rigid, with lots of rules. Who wants casual sex with no rules? Why people might even do it with the lights on and in an unapproved position!
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Feb 28, 2007 @ 12:22 AM CASUAL SEX    
shellsmack1


Posts: 852
no way
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Feb 28, 2007 @ 12:27 AM CASUAL SEX    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
Touch - you're on a roll tonight!!!!!

I always wear my best tuxedo while I'm having sex.
I just have no interest whatsoever in casual sex.
Ah...but FORMAL sex - that's another matter entirely!
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Feb 28, 2007 @ 12:28 AM CASUAL SEX    
shellsmack1


Posts: 852
what an erotic vision
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Feb 28, 2007 @ 12:32 AM CASUAL SEX    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
^^^^^

I would imagine it kinda looks like a penguin doing it!
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