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| Feb 28, 2007 @ 12:33 AM |
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shellsmack1
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wasn't there a thread somewhere about men hanging their weenies out of their zippers in suits?
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 11:10 AM |
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tinylion76
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I'm sorry, I should have been more specific. That seems to be a trend of men more in my age range and younger.
I reiterate my comment of ALL MEN to SOME MEN. Better now? 
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 10:43 PM |
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shellsmack1
Posts: 852
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TINY...don't even worry about it, men will always come back with Don't Categorize Me and Not All Men...so no matter how you put it they'll have something to say about it.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 11:50 PM |
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blueyes101
Posts: 12,934
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I"M NOT LIKE ANY OTHER MAN............I'm just .......me......with a ......dirty mind, and slightly perverted.................Oh.....OOOPS.....................   
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 12:12 AM |
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emptypages
Posts: 1,014
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Don't categorize ME! I'm not like other guys, I'm special! 
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 7:32 PM |
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LibidinistLady
Posts: 814
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Back in the olden days, a one-nighter was either cured with a couple of shots or a nine month delay. I sure don't have to worry about the 9 month problem but I have yet to see a guy that I'm willing to have sex with that is worth dying for.
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 8:06 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,807
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I think when a person of either gender is younger, the carefree hormone-induced infatuation takes hold.
When many people get older, they just think a little more about where the rest of their life is going.
Me-I would hope it to be going with someone there is mutual and lifelong infatuation ...
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 8:11 PM |
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Laidback742
Posts: 4,790
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Pick me Loreli ..... pick me, pick me!
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 8:15 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,807
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 10:28 PM |
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lynnielou
Posts: 2,774
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These days there is no such thing as "casual sex". I'd rather hold out for the "right" one instead of bed hopping. Just my opinion! Monogamy isn't so bad! 
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| Mar 4, 2007 @ 11:18 AM |
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Thor1960303
Posts: 3,555
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I think casual sex is just fine for some people as I don't buy into the romantic and quaint concept that "there is someone for everyone".There are quite a few people that actually are best if they live alone and remain alone.Must these people be condemned to a life of celibacy for the notion of someone else's morals?
Men don't seem to understand that maybe being honest doesn't work as often, however, maybe if you tried just saying," look, I think you are hot and I want to get down your pants, are you game? But I'm not looking for anything serious. "
you'd have less of the "shit inbetween".
I don't think we'll ever see a time when it's possible for a man to just walk up to a woman and say,"I think you're hot,let's have sex"without getting slapped 99% of the time.The old "reputation" thing has persisted in spite of the sexual revolution and women,in general,even if they are into casual sex still like to be stimulated with mystery and seduction,so you're always gonna have that "shit between the two of them".
The scenario you describe of honesty will only work about 1% to maybe 3% of the time it's tried.I've known guys who used this approach based on those stats.They come right out and ask for sex and they usually get slapped,living for the hope that they'll eventually run across that 1% to 3%.I've yet to know a single one of them to get laid from any woman other than a hooker.Hence this "dishonesty" you speak of.
It is for this reason the double standard of "promiscous woman = slut,promiscous man= stud" persists as the above scenario doesn't work for guys,but will certainly work for women at least 95% of the time.
Casual sex is destructive, not only to the body, but to the mind and heart.
There's a woman on another one of these sites that's well versed on biochemistry in the brain.She's done studies on this and sex morality trends.While she agrees there is a "trade off" she doesn't outright call it "destructive" but says that there is a definite biochemical connection between society's acceptance of things like casual sex and homosexuality and the need to populate.So if you look at the current population of the planet and how society is no longer largely agrarian where families needed more kids to work the farm,it makes sense that other moralities where the primary focus for sex is NOT reproduction,it becomes apparent why these "new moralities" are now more accepted.She feels that we will see a time of even more acceptance in spite of the fact that the current state of std's and such seems to have brought about a revival of "old morality".
Well, I guess you can do that if sex means nothing to you but recreation, if you like empty meaningless sex, if you don't mind waking up the next morning wondering why you did it
Never woke up the next morning wondering why I "did it",it was always very apparent and obvious why I did it.I was horny and got lucky,end of story.Must there always be more to it?Sometimes a cigar is JUST a cigar.
you say you wear condoms? During oral sex?
Ever heard of flavored condoms?Fact is most prostitutes these days INSIST on condoms during oral sex.
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| Mar 4, 2007 @ 4:06 PM |
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Chevy1
Posts: 63
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Tell you what...
You ELIMINATE the double-standard that exists: Women who mess around are pigs and the men who mess around are studs.
Then you ELIMINATE billions of people's up-bringing : Those who were raised to respect themselves/others and have pride, decency and morals.
Then you ELIMINATE any and all personal and sexual preferences so that everyone is attracted to everyone/anyone else no matter what....
AFTER THAT IT'D BE ALL-OUT FCUKIN TIME.
You got kids? How young you think they should be before they're included in your scheme? 
Oh, and don't let it worry you about all the MORE unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases there'd be.
Personally - it makes me sick just to think about it. 
For those Legal, Consenting Adults who believe in casual sex - go for it.
But just like Religion - STOP trying to force your beliefs on everyone else.
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| Mar 4, 2007 @ 4:18 PM |
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Thor1960303
Posts: 3,555
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But just like Religion - STOP trying to force your beliefs on everyone else.
Who is trying to force anything on you?My concept of "sexual freedom" is just that.Being free to choose celibacy,monogamy or any of the other myriad lifestyles in between.
I'm like everyone else, simply voicing my own opinion.
You got kids? How young you think they should be before they're included in your scheme?
What scheme?
[Edited on 3/4/2007 4:26 PM]
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| Mar 4, 2007 @ 4:26 PM |
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wiccked
Posts: 12,305
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i have chosen celibacy 
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| Mar 4, 2007 @ 4:35 PM |
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luvmycats
Posts: 10,212
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[QUOTE]i have chosen celibacy [QUOTE]
Don't know whats worse Wiccked. You choosing it, or IT choosing me.
Sucks to be us, huh? Uhhh...errr.....bad choice of words? 
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| Mar 4, 2007 @ 4:49 PM |
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Thor1960303
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The key word is CHOICE.As long as it's your own choice,you have no reason to feel like it's an inferior choice because others may not like it.You're the one who has to look yourself in the mirror everyday,not anyone else.
I don't feel that any one person's choice is any better or worse than anyone else's.It's a big world and it takes all kinds to make it.People choose celibacy for many reasons and if it works for you,that's cool.Yay for choice! 
That's why I feel sometimes I have to speak in favor of folks who may choose casual sex,polyamory or any of the other lifestyles that deviate from what many consider social norms.What works for one person may not work for another.Some people just don't see that and feel that they must get on a moral high horse.I don't think sexual lifestyles among consenting legal adults is a moral issue as long as no one is forced or coerced into anything they don't want.
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| Mar 5, 2007 @ 12:54 AM |
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blueyes101
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Casual sex between two consenting adults is totally different, than "hooking up" in highschool and even college. When we are younger we do not have the experience or the emotion control you have as an adult. If you took a trip, and met someone really fantastic would sex be out of the question simply because a relationship is unlikely due to your family/job and their family/job. I realize it is not the ideal situation, but I would much rather meet someone and explore thy inner self, than waiting for the perfect person and just plain be lonely and longing for that feeling. I honestly believe that some adults can explor these feelings, but I guess I still would not consider that casual either.
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| Mar 5, 2007 @ 3:16 AM |
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Spirit76
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was just wondering why men and women just cant get together and do it??? y does there have to be all the shit in between if your not looking for a long term relationship?????
Hmmm... Everyone likes a fun fling now and then, but for real satisfaction, you find one woman and focus on her to the exclusion of all else... she will certainly bring you unexpected pleasures and surprises that you can only dream of, if you will just love her as she is...
Spirit
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| Mar 5, 2007 @ 2:50 PM |
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Thor1960303
Posts: 3,555
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Casual sex between two consenting adults is totally different, than "hooking up" in highschool and even college. When we are younger we do not have the experience or the emotion control you have as an adult
Personally I think kids just need to put their hormones on the shelf for awhile and let their brains and hearts catch up to their sex organs and grow up before they start having sex.Either casual or relationship type.There's way too much they need to focus on just growing up,i.e. school,career and such.I've seen kids really mess themselves up getting into stuff they weren't ready for.
Consenting,legal adults on the other hand,do what you want as long as all partnes concerned are also legal,consenting adults.
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| Mar 6, 2007 @ 8:56 AM |
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lovable_bear
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Personally, I wouldn't have casual sex with someone I just picked up in a bar. I have, however, on more than one occasion had sex with a female friend with no strings attached. The closeness can still be there if there is cuddling time afterwards.
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