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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 9:33 AM |
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Magickman
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Sexless dating is... well, you all know what sexless dating is.
More to the point, is sexless dating something that you would be willing to partake in?
I do not mean, would you go on a date or two with someone, where no sex was involved.
My question is directed to the willingness for participation in an ongoing dating relationship, that does not include sex.
I do not want to be unfair to the virgin population among us, but the question is best asked of those, who have at least some sexual experience. That is, once you have had sex, would you willingly go without?
Could you sublimate your sexual feelings and desires, with a regular dating partner, and indefinitely forgo sexual intercourse?
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 10:27 AM |
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willsmalto
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I, personally, do not date women just for the purpose of sex. There's a lot more than just sex. who doesn't enjoy having a decent, productive, informative, therapeutic( you name it) conversation with a beautiful woman over a delicious meal?
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 2:06 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,943
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Yes, I would do it.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 3:20 PM |
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swingpup
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Could you sublimate your sexual feelings and desires, with a regular dating partner, and indefinitely forgo sexual intercourse?
Key word indefinitely. To enjoy the company of a truly communicative, beautiful, intellectually stimulating woman is in itself intellectual intercourse at it's finest. Now add to that actual sexual intimacy you have a hellish package.
If one is receiving satisfying sexuality per other women then yes, such rendezvous could be indefinite without the sexual aspect based solely on the intellectual content.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 3:26 PM |
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wiccked
Posts: 12,300
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well, i dont date-
so, that let's out
sex-still holding
on to my MOTTO !!!!
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 4:18 PM |
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NeverB4Alone
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 4:24 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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But aren't you just friends hanging out? How is it true "dating" to stay that way?
If I am seriously looking for a relationship, the sexless part might be at the beginning, but not a continuous thing.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:01 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
Posts: 6,699
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Lorili just stole my thunder, I was going to say the same thing, if there is no sex involved, doesn't it just become a going out with a friend thing, instead of a date? I know that I have women friends that I occasionally go out and do things with, and there is no sex, or even thoughts about sex involved, we just enjoy each other's company.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:04 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 22,568
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Does anyone remember the days of no sex dating????
Of course I have did it. Going on a date doesn't mean sex.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:09 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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Sure, Katt-so did I. 
The OP said not just one or two-, and indefinitely. 
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 8:04 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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Could you sublimate your sexual feelings and desires, with a regular dating partner, and indefinitely forgo sexual intercourse? In a word - YES.
Imagine if you will being with someone that so captures your heart that you can not imagine being with anyone else. And imagine further that for whatever reason, sexual intercourse was not to be a part of the relationship until perhaps - perhaps - sometime very far down the road. Yet...you can't imagine ever enjoying someone's company more. The feelings you have for her are like none you've ever experienced, and you know without a doubt that she feels the same way about you. You're so intimately connected on a mental, emotional, and spiritual level that you feel as if the two of you are one. Yet there is no sex. Are you willing to STOP seeing someone that you enjoy THAT kind of connection with, simply because there is no sex in the relationship? (Plenty of 'sexual tension', just no actual sex.) Would you stop seeing that person - or would you continue as is indefinitely, simply because there is no one in the world that could ever be that incredibly perfect?
Sex and love are not mutually exclusive. Nor are they mutually INclusive. Yet, when you have met perfection, and have given your heart completely to her, sex becomes incredibly secondary to the love you share.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 8:30 PM |
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NatureGal745
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I've been on both sides of the fence, and from experience, I can assure you that although sex is great (at least I remember it was.  ) ??? The mental and intellectual connection is waaaay more exciting !! You can have intimacy without sex, and sex without intimacy...but I'd take intimacy and caring over sexual expectations any day. 
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
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JesterDrawers
Posts: 11,116
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^^^^^^^ 
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 8:55 PM |
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BandTMom
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Great post, Jester! I totally agree!
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 8:57 PM |
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JesterDrawers
Posts: 11,116
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Thanks, mom....a bit of personal experience there.....but that's ALL I'm sayin'! 
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 9:02 PM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 37,948
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You're welcome! 
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 12:17 AM |
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emptypages
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right on to Loreli's first post. At some point in a relationship (unless somethings wrong with you) you will want to do it! If not, it's just like being friends. Part of intimacy is a sexual relationship.
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 12:09 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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Imagine if you will being with someone that so captures your heart that you can not imagine being with anyone else. And imagine further that for whatever reason, sexual intercourse was not to be a part of the relationship until perhaps - perhaps - sometime very far down the road.
I agree, Jester, that sex should not be the driving point behind a relationship. I have 2 males in my life, that have been part of my life in every way but sex. And they mean the world to me.
But I just don't want to sleep with them, they know that, so we remain "friends"
I do admire your thoughts, though!
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 12:20 PM |
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wiccked
Posts: 12,300
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ok ! i an going to 'fess up! i sleep with 3 men every night!! there! now you know.....their names are BEN, Arthur, and Charlie  as in, BENGAY, ARTHURITIS, and CHARLIEHORSE !!!!!! 
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 11:25 PM |
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MedinaMan
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Sexless dating=bowling.
jus' sayin' 
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