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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 4:18 AM |
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theobono
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Unless you agree apon going dutch? Then why call it a date at that point? And there's nothing wrong with hangin out with plutonic opposite sex friends....but there's always that sexual tension that is never there when it's just the guys? I find it easier to deal with Plutonic situations within the confines of a group situation. And I think the definition of plutonic....non sexual relationship.... is between two members of opposite sex where there's not a mutual sexual desire. Because let's face it sex is fun and if you think she's hot and she thinks your hot what's stopping you from pursuing it?  Lame excuse #1 It'll ruin the friendship....that's bullshit. How many relationships started out as friends? The sex doesn't ruin it there are usually factors other than sex that ruin it.....so again it's late...i'm on my second latte of the night and I've lost track of my point???? 
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 4:29 AM |
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painter007
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ahhhhhhhhhhh the group game....
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 4:47 AM |
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medisynergi
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Of course it is possible.
It is called communication.
When you communicate anything is possible.
Most are particular about who they share sex with, and thus once it becomes a need, what each is asking is can I depend on you to relate to those intimacy needs.
It is a deep issue that requires a lot of soul searching to understand. Friends are great wonderwalls for soul searching.
Friends are the ones who prepare you so you can meet the One.
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| Apr 18, 2007 @ 10:31 AM |
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Antoinette8
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It is a deep issue that requires a lot of soul searching to understand. Friends are great wonderwalls for soul searching.
Friends are the ones who prepare you so you can meet the One.
In what way?
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:45 AM |
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theobono
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You dont want to be so particaular that you exclude everybody or do you ???
who ever said that sex destroyed communication and spiritual conection?
the One....? limited minds
I think you people are affraid of sex
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 1:19 PM |
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painter007
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I think there would be more sex happening...its just not enough people are meeting.
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 2:42 PM |
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twotall911
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afraid  never
its just not enough people are meeting. --most are too far away 
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 3:01 PM |
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medisynergi
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Going dutch??
Women can pay for the date just as men can.
My question is would women be expecting sex, if they paid for the date. If not, then pay for it. I am not saying that all men who pay are expecting sex, there are some who just like the company.
sex will spoil the friendship. Yeah, I have heard that before and once I hear it, exit left stage.
There are some that you cant touch in that way, no matter what, even if she wants to. so I am guessing it flows the same way.
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 5:15 PM |
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lj450
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I usually take the opposite approach........I dont date the girls I want to have sex with.
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:24 PM |
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medisynergi
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essentially, it is your choice.
If you choose to date and not have sex, you stand a better chance of having sex. however you have to know, that if it doesnt happen you have to be ok with that as well.
when you go into the situation with a totally sexless attitude, all of a sudden it becomes less of an issue and thus happens more often. strange but true.
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:33 PM |
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painter007
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I can pay my way...and not have sex...He can pay my way and not have sex why is it that this all has to be centered around the outcome of sex?
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:39 PM |
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Loreli
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 Painter.
Good point.
I still think it is more of a friendship than "dating", but I will agree people with medical problems, maybe the elderly might consider it dating. JMO. But I'm thinking more in the long term...
It really is up to the 2 involved. That's all that matters.
[Edited on 4/19/2007 6:45 PM]
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:42 PM |
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lj450
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I can pay my way...and not have sex...He can pay my way and not have sex why is it that this all has to be centered around the outcome of sex?
No, the bigger question is.......why is it always about money?
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:48 PM |
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painter007
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good point.. I mean I dig sex just as much as anyone else (ok maybe more when I have a sweetie) but sex and money pressures ruin alot.....I try to go out with the feeling of whatever happens happens.....
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:51 PM |
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medisynergi
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Both sex and money have a material effect on your life.
If you have 50 dates and spend an average of $20, that is $1000.00.
sure you can have an O by yourself, but it is much more fun as a couple.
A material effect has value. value improves your life.
The other value is spirituality.
spirituality, sex and money are the most debated issues, and most relationships will center around them in some way.
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:53 PM |
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Loreli
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What? We aren't suppose to pay ourselves when we do it alone?
Crap, I coulda saved a bunch of money!
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 6:58 PM |
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FeliciVagano
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MJ would just buy more shoes.... 
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 7:28 PM |
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Shortiaintlying
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I mean I dig sex just as much as anyone else (ok maybe more when I have a sweetie) lol ya been hanging out with jester way to much thats just fing funny
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| Apr 21, 2007 @ 11:07 PM |
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Lanierthrill73
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I am only willing to wait so long because I need to know if there is sexual chemistry between us...just because you care about each other doesn't mean it will work in the bedroom...For instance I was dating an Asian lady last year and waited several months trying to be patient, only to find out we couldnt really have sex at all because I was too big for her.
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| Apr 14 @ 9:04 PM |
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butterfly1966
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I am a female with Intersistial cyctistis which is a painful bladder condition, so anytime I have intercourse in 24 hours I feel like I was kicked in the pelvic. So a sexless relationship I could do, I can enjoy oral, there must be men out there that are impedent due to surgery or medications or even accidents that render them incapable of getting an erection so would be perfect for me. Sounds strange but I am a woman that would prefer a sexless relationship, love affection and cuddling but not leading to more than just that.
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