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Apr 26 @ 8:03 PM Sexless dating    
ThisIsJustaTestoo


Posts: 28
Is there such a thing?
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Apr 26 @ 8:51 PM Sexless dating    
10zie


Posts: 174
Yes, there is such a thing. I've done it many times and will probably do it many more. It was not so long ago...no really, it wasn't...when that's just the way it was done.

I think it's too easy for a relationship these days to be concentrated around the sex, leaving the fact that you're not right for one another to come out some undetermined time in the future.

I'd rather to do my homework, before turning it in!
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Apr 26 @ 8:59 PM Sexless dating    
thor22


Posts: 3,350
I'd go "sexless" as long as she wanted me too...untill she sez the time is right...sorry, ladies, its just me, jihey!
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Apr 26 @ 10:37 PM Sexless dating    
signme


Posts: 12,578
I think it depends on the people involved and the situation. There is a time and place for sex but all dates do not have to revolve around it.
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Apr 26 @ 10:51 PM Sexless dating    
secondseason


Posts: 1
I have been without sex for 12 yrs & think it is fine. Before my loving husband died he felt bad because his meds rendered him impotent. He worried that he was not being a good husband. He was a wonderful husband & I hope someday to find another loving mate.....who is not in need of sex as a way to affirm our love.
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Apr 30 @ 4:48 PM Sexless dating    
SugarDaddy62


Posts: 87
secondseason, you deserve a freakin' medal hun!!!

Seriously, sexless dating??? I really didn't know that existed anymore. I know it don't exist in MY life. lol
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May 14 @ 10:34 PM Sexless dating    
lj450


Posts: 9,550
Sexless dating.....


I would rather just go give my money to some homeless people.

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May 15 @ 9:32 PM Sexless dating    
pamdemonium


Posts: 17,347
Isn't sexless dating a lot like being married?
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May 15 @ 9:41 PM Sexless dating    
hotdognchilli


Posts: 3,784
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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May 31 @ 1:29 AM Sexless dating    
newlife2006


Posts: 859
If a couple don't enjoy spending time together without having sex , it's the greatest "red flag" ever - i.e. clear sign that they shouldn't be having sex , anyway.
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May 31 @ 1:51 AM Sexless dating    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737
Sexless Dating?.....tried it for years, didn't like it. Bring on the Monkey Love any day.
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May 31 @ 12:40 PM Sexless dating    
Cyn1966


Posts: 31
Why not?
I mean too many ppl put sex as a focal point in a relationship & if something happens that sex cannot happen (health, accident, et cetera... ) the relationship dies.
If you can get along dating without sex then eventually you can choose take it to that level and I imagine it would be beyond your wildest dreams.
Sex should be a nice additive to a great relationship. Not the starting/focal point.
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Jun 25 @ 12:59 PM Sexless dating    
cusacklookalike


Posts: 11
I think people are missing the "indefinately" part,

if I was dating a woman, and something happened to her ( or me) which made sex impossible, I would hope I would be able to still keep a relationship with her. It would be difficult, but manageable, I think


that being said, why would someone that's healthy decided to withhold sex forever?! Sex isn't everything in a relationship but it matters. I don't believe in rushing into sex, but eventually if I'm with someone romantically I want the option to be with them sexually
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Jun 25 @ 2:34 PM Sexless dating    
newlife2006


Posts: 859
And why not?
Dating hardly equals promiscuity. It's nothing but two people enjoying spending time together - i.e. activity partners ( rather than sex -partners).For example - if a person has decent table manners and is a good conversationist - he might make a fabulous dining partner.
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Jun 27 @ 6:19 AM Sexless dating    
Always_Striving


Posts: 8,794
What kind of a stupid thread is this?

You should be talking about submerging your hand into ice water then taking it out to smack your dates bare bottom until it is stinging red.

That kind of thing is still done on the first date these days isn't it?
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Jun 30 @ 6:26 PM Sexless dating    
CowboyX


Posts: 613
You have to define what "sex" is. Intercourse, or any type of sexual activity (e.g., Bill and Monica)?

At this point in my life, I think the answer would be no. My first gf and I never did "it", but there was a lot of heavy petting involved.

That was many years ago. Now, it's the question for me is not whether we will do it, but how good is the sex?
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Jul 1 @ 7:37 PM Sexless dating    
burnslikethesun


Posts: 13,027
Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.
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Jul 1 @ 8:50 PM Sexless dating    
uab_5


Posts: 4,759
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Jul 1 @ 8:56 PM Sexless dating    
chubs


Posts: 2,534



I think me and bad-angel would be pretty good sexless dating partners!
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Jul 1 @ 10:51 PM Sexless dating    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737
OK, who's the evil person that even put those two words "together"? C'mon, show yourself!

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