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Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?


Mar 17, 2007 @ 6:23 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
funguy4you2


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Every girl I've ever been with controls whether or not there is sex. More than 1 has told me that they 'have' the center of the world and that they control whether or not I or any man gets it. What is up with that?
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 6:54 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
Shortiaintlying


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pick better?

when im in with a lover, the sex life is uncontrollable. theres a mutual want, need even for each others touch. sure theres times when they are the last thing you want to touch but this passes.

even the thought thats theres one to be in "control" is a scarey thought. I wouldn't want to ever control my lover. I want to share what she brings to our bed. exclusively of course. its a gift, not a role or position to fill.



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Mar 17, 2007 @ 7:09 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
dooney123


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theres a mutual want, need even for each others touch

Promises, promises, Short.
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 7:11 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
Shortiaintlying


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lol to cute,

anything less though would be a rape. whether it mind body or soul.

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Mar 17, 2007 @ 7:13 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
BandTMom


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I've never tried to control it. When I with someone I love, i want it as much a he does.

Sex is not a game or a reward....it is an experience to be shared!
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 7:15 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
sensualrenegade


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my man controlled the sex >.>
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 7:15 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
Thor1960303


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when im in with a lover

That's your operative phrase here.WITH a LOVER.If seeking one,it is the female who has to be receptive for there to be sex,otherwise the woman is not a lover but a rape victim.

In a perfect world it would always be based on mutual attraction.We know it's far from a perfect world.
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 7:29 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
JesterDrawers


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If you're "making love" with your significant other, there should be no issue of control. Each is mutually interested in loving and pleasing the other.

If it's "just sex", however:
Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?
THAT, my friend, is the first lesson in Economics 101.
The simple law of supply and demand.
Men are in charge of the demand.
Women are in charge of the supply.

And if the supply is to meet the demand - it's gonna cost you!!!!!
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 7:35 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
BandTMom


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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:16 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
Shortiaintlying


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lol and then theres jester and a healthy dose of reality.

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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:19 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
painter007


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my older son asked me about a month ago if all women try to control the men....I told him no......she only will if the man allows her to.
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:22 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
wiccked


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[Edited on 3/17/2007 9:31 PM]
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:24 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
everrett


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When libedos dont match things can get bad for the person with the higher sex drive.
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:27 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
painter007


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Good point Everrett....but then compromise can come into play.
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:37 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
JesterDrawers


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my older son asked me about a month ago if all women try to control the men....I told him no......she only will if the man allows her to.
This is an interesting observation, insofar as I've always thought that the man was in control - only when and so far as the woman allows him to be!!!!
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:39 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
Shortiaintlying


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or the lower drive ev.
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:41 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
painter007


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Interesting........Jester......maybe as we get older we lay down our arms.........
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 8:42 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
JesterDrawers


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maybe....it's a good start......lay down our arms......lay down our legs......lay down our....well, me thinks you know where I'm going! LOL Coming with me?
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 9:29 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
blueyes101


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It has been my experience, that even if him/her was not in the mood, once you start fooling around a little, being playful, it doesn't take long for some romantic feelings to follow, and when you have a give and take relationship, it all evens out eventually. My biggest problem is when a woman uses sex to get what she wants, unless of course I want the same thing.
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Mar 17, 2007 @ 9:37 PM Why do Women get to have all the CONTROL in whether or not there will be sex?    
signme


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I never feel like I have all the control. I feel like we share it and that's how it should be.
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