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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:07 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
polkcountyguy24


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Hi there i wanted to know if your dating someone or married to them is it ok to have sex with other parters even if its ok when the two of you or would it still be wrong ? to do it
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:15 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
Snappygoddess


Posts: 5,100
It's called infidelity and IMHO it's wrong if you are married or dating exclusively.
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:16 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
KAOS2007


Posts: 8,201
IF it's ok with the two of you, then you're commonly referred to as swingers. Why anyone goes into a committed relationship and then has sex with other people makes me , but that's another can of worms.

What's right or wrong in your world is different than mine. Guess you have to make your own call in relation to your situation.
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:18 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
sweet5red


Posts: 9,704
sorry but I dont share......... either way.. if you are married its wrong.. and if you are a couple it is wrong too just my opinion.. like i said i dont share.. Sweet N Louisiana
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:19 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
tc2356


Posts: 5,571
I wouldn't want to be married to someone who wants to have sex with others....hell just join a singles club.......for me marriage is unconditional love , not unconditional sex with others and that goes for dating.....huck huck huck.....think about wants lurks out there.........NOT ME
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:29 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
polkcountyguy24


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im not into that myself i was only asking cause a friend of mine she said it was ok to do that stuff and i told her it was not right so she got mad at me so i came on here to ask and see how others feel about it too i dont believe in cheating or sleeping around when im with someone
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:32 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
truegent65000


Posts: 209
Hi there i wanted to know if your dating someone or married to them is it ok to have sex with other parters even if its ok when the two of you or would it still be wrong ? to do it

No it isn't okay. Adultery is adultery no matter how you rationlize it.

For one, what's the point of being married, if you're going to have sex with other people? Might as well stay single, and be a player, taking women home from bars every weekend, and so on.

Leave that to the single male players who bang other single women and vice-versa.
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:33 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
Goodness_Gracie


Posts: 710
Nope not my kinda lifestyle!! I am with sweet I don't share! I don't like nor want nor ever had sloppy seconds!

If you know it is wrong then why ask. Most or ok majority (I hope, but to each there own) would say it is WRONG!!
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:38 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
swingpup


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What ever a couples desires to do as long as both are agreeable as well as in total agreement as to what that might be.
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 3:39 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
Luisa909


Posts: 1,571
NO sex with other partners when married or dating.....

Nowadays it's very simple to meet new people or new friends
There are a lot of temptations outside daily life's couple ......but if we really love our partners we MUST go ahead with head low
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 4:22 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
Shortiaintlying


Posts: 1,324
No i wont do an open relationship.
Yes if thats what you want......
No is the answer if you ask me to be part of it.
good luck and happy living.
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 4:27 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
painter007


Posts: 17,854
Its almost becoming the norm........and its so wrong.....
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 4:30 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
Pete73052


Posts: 19,370
It's a matter of focus... if you focus your sex drive toward one person - then that's all there is to it. Right now, I'm focusing on Painter...
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 4:30 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
daisy315


Posts: 4,946
that's called screwing around... not only is it morally wrong.. it's very dangerous..

why get married or be couple if you want to mess around with someone else?

[Edited on 4/4/2007 4:32 PM]
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 4:31 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
painter007


Posts: 17,854
Pete........ you sexy thang!
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 4:42 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
Pete73052


Posts: 19,370
Oh, I'm done now... was it good for you?
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 5:01 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
TRS1958


Posts: 481
KAOS said:
What's right or wrong in your world is different than mine.
Actually that is not true. It is adultery which is wrong in anyone's world.
BTW...I'm not saying you are wrong personally...I know the point you are making.

edited for typo....duh

[Edited on 4/4/2007 5:06 PM]

[Edited on 4/4/2007 5:06 PM]
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 5:04 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
sciurusniger


Posts: 2,958
Actually, it is none of our business if having sex with people outside of their relationship is all right for two people in a comitted relationship, if it is agreed to by both of them openly within the context of their relationship.

Would I want to have that kind of relationship? Not no, but hell no.

Would I want to become involved with someone in that kind of relationship? Not no, but hell no.

But again, it's not our business what others choose to do or choose to not do behind closed bedroom doors.
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 5:13 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
julia143


Posts: 1,696
NO NO NO.....

If it's ok with the both of yous, fine...but honestly...I don't see that working out in the long run.

Jealousy is a human trait. It will surface.....someone will feel left out....

Nope, not even if my partner said it would be ok...heck if he did...I'de have to slap him a few times and bring him back to reality.
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Apr 4, 2007 @ 6:00 PM Having sex with other parters when married or dating    
1stsignofspring


Posts: 17,992
Isn't that having your cake and eating it too??

It would never do for me....but to some.....swinging is an acceptable lifestyle....to each his own!
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