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| Apr 12, 2007 @ 5:08 AM |
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medisynergi
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Soul Mates & Soul Families
by John L. Payne
There is much conjecture and misunderstanding concerning this subject. When most of you speak of a soul mate, you are thinking of that one special individual that you will fall in love with and with whom you will live happily ever after. You may even feel as if this one special love has always been your lover through many, many lifetimes and that you are simply awaiting his or her appearance in this lifetime.
Many souls do encounter one another in lifetime after lifetime after lifetime, for they have become friends. This friendship is based in the non-physical world, and the friendship, which in essence is co-operation, is based upon their past success in achieving the growth they are seeking. You see, you are growth-seeking beings, and all encounters, both physical and non-physical, provide opportunities for growth. Therefore, if there is a certain soul with whom you have had great success in achieving your goals, you are likely to agree to work with that one again.
It is important to understand how souls are organized. Your journeys here into the physical world are deliberate journeys. You have already mastered life on many other planes of existence, and your purpose for coming to Earth is simply so that you may broaden your experience of yourself through the Earth existence. The ultimate goal is to experience unconditional love, that which is acceptance and allowing. For as you totally accept Earth life and accept all the aspects of it and all that exists within it, you have reached your goal. Some have called this enlightenment. You see, you didn't come here to get better or to prove yourself worthy; you came here for the fun of it, for the game, for the challenge.
more can be found at: http://www.innerself.com/Relationships/soul.htm
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| Apr 12, 2007 @ 11:38 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Soul mates and true love=
Load of crap
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| Apr 13, 2007 @ 3:26 AM |
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medisynergi
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What is crap about it?
What is true love?
What is a soulmate?
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| Apr 13, 2007 @ 7:29 AM |
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Antoinette8
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What is crap about it?
What is true love?
What is a soul mate? Everyone has their own point of view.
It doesn't mean we have to agree.
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| Apr 13, 2007 @ 7:32 AM |
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medisynergi
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when the bull enters the china shop, he had better behave.
or expect a cattle prod up his ass.
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| Apr 13, 2007 @ 7:35 AM |
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Antoinette8
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when the bull enters the china shop, he had better behave.
or expect a cattle prod up his ass.
Patience is needed here I think.
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| Apr 14, 2007 @ 8:07 AM |
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medisynergi
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awareness is more like it.
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| Apr 14, 2007 @ 8:22 AM |
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Angel178
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Everyone has their own opinion about soul mates. I personally believe in them. I believe that it is possible to meet someone who is so much like you that they are either your twin or you knew each other in a past life.
But, remember, there are people on here who might not have been blessed to have such a relationship, so be kind and openminded when they give their comments. 
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| Apr 14, 2007 @ 9:01 AM |
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medisynergi
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I am.
That is why I posted the info in the first place.
Getting that feel good, is a matter of adaptability.
anyone can adapt to make someone else feel good. that is not the issue, it is that often it is not reciprocated.
lack of reciprocation causes that tentativeness.
promise of sex, climbing the mountain, romance, etc..... all that. some would choose that.
I choose a little bit of awareness and intent.
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| Apr 14, 2007 @ 9:20 AM |
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Antoinette8
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anyone can adapt to make someone else feel good. that is not the issue, it is that often it is not reciprocated.
Isn't it a matter of letting others know what you need in specific?
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| Apr 14, 2007 @ 1:32 PM |
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candylily
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I think my brothers and sisters are actually my soul family. I'm the oldest and I have 3 sisters and 2 brothers. None of us know any other family that loves each other so fully and unconditionally as we do. We all think that all the others are "perfect" in every way and when our kids and grandkids are born, they automatically get that same unconditional love. Sometimes I feel like I cheated a little by being born into a family that loves each other so much. I'm not saying, that none of us have ever gotten irritated or hurt at any of the others, but those times have been very temporary and minor and we would all be extremely miserable if we actually had any kind of serious disagreements. I'm always so completely happy when I'm with them. The way I judge how much I care about other people is whether I enjoy being them almost as much as I like being with my brothers and sisters. If it's a guy, I know he's special if I want to introduce him to my family. If I have a friend who almost feels like a sister, that's the highest compliment I can give. The only negative is that when you're that close to your birth family, you really don't have much need or motivation to go outside for any of your emotional needs. We're our own little self-contained circle of love, but we always welcome whoever else is brought into it for as long as the one who brought them in wants them there.
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| Apr 14, 2007 @ 5:53 PM |
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medisynergi
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< quote anyone can adapt to make someone else feel good. that is not the issue, it is that often it is not reciprocated.
Isn't it a matter of letting others know what you need in specific? Quote>
That usually happens in the context of marriage.
when you are in a closed circle, you have to rely on that one to provide for your needs.
In an open circle, you simply communicate, and those who are sensitive to your needs will provide. You simply trust that your needs will be taken care of.
Most prefer the security of commitment. the reliability that comes from that structure.
The language of monogamy is very specific. very tonal.
The language of open is holistic and systemic. entirely different.
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| Apr 14, 2007 @ 9:10 PM |
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NatGoat
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I hope we get more than 1 'Soul-Mate' in a lifetime....
My 1st one passed several years ago...
I'm Hoping that I've found the next/Last One...!!
. . . . . .Siiiiiiiigghh . . . !!
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| Apr 15, 2007 @ 1:54 AM |
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medisynergi
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It is possible.
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| Apr 15, 2007 @ 4:49 AM |
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Antoinette8
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Yes
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 4:29 AM |
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medisynergi
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so what are you waiting on?
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 6:13 AM |
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Antoinette8
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That usually happens in the context of marriage.
when you are in a closed circle, you have to rely on that one to provide for your needs.
In an open circle, you simply communicate, and those who are sensitive to your needs will provide. You simply trust that your needs will be taken care of.
Most prefer the security of commitment. the reliability that comes from that structure.
The language of monogamy is very specific. very tonal.
The language of open is holistic and systemic. entirely different.
There are still specific needs in an open relationship.
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 6:39 AM |
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medisynergi
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for me, they are
connection on all levels
implicit trust
love without conditions.
once those needs are fulfilled, open exists for me. regardless of how many.
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 7:21 AM |
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Antoinette8
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for me, they are
connection on all levels
implicit trust
love without conditions.
once those needs are fulfilled, open exists for me. regardless of how many.
We all have our limits.
I am sure you do as well.
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 7:28 AM |
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theobono
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Antionette.....what are your limits and needs ?  
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