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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 2:35 AM |
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Priscilla160
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How does everyone feel about this?
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 9:12 AM |
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Eldermint
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Personally I'm pretty conservative about this. The sex doesn't matter. If it's open and the partners agree, then it's OK for them but I wouldn't (eeew) and I wouldn't want my partner doing it either. Without talking about it explicitly, cheating is cheating.
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 10:02 AM |
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Loreli
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^^^^^^^ what he said.
I'm not curious-I know what I like.
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 10:34 AM |
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twotall911
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me too
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 10:41 AM |
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MortisDruss
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I would say it's up to you and your partner.
Personally, if I had a bi-sexual girlfriend, it wouldn't bother me.
If there was another GUY in the picture, that would, but if she had a girl over for a romp (and no, I don't need to be part of it), I could deal with it.
I know where she's going for hetero sex, and that's okay in my book.
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 11:50 AM |
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Pete73052
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I just let her use a strap-on on me... until she gets it all out of her system... 
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 11:57 AM |
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definitelydi
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^^^^I agree. Bend over, Pete! 
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 11:59 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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no threesomes for me
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 12:10 PM |
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Pete73052
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I agree. Bend over, Pete!
Oh, great! Now suddenly everybody's bi-curious... 
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 12:31 PM |
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your_princess
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I think you should have maybe figured out if you were bi or not before getting married...Wouldnt it be cheating if you just casually decided to "play"? What if you discover that you enjoy women more than men...what happens to your husband...I think it is really selfish on your part to even consider it...or even more to consider it now instead of before you said "I DO" How would you feel if you came home and found your husband in bed with another man?? I would say you are walking on thin ice!
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 12:33 PM |
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Pete73052
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Except that guys think it's HOT... 
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 3:08 PM |
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lynnielou
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Of course they do, Pete!
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 2:10 AM |
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Priscilla160
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I'm not the one considering it. It's my husband. I don't want to do it but he seems pretty obsessed with it. Which really hurts. But at the same time I'm trying to be open minded.
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 7:45 AM |
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Eldermint
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Pricilla,
That's a hard place. You may feel like damned if you do and damned if you don't, but really ... you know he shouldn't be obsessing and emotionally forcing you to do something you don't want to. Cheating is cheating even if it's done by voyeurism. In the long run, you'll be happier if you do what you want to do.
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 7:48 AM |
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bryan2992
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I agree, if its something your forced into then all its going to do is cause resentment. also, if he cares about you then he shouldnt be forcing you to do anything you don't want, its a matter of respect
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 1:41 PM |
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Pete73052
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There's nothing open-minded about doing something that you don't want to do... especially this sort of thing. Your husband has lost respect for you. Tell him to piss off... or better yet - tell him he has to have sex with a man first. 
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 2:13 PM |
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Loreli
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 Pete.
I agree.
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 2:35 PM |
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candylily
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I've known several men who were married to women who eventually left them (and in a couple cases, their kids also) for a woman. I don't think they think it's so "hot" when they lose their marriages over it.
I'm not bi-curious and wouldn't do it for a guy no matter how much I like him. I'm hurt that they would even ask me to do it as a few of them have.  If a guy wants to share me with other people, it's hard for me to believe he cares anything about me regardless of what he says.
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 3:02 PM |
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justask4it77
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If a guy wants to share me with other people, it's hard for me to believe he cares anything about me regardless of what he says.
well put
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 3:18 PM |
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your_princess
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If that is the issue then maybe you should mention that when you start a thread...something like: my husband wants to have me be with another woman what do you think? instead it sounds like you are the one who wants to do, and dont elaborate if its with his consent or behind his back...
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