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| May 7, 2007 @ 1:29 PM |
Cuckolding
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miamiboy
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I am an advocate of a lifestyle known as cuckolding: A relationship in which the man is to remain dedicated to his lady, but the lady has complete freedom to have sexual relations with other men anytime she wants.
I wanted to find out peoples feelings about and experiences with such lifestyles.
Thanks so much for your input.
[Edited on 5/7/2007 3:31 PM]
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| May 7, 2007 @ 2:13 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 18,610
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Never heard of it
Wouldn't do it.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 2:27 PM |
Cuckolding
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FunkyMonkey68
Posts: 425
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I have heard of cuckolding, but didn't realize it was a lifestyle??
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| May 7, 2007 @ 2:28 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,039
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It this an Alternative Lifestyle????  My views on the Alternative Lifestyle is what each and every couple desires as well as agree upon within their relationship is cool.
Would I personally be interested? No, I'm much to much of a hedonist myself. I do in fact favor open relationships IF both parties are in total understanding as well as agreement going into a situation or relationship of any kind.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 3:24 PM |
Cuckolding
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KAOS2007
Posts: 5,082
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Doesn't interest me, but whatever floats ya boat!
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| May 7, 2007 @ 3:31 PM |
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miamiboy
Posts: 27
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Thanks for your thoughts. I certainly understand that such things are not for everyone, however, the thought of such a life just seems "natural" and "right" for me. I believe that there are fewer delights greater than watching my partner as she indulges in the pleasures of others. I understand that there are many men out there who would have no reservation at all sleeping with another man's wife, but there are few who would want her husband around while they were together. Consequently, I understand that my role would more than likely be limited to helping her prepare for her dates and then in taking care of her afterwards when she returns home to me.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:10 PM |
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SassoS
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I did a search on the word "cuckolding" on wikipedia. And you are for sure not alone to have this life style. It goes way back almost 200 yr or so.
And if you ask me.. You are so right saying that no many guys would care that much if they have sex with someone who is married or not, but being the one givin his wife all the freedom she might need to be her self is something that earns a lot of respect even from those who can't see the beauti in it.
Things like this is not that un-common as you might think. The only problem is that people don't want to admit to their somewhat different sexuall preferences they might have. We are still so depended on what "all the others" around us might think and feel.
No many raise their eye bows if a girl says she is submissive and will do anything to please her man, but the other way around is not at all as acceptable for some strange reason-.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:12 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 18,610
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You BET I would raise an eyebrow if my man ran around.
Stay single then. 
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:24 PM |
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SassoS
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I would also raise my eye brow if my man ran around, but that is not what the questions is about really. Since if he or she is running around you are not living in a relationship like the one miamiboy is talking about.
It is about a man being submissive and get aroused letting his wife or partner having sex with other men.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:27 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 9,749
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why do people raise their eyebrows if one partner gives their partner permission to sleep around, then tell them to "stay single"? If the cheating is okay with or even a turn on for one partner, who the hell are you to judge and tell them not to bother to have a serious relationship? Honestly....there are so many different kinds of relationships, and the "traditional" kind is not the only kind that two people can have.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:30 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 18,610
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The fact that female wasp spiders have numerous sexual contacts is something which their male partners cannot prevent. What they can do, however, is ensure that no offspring ensue from these tête à têtes with their rivals: the male spiders simply place a chastity belt on their partner while copulating. The tip of their genital breaks off during intercourse, blocking the sexual orifice of the lady spider. Biologists from the universities of Bonn and Hamburg report on this amazing mechanism in the journal ‘Behavioral Ecology’ (vol. 18, pages 174-181, 2007).
The female usually puts an end to the affair after a few seconds by attacking her partner and killing him if he does not escape in time.
http://www.scienceblog.com/cms/spiders-chastity-belts-stop-cuckolding-in-the-nest-12716.html
Nuff said
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:33 PM |
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wiccked
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sounds good to me !!!!! 
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:41 PM |
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spongebob777
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Sounds like an excuse for a "man" too wimpy to get out of a relationship with an unfaithful woman.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:43 PM |
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SassoS
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Loreli:
I am so sorry, but I can't for one sec see what the spider thing has to do with this serious question this guy brought up?
Is it okay to make fun of peopel just because they like things that not everyone else dare to admit they do or simply can't understand the meaning of?
I am not trying to be rude, I just don't get it.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:51 PM |
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luvmycats
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I am pretty open minded about a lot of sexual preferences, but when it comes to other partners, NO WAY, for either of us.
What they can do, however, is ensure that no offspring ensue from these tête à têtes with their rivals: the male spiders simply place a chastity belt on their partner while copulating. The tip of their genital breaks off during intercourse, blocking the sexual orifice of the lady spider.
I'm afraid if I found out my partner was doing this, I would "BREAK OFF" a lot more then the tip!
To each his own...
I am curious, how soon do you tell your preferences to someone you start dating? Serious question.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 4:53 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 18,610
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I am not trying to be rude, I just don't get it. You were not rude.
And neither was I.
This subject was JUST beat to death within the last month, fights occurred and enemies were made.
Cuckolding is infidelity-plain and simple.
Male or female infidelity is wrong- STAY SINGLE!.
All been said, done and thread locked.
Infidelity may be better discussed in AMD.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 5:00 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,039
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 Holy shit Batman.......I hope I don't return as a Spider
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| May 7, 2007 @ 5:01 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 18,610
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Lol Swing
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| May 7, 2007 @ 5:03 PM |
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miamiboy
Posts: 27
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Hi Luvmycats:
That is an EXCELLENT question. I have approached this matter in a couple of different ways.
In the past, I generally waited until after several dates before revealing such personal things, but I find that since my "views" are so dramatically differenent than most peoples in this respect (and since life is so very short, and it can lead to heartache and dissapointment NOT to disclose such things as early as possible), that it is prudent to reveal this fact about myself from the beginning. The danger in revealing such facts like this so early is that many women feel, in error, that I am consumed with this and that this is the only important aspect of a relationship to me, and they are often frightened away.
To the contrary, I, like any other man (or person (for that matter)) desire a relationship which is fulfilling on a multitude of levels (not just sex) and I desire a "conventional" relationship in all other ways. Its just when it comes to sex, I enjoy being submissive and I love it when my lady is sexually uninhibited and free.
So, it does leave a quandry for me. Do I disclose such things about myself early on or do I wait till later to reveal such things about myself? My feeling is it is better to be honest from the beginning and risk immediate rejection than to it is to wait unitl later when potentially both of us have become emotionally involved with each other to minimize dissapointment and hurt to either if not both of us.
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| May 7, 2007 @ 5:08 PM |
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swingpup
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You certainly nailed it. 
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