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Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?


May 23, 2007 @ 2:16 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
Always_Striving


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Men are naturally attracted to women's faces and bodies first rather than the sound of their voice or written communication (thought). We want to get all sexed up..... LOL.

Anyway it's part of a game in our culture, as well as others, that the opposite sex makes themselves more attractive to compete against others to gain, if not win, the attention of desirable mating partners. Clothing helps accent women's physical features desirable to us men, but beauty..... facial beauty, in particular, is another driving factor toward our desire to meet and possibly form a long term relationship with one woman over another one competing for the same attention or end result.

So if a man is initially attracted to a woman because of her facial beauty but later discovers that she is "coyote ugly" when the makeup comes off............

(((He emotionally trembles now)))

WHAT SHOULD HE DO??????

Consider everything that I have mentioned in this thread.

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May 23, 2007 @ 2:24 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
7times196


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do like the coyote's and chew off my arm so I can get free and run.
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May 23, 2007 @ 2:35 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
blueyes101


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My first impression, would include how much make up she is wearing.....Not that hard to tell, I love the feeling of a womans face/lips/neck ect on my lips, and the taste of caked on make up, turns me off........The true beauty of a woman is how she looks without makeup........After all, that is who you wake up to every morning.......Why not go to bed with the same one, before she wipes it off on the pillow case.
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May 23, 2007 @ 2:36 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
swingpup


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I have no clue what "he should do" I know what I do. If she appears in person to have taken lessons at the Tammy Faye school of make-up, it's going to be one hell of a short Ice Tea session.

Personally I prefer woman that only accent their beauty with little make-up added or required unless of course, they are coming off stage from performing in a theatrical production.
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May 23, 2007 @ 2:38 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
7times196


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I agree,.. I'm not attracted to women who have to wear a ton of makeup so it wouldn't be a problem in the first place
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May 23, 2007 @ 2:41 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
Loreli


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My Dad raised us saying, the more makeup you wear when you're young, the more you'll need when you're older.

I've never worn much makeup-my pic here, I'm wearing none.
Thank you for the sun!
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May 23, 2007 @ 2:50 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
your_princess


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do not wear make-up really ever except here and there to go out for the night. It takes up too much time in the am to try to paint a face on...I would rather sleep that extra 15-30 min!
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May 23, 2007 @ 3:35 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
TRS1958


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I agree with blueyes. A little eye liner and a little lip gloss is enough to enhance a woman's beauty...and the key word is "little". Any woman that chooses to cake on the makeup is not attractive to me. The sad thing is...a lot of the women who wear lots of makeup actually look much better without it.
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May 23, 2007 @ 3:35 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
Luisa909


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Men are naturally attracted to women's faces and bodies first rather than the sound of their voice or written communication (thought). We want to get all sexed up..... LOL.

....ah....but it's the same all around the world .....
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May 23, 2007 @ 5:55 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
jamminjerry


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in a sense yes. if she is vain about her makeup then she will be vain about other things. if she ever says "dang! am i glad to get this junk off my face" i figure i have found a keeper.
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May 23, 2007 @ 6:33 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
RhodeRhunner


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For me, her physical appearance would be only one factor to take into consideration. My preference would be to be with a good woman whom I cared for regardless of how she looked without makeup as opposed to a 'made up' woman who, at her core, was the sum total of the amount of blush she had on her face. Give me a 'plain Jane' with a heart instead of a model-type of shallow character any day!
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May 23, 2007 @ 6:37 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
KAOS2007


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You may be a rare one there Rhode Runner
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May 23, 2007 @ 7:21 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
BandTMom


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May 23, 2007 @ 7:48 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
ToucherinSparks


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I'm not going to commit to any woman based on how she looks with or without makeup. Looks only makes me want to screw her, commitment comes from what kind of person she is.
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May 27, 2007 @ 4:04 AM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
NatGoat


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No!! . . Looks 'Attract' me . . but, there are a LOT of other factors involved...and balance-out to determine if and when I want to commit to a woman . .
I'm Eager to Commit to one Lady . . and I'm _Trying_ . .
She just has to make a minor effort to get to know a Gentleman . .
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May 27, 2007 @ 11:08 AM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 10,902
Swingpup - I think you hit the nail squarely on the head!


Tammy Faye school of make-up
Now THERE'S a victim of a hostile makeover if ever there was one!
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May 27, 2007 @ 11:27 AM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
signme


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The most make-up I've ever worn is in this pic right here. I hate putting on make-up. For school I usually do my eyes, a hint of blush and some cover stick as necessary. In the summer, none at all. I sweat it off in 3 minutes so why bother?
If a guy doesn't like me for the person I am, it's time to move on (for both of us).
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May 27, 2007 @ 11:57 AM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
definitelydi


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I don't think any makeup in the world can cover up "coyote ugly!"


I'm with your_princess on this one...I prefer to sleep in. I love to wear mascara and think it's the most enhancing thing in my makeup bag. Frankly, I'm just too lazy to use it everyday.
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May 27, 2007 @ 12:41 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
graywolf


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I have never been attracted to women who wear a lot of makeup and try to steer away from those that do.
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May 27, 2007 @ 12:47 PM Is your choice to commit to a woman based on how she looks without her makeup?    
Gallows_Humor


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So if a man is initially attracted to a woman because of her facial beauty but later discovers that she is "coyote ugly" when the makeup comes off...........

WHAT SHOULD HE DO??????

interesting choice of words..."coyote ugly"....

about 13 years ago.. I met a woman who was drop dead gorgeous..( to me.. and to everyone else too)

..as I got to know her, I grew more and more attracted to her.. one day she invited me over for coffee... she was not wearing any make up that day..lets just say that she looked totally different.. I was still attracted to her..but she had doubts.. it was probably that funny grin that I had on my face ....as I was in awe of how she was able to transform ordinary - into drop dead gorgeous ...to this day..I am still in awe of her skills
.. It took a very long time for her to trust me..complicated by the fact that I was going through my own issues from a painful divorce... we became best friends and stayed that way for many years.. But as with everything there is an ending ..we no longer talk)

What I did was just love her for who she is...with and without her makeup...

what I found amusing was the reactions of all the men who came and went in her life... especially her ( now ) husband.. who went from being a much sought after "player" to an adoring devoted mate..

Men who dared approach me about this issue all said the same things..one of which was..we knew that since you ______ her ( fill in the blank with liked..loved..adored..worshiped ... they all fit ) ..we knew there was a reason..and we wanted to find out what it was...

I guess what I am trying to say here is...there is a real person behind every mask..and every person has one...
..for me.. I was lucky to get to know her as the person she was....... and I know I was attracted to the inner person..as what she looked like with or without her makeup did not matter in the slightest..

(btw...yes ..I am over her..
...and no ..I have no regrets....(see my first blog..))


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