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Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?


Jun 13, 2007 @ 2:13 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
avodavo


Posts: 1
So here's my story -- I'd love to hear your opinions.

I've had to relocate multiple times in the past couple of years on account of my job. This has resulted in a particularly long dry-spell for me nooky-wise. Now that the weather's been warming up, I've been finding it increasingly difficult to avoid staring at every attractive woman who walks by. I've even caught myself craning my neck, or walking slowly just so I can get a better look. This is making me feel like a total creep, but it's so subconscious at this point that don't see any way to stop it other than getting some.

I've been out on a bunch of "first dates," but I just can't seem to find anyone who strikes my fancy. Last friday I went out with a sweet, beautiful woman, who, alas, was kinda boring to be with. Not painfully so, but enough that under normal circumstances I wouldn't consider dating her. She seems to like me, and I'd be perfectly happy to spend a couple of months with her just to end my dry spell. However, I feel like I'd be a total jerk if I don't tell her that I'm mainly just interested in a physical relationship. The idea of telling her that really creeps me out.

So... what to do? Stay a horny creep, or be a satisfied jerk? Are there any other options?

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Jun 13, 2007 @ 2:45 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
sloth333


Posts: 16
I'm a creep. It's better to be a creep than to hurt the girl.

Seriously, I could have been with several women in the past year, but I don't have time to play around. I have to find the right girl. Every day that goes by is one day less that I have to spend with her.
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 10:29 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
noidea73


Posts: 31
horny creep
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 10:34 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
7times196


Posts: 571
no need to string her along so you can get laid.. If you need to get laid hit the bar.

Be a man about it and tell her sorrry but no
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 10:55 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
Always_Striving


Posts: 7,596
I've been out on a bunch of "first dates," but I just can't seem to find anyone who strikes my fancy


Did they think you were kinda creepy for wanting your "fancy" spanked on the first date?
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 11:24 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
MotownManiax


Posts: 7,881
Difficult to judge just based on just the original post, and apologies for any offense beforehand, avodavo, but your whole thrust reeks of extreme arrogance and self-satisfaction. It's all about what women can DO for YOU? Satisfying your own personal indulgences is the only thing you're interested in. A woman's wishes?—inconsequential.

Forgive me, but I see an utter lack of simple humility and modesty about yourself.
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 12:27 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
jamminjerry


Posts: 3,780
when you say jerk i thought of steve martin in "the jerk" and when ya say creep i can only think of perv. so why do there seem to be different definitions of both words? with those only two options i would be a jerk. oh, i didn't read the story i guessed it was drama, if it isn't let me know so i can read it.
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 12:32 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
TiNkErGrRrRrR


Posts: 13,791
Are there any other options?

Just be honest..
If your lookin` for a friends with benefits with said lady..then why the hell can`t ya be honest without being being a jerk about it..

Don`t mind me..what do I know..alas I`m only a woman..*Sigh*
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 1:01 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
Snappygoddess


Posts: 3,818
If you don't have time for a sexual relationship now, what makes you think you will have time for a permanent one when you find the "right one"?

If you use a woman for sex(without telling her it's just physical) you are both a jerk and a creep JMHO
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 2:02 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
capitalview


Posts: 675
Tough choice , buddy
How about being a MAN and not trying to scam a girl into having sex with you just to save on escort fees? There's enough professional sex service providers available for any budget, so what's your problem?
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Jun 13, 2007 @ 2:05 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
lj450


Posts: 8,409
Shit, I cant choose.......Im gonna go with creepy jerk.



Creepy, horny jerk.


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Jun 13, 2007 @ 2:36 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
NatGoat


Posts: 4,213
-S-A_Q_ . . !!!
It's _"BETTER"_ to be a Gentleman . . !!
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Jun 15, 2007 @ 5:23 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
your_princess


Posts: 3,151
see when i think of creep i think of like window peeking panty sniffing creep...
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Jun 15, 2007 @ 5:38 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
Azuras


Posts: 755
She seems to like me, and I'd be perfectly happy to spend a couple of months with her just to end my dry spell. However, I feel like I'd be a total jerk if I don't tell her that I'm mainly just interested in a physical relationship. The idea of telling her that really creeps me out.

Just roll your chance cube and see what happens.....

sounds to Me like Your battling with what little morals you seem to possess

of course it creeps you know She is gonna kick You to the curb....

I can hear you telling Her now...

"Oh ya and by the way before We go any futher this is just a silly phase I'mgoing through called a dry spell when some thing better comes along I'll be dumping You"


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Jun 15, 2007 @ 5:50 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
NatGoat


Posts: 4,213
. . Unfortunately . . . . those are the _Only Two Options_, for Some . . !! . .
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Jun 15, 2007 @ 10:39 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
lj450


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i think of like window peeking panty sniffing

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Jun 15, 2007 @ 10:41 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
JayBird747


Posts: 728
Bein in is always better then bein out.

Be happy fer what is, don't bemoan what ain't.

Enjoy what's available, dismiss what's outta reach, and don't be scared to make a try.
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Jun 15, 2007 @ 11:02 PM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
lj450


Posts: 8,409
Oh bird.......that was beautiful.

Do you have any tissue?


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Jun 16, 2007 @ 7:18 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
JayBird747


Posts: 728
Oh bird.......that was beautiful.

Do you have any tissue?

None that I want you snottin all over. If yer gonna start blubberin then use yer shirt sleeve.
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Jun 16, 2007 @ 11:23 AM Is it better to be a creep, or a jerk?    
BandTMom


Posts: 28,435
But he's not wearing one!!

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