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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 5:14 PM |
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Chevy1
Posts: 63
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I was getting 30 emails a day, even though I specifically put No casual sex, no text, IM, phone, or cyber sex. I even checked off Marriage or long term only.
No one gave a crap about what I wanted.
No matter how the first email is worded, eventually the outcome was the same. Someone who isn't 'ready for' or 'looking for' a relationship but who is trying to get some 'No-strings' sex or a Fk Buddy. Worst of all, no one would POLITELY take a 'No thank you' for an answer. 
SO : I re-wrote my entire profile, deleted pics and offered EXACTLY what I kept getting asked for. I just stated that in exchange for being used in a non-relationship capacity, I expected to have something to show for it. No jobless men need apply.... 
Now I'm getting less than 3 emails a day.  My new profile has also completely stopped the ridiculous one-sentence emails. (Hi, You're hot, I liked your pics, call me at...my email is...etc, etc)
I'm amazed at how many emails putting a 'price' on it eliminated. Pathetic, really.
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 5:19 PM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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Welcome to Matchdoctor. Did you actually expect many of these people to read over veiwing pics? Nawwwww! Wishful thinking I guess !
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 6:29 PM |
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Chevy1
Posts: 63
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I guess the thing that bugs me the most is that this is MatchDoctor, NOT an 'Adult Site' and I expected the people here to be honestly looking for more than just sex.
The only difference I see is that instead of being upfront about what they want... they waste your time and pretend they're 'different' from everyone else who's looking for the same cheap thing before finally coming out and being honest about it.
Like I said - Lame.
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 7:01 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,088
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No one reads my profile either.
The worst is when they lie and say they do...when if they did they'd know that emailing me to ask me to call them is futile
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 7:34 PM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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Listen baby; Thats one of the reasons I refused to even put up a pic. It forces those to read. This actually why I like the forum post because you get to see what you are dealing with. People put up fronts all the time, but who they really are usually comes out in their post. By the way this is a good thread.
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 8:58 PM |
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Chevy1
Posts: 63
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Very true. I'm thinking of deleting all pics if necessary.
You're also right about the posts. Reading them, I've noticed that all the best men seem to be over 45......So I changed my age range, too. 
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 10:33 PM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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Well, as I always say,
Life is short and sweet for some, and for others, I am so sorry !
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 10:34 PM |
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robodad
Posts: 5,866
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Well, a picture of a bra shore stops me.......... 
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 10:36 PM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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Lol........ You definately have a point Robo. I guess if you put yourself out there like that. Expect the worst.
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 1:54 AM |
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gotsome4u2
Posts: 1
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Sorry to tell our secrets guys, but Chevy1 its like this it takes Us about 40 years to know how to act around the ladies. For most of those years We think with the little brain, then we learn to think with the big brain. Hopefully, for a few lucky ones, We learn to think with big brain and heart at the same time.
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 3:56 AM |
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jamminjerry
Posts: 3,780
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hi Chevy, I for one would like to hear about your "big truck" adventures. we be jammin 
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 6:51 AM |
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TRS1958
Posts: 481
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Well, a picture of a bra shore stops me.......... Lol........ You definately have a point Robo. I guess if you put yourself out there like that. Expect the worst.
Yep, still amazes me that women post pics in their underwear and then complain about the emails they get. I know that some women get those kind of emails regardless of their pics...but if you advertise for the horndogs you're damn sure gonna get 'em. 
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 8:57 AM |
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MortisDruss
Posts: 1,123
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Can I make raspberry sounds on your tummy?
*runs*
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 1:30 PM |
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NatGoat
Posts: 4,213
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Chev . . Can we Talk . . ???
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 3:25 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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Per your picture you are in fact a very attractive women. I think what you may have discovered is that many men will talk the talk however very few will walk the walk. Your picture on a 1-10 is in my opinion most certainly a 10.
Here is a suggestion, hire a body guard and meet in a public location, certainly not in a bar. Actually meet in person all men that matches the criteria that you desire. Basically set up appointments within a time span of one or two days. If they are serious about meeting you they will make the effort and show. Those that play games won't.
I would venture to bet one out of eight would show up to meet, thus those that didn't they eliminated themselves. Good luck. 
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 5:57 PM |
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JayBird747
Posts: 728
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No matter how the first email is worded, eventually the outcome was the same. Someone who isn't 'ready for' or 'looking for' a relationship but who is trying to get some 'No-strings' sex or a Fk Buddy. Worst of all, no one would POLITELY take a 'No thank you' for an answer.
SO : I re-wrote my entire profile, deleted pics and offered EXACTLY what I kept getting asked for. I just stated that in exchange for being used in a non-relationship capacity, I expected to have something to show for it. No jobless men need apply....
Now I'm getting less than 3 emails a day. My new profile has also completely stopped the ridiculous one-sentence emails. (Hi, You're hot, I liked your pics, call {email address removed} email is...etc, etc)
I'm amazed at how many emails putting a 'price' on it eliminated. Pathetic, really.
I agree with ya. That's plumb awful.
So......how bout some casual sex?
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 6:01 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 20,311
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o one gave a crap about what I wanted.
No matter how the first email is worded, eventually the outcome was the same. Someone who isn't 'ready for' or 'looking for' a relationship but who is trying to get some 'No-strings' sex or a Fk Buddy
Look at your pic, sweetie.
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 6:03 PM |
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Pete73052
Posts: 19,368
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Yeah, you can't put that smokin' hot bod pic up and not expect to trigger a few primal instincts among the men. When men see that, those that actually know how to read... forget. 
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 6:07 PM |
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JayBird747
Posts: 728
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Very true. I'm thinking of deleting all pics if necessary.
Well, you outter add one with yer face. If you only put one a boobs, and none a face, yer gonna guys that are interested in yer boobs and not yer face.
The way ya advertise determines the customers ya get.
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| Jul 5, 2007 @ 6:15 PM |
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vinny_53
Posts: 457
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hot bod....two trucks...  how many really think that is her body?
I for one doubt it... ....but does it really matter?
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