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Jul 27, 2007 @ 1:23 PM Marriage and sex    
Luisa909


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What do you do if your husband/wife is perfect for you. ....but.....

There is love, intellectual affinity, same goals, many things in common, you have fun with him/her, he/she is clever, he/she takes care of you everyday....

but there is not sexual understanding and no great physical attraction ....
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Jul 27, 2007 @ 1:36 PM Marriage and sex    
blueyes101


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Pack up move to the USA to be with me.........

Ok, to be serious, hang on to the love, it truly is the most important thing, even if it doesn't seem like it right now. I wish I had an answer or a way to fix the problem, but all I can tell you, is love is very precious do not let it go.........
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Jul 27, 2007 @ 1:38 PM Marriage and sex    
Luisa909


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Do you think I'm talking about me ?
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Jul 27, 2007 @ 2:03 PM Marriage and sex    
blueyes101


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The first part of my answer is wishful thinking.................The second part, is just my thoughts on the matter.


So are you here yet? ..................
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Jul 27, 2007 @ 2:09 PM Marriage and sex    
definitelydi


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I'd have to have an honest and open discussion with my spouse about our lack of sexual spark. Of course, it's effectiveness has everything to do with them being receptive, so I'd hope like hell that they were. If two people truly love one another, then by all means they should give each other every chance.
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Jul 27, 2007 @ 2:09 PM Marriage and sex    
Luisa909


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ok my cases are ready !!!!
I'm coming.....
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Jul 27, 2007 @ 6:24 PM Marriage and sex    
blueyes101


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You just let me know
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Jul 27, 2007 @ 7:07 PM Marriage and sex    
jamminjerry


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Luisa, i think they are called "friends"? oops! they are married!! perhaps foolish friends? we be jammin
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Jul 28, 2007 @ 5:01 AM Marriage and sex    
steveemac


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Sex is not the stuff of a marriage...it is, however, the glue that holds the stuff together.
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Jul 28, 2007 @ 2:48 PM Marriage and sex    
jamminjerry


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it is as we have guessed all along! there are some weird folks out there. marriage is a 100% total package. consider anything possible and that is what will be a part of a marriage. and so, i am now puzzled as to what the "engagement" is all about. ain't that where ya figure all the stuff out and decide if its yes or no? thats what the TV sitcom "That Girl" was all about! strangely enuff it wasn't called "That Woman"
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Jul 28, 2007 @ 9:46 PM Marriage and sex    
JayBird747


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What do you do if your husband/wife is perfect for you. ....but.....

There is love, intellectual affinity, same goals, many things in common, you have fun with him/her, he/she is clever, he/she takes care of you everyday....

but there is not sexual understanding and no great physical attraction ....

That's a friendship. Yer mate outta have alla that and the sexual attratiionalizing too.

Not that it always happens. Sometimes it don't and folks settle fer less. The real tragic is they settle fer less then find it later.
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Jul 29, 2007 @ 1:29 AM Marriage and sex    
blueyes101


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To be totally honest, that is why I have never married. It isn't that I never loved enough, it was the fact I never met the right one. I know what I want, just haven't met her yet.
I want the total package, not the right one at the time .
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Jul 29, 2007 @ 1:34 AM Marriage and sex    
katydid438


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I know what you mean Blu
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Jul 29, 2007 @ 1:56 AM Marriage and sex    
blueyes101


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Thanks Katie!!!
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Jul 29, 2007 @ 2:01 AM Marriage and sex    
katydid438


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^^ ^^
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