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| Aug 15, 2007 @ 8:06 PM |
headaches, too tired, and not tonight
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tash054
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Ok, I'm kind of in a dilemma here. I just got married and surprisingly we haven't even had sex yet...not even on our wedding night. We both work a lot and are tired most of the time, honestly I'm just not that sexually attracted to him and I never get fully satisfied. I'm so afraid to talk to him, but I know I need to, he's the kind of guy who has a lot of pride and he would be very offended if I told him the wrong way....How can I let him know how I'm feeling without making him upset?
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| Aug 15, 2007 @ 8:18 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
Posts: 8,070
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you are from arkansas, land of the "D" cup....try jumping him as he walks through the door...
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| Aug 15, 2007 @ 10:35 PM |
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blueyes101
Posts: 12,080
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Pride or not, how can you marry someone you can't talk to? You should be able to talk about anything with the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with.
Nothing personal, but it just amazes me how folks just " get married ' and " hope " it all works out....
Now, this is coming from someone who has never been married. Not that I never wanted too, but because I want to be married forever !!!!!!! Marriage takes a lot of work from both people. How do you expect it to be successful if you can't discuss the most basic of wants and needs?
Try to back up and go into premarital counseling. Or counseling of some sort, what on earth are you going to do when the topic of children, when to have them, how many? How to raise them, what religion, how they dress, what friends to let them hang out with..???..ect.......
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| Aug 15, 2007 @ 10:53 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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I don't believe it for a second.
Young, attractive, no sex on wedding night?
Contact some people in your area...I don't think this is typical.JMHO 
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 12:35 AM |
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hotdognchilli
Posts: 3,784
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Um usually it is the woman who changes after the I-do.......... 
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 1:04 AM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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Is this the same guy you couldn't talk to about his internet porn fixation and your threesome fantasy?
Augggghhh...and just WHY did you get married?  
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 1:52 AM |
headaches, too tired, and not tonight
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NatGoat
Posts: 4,213
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I _hope_ you get it Right with the 1st attempt . . you May not get a 2nd . . !!!
All the Best . . !!! . . 
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{How about THAT, Sun . . I didn't even take a Swing at her . . !!! . . }
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 6:44 AM |
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Luisa909
Posts: 1,571
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You got married him maybe for his brain, his caracter, his personality......but not for his physique, could it be ?
May I ask you if your hunsband was your first boyfriend ?
you are so young.....
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 1:42 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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I have to point out a question on this"
I'm just not that sexually attracted to him and I never get fully satisfied.
How would you know, if you haven't had sex?
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 3:46 PM |
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Dukums
Posts: 1,686
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Are we sure this isn't an attempt to get some "on the side offers" via email?
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 4:48 PM |
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peachylisa
Posts: 1,817
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WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL MARRIED TO IT 
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 5:54 PM |
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EyesofBlue72660
Posts: 13,047
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Augggghhh...and just WHY did you get married? Sunny, the answer to that may be in her profile:
I'm happily married to my wonderful husband and am expecting my first child in January. Lord, how I hate to see young people jump into things for what may be all the wrong reasons.
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 8:00 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 22,625
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http://www.matchdoctor.com/thread_4_14454_1/dominate_role.html#399140
http://www.matchdoctor.com/thread_86_14701_1/internet_porn.html#410854
http://www.matchdoctor.com/thread_4_514_6/women_and_threesomes.html#633943
Sounds to me you should leave your husband for your boyfriend. 
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 8:49 PM |
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blueyes101
Posts: 12,080
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EOB, I read her profile AFTER I posted, I was going to delete it, but I thought my point was important, just not to the OP. Who is looking and smelling like a troll.
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 10:04 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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 Katt-
I didn't look that stuff up.
It's fishy...period.
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 10:07 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 22,625
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It is weird, she is pregnant, but hasn't had sex with her husband. I do realize you can get that way with out sex too.
Looking at the profile, she is married and pregnant.
Than when you look at what she has posted, she talks about sex and her boyfriend.
Maybe he was her boyfriend and they got married, heck I don't know.
Now if she would come back and clear all this up, I could eat my ice cream! 
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 11:03 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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Looking at her photos-
she's been here before.
troll
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 11:05 PM |
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kattsmeow
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| Aug 16, 2007 @ 11:34 PM |
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willsmalto
Posts: 3,645
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JUST married, not sexually attracted to him, having a hard time talking to/with him...these don't sound good at all in my ears. why did you freaking marry him in the first place?
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| Aug 17, 2007 @ 12:49 AM |
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signme
Posts: 12,578
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Sorry but sounds like a crock to me! JMO
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