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| Aug 23, 2007 @ 6:38 PM |
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onoudn
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Even though I'm not in a "serious" relationship with any lady in specific, I do have female friends. And, despite my constant request that they not do so, sometimes they gossip about other guys around me. Ok....I admit I like hearing it most of the time....so....I kind of put myself in the position to hear.  ]
BTW...yes I have permission to post this...sort of.  One of my female friends...(we'll call her Betty).  Has a boyfriend that, according to her own admission is "perfect". No not just perfect this  way. Perfect in a the way that he meets all her specifications financially, emotionally, spiritually, etc. So she is now convinced that their relationship can't last, why? Because its too good to be true. According to her he must be putting on some kind of act.
repost from blogs....
We guys just can't win for losing I guess.
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| Aug 24, 2007 @ 1:54 PM |
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Loreli
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If you get INTO the relationship to begin with, you should ACCEPT them for what they are.
Male or female.
There will always be some "tweaks" necessary to make the best situation possible.
If a person is satisfied in all those ways, and still uncomfortable, it may be that they were meant to be alone.
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| Aug 26, 2007 @ 4:44 AM |
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sthnhylander
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considering the life I led...I am still in one piece......  got to take me as I am...
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| Aug 26, 2007 @ 8:25 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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So she is now convinced that their relationship can't last, why?
Perhaps she has a little self-esteem issue..lacks confidence.
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| Aug 26, 2007 @ 9:24 AM |
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littlewriter
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maybe she is not actually convinced the relationship wont last, maybe she has just been hurt in the past and she is AFRAID that the relationship wont last.
i am sure in time she'll learn to trust her other half more and herself and get over it.
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| Nov 5, 2007 @ 7:56 PM |
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onoudn
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so what's a guy to do
should we pretend to be bad boys
i know some will say no
but
look around some time
why does it seem that the bad boys have all the ladies
why does it seem sometimes that women are so insecure
is it the way society treats them
are they just being coy
personally i think honesty is the best policy
but not too much honesty
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| Nov 5, 2007 @ 7:57 PM |
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Sweetheart83446
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WB O 
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| Nov 5, 2007 @ 8:11 PM |
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KAOS2007
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No wonder men say women are never satisfied.. here she has a good thing, no a great thing -according to her- and she's questioning it... arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 
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| Nov 5, 2007 @ 8:13 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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its too good to be true makes me feel sad, ya just have to imagen what wasnt so good that wrecked a reall ahppiness for her and him
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| Nov 5, 2007 @ 11:05 PM |
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onoudn
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huh ?
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 8:52 AM |
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drs297
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its like the person who finds the perfect house for them, car or whatever it might be. You have in your mind what it is but are never satisfied because you always think what if this or that happens or goes wrong. Tell her to drink from a shot glass and it might be full instead of half empty
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 9:59 AM |
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relyt517
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I am under the impression that there are people who aren't happy unless they find something wrong with someone else. Who knows why.
If I ever found someone that was perfect for me - I wouldn't question a thing and I'd take the risk of havign the relationship eventually fail. At least that way I wuold never have to wonder "what if"
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 4:55 PM |
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painter007
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I kinda dig the man whos far from perfect.....perfect is boring. jmo
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 4:56 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Because a girl gets bored sometimes.   
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 7:28 PM |
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Laidback742
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Thinking that anything or anyone is "perfect" is pretty damn stupid to start with ..... thats the problem.
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 7:56 PM |
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onoudn
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You all just reminded me of the Seinfield episode where he wanted to breakup with his girl-friend cause she wasn't depraved enough. Then he finds out she's got a stash of "the sponge" contraceptive. After that he decided he wanted her. But then she didn't want him cause he played off wanting to break up with her by claiming he changes the his pant size from 31 to 32, or something like that. Remember the "sponge worthy" episode?
Guys are really like that. Its not just women. Guys like the pornish types. If they say they don't they lie. Trust me. The more depraved the better. Its perverse but kind of really true.. 
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 9:55 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,881
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yeah give me depraved any day Ill take care of it...
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:18 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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<---------- How about depraved AND deprived??!?!?!?!? 
So she is now convinced that their relationship can't last, why? Because its too good to be true. You know the old adage, "If it sounds to good to be true, it probably is?"
It doesn't really matter whether that adage is true or not....it's ingrained in virtually all of us and is a filter that we tend to see life through, whether we realize it or not, whether we like it or not, whether we WANT TO or not. Think about it for a moment - how many times do you think you've heard that growing up? Something repeated often enough, if not questioned, becomes our "truth"..... 
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:22 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 13,962
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What the hell is everyone talking about? 
Is this a 12 step thread?
[Edited on 11/6/2007 10:29 PM]
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:36 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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I don't know any longer.....I've admitted that I'm powerless over this thread and I've given it over to my higher power...... 
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