| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:42 PM |
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pamdemonium
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Hello Jester.... My name is Pam, and I'd like to fix you.
If you struggle, you'll only make it harder on yourself.
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:51 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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Well then, you may fix me if you'd like.
Or, if you'd prefer, I can struggle a bit.....thereby making it harder..... 
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:55 PM |
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pamdemonium
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Okay... what the hell... at least you didn't ask me to wear my panties while I beat your ass...
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:56 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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I would NEVER ask such a thing!  You may be as naked as you like while you beat said ass.....
I was wondering, however - Could I wear them??????
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 11:01 PM |
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pamdemonium
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DON'T!!! Don't say ONE MORE WORD ABOUT MY PANTIES!!
I thought there were at least 5 of you left who hadn't asked me to
do all of the above and now you've wrecked it...  
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 11:24 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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There are at least 5 left.....they're the 5 who haven't found the forums yet!
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| Nov 7, 2007 @ 2:01 PM |
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thedarkmechanic
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This is definitely something that's pestered my existence since my ExWife. I've come to the conclusion that EVERYbody is damaged goods in one way or another. I've been in a few relationships where the communication was perfect in the begining. If it was on her mind, she spoke it. Yet SOMEhow after the "new relationship smell" wears off, it systematically devolves into something to the effect of:
Is something bothering you Darlin?
I don't wanna talk about it.
Okay.
... time passes...
(she walks into the room, say after work or something)"WHAT'S WRONG!?!"
Me: "Huh? Where'd that come from? I was just sitting here, what's up with you?"
"IF YOU DON'T KNOW, I'M NOT TELLING YOU?!?"
Guys? This seem familiar to any of y'all?
Women? WHYYYYYYYY? Do y'all expect us to somehow develop the ability of mind reading somehow?
Please understand that I'm not TRYING to put down the female gender, but you gotta understand that we men are MUCH simpler than y'all are. Help us out here. Do the world a favor and somehow work towards putting an end to passive aggressive behavior.
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| Nov 7, 2007 @ 6:42 PM |
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onoudn
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We made a decision to turn our will over to depraved relationship as we understood them.
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| Nov 8, 2007 @ 1:27 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Painter: I kinda dig the man whos far from perfect Cold: Because a girl gets bored sometimes.  ...Uhm, if he was "perfect," as in perfect for her, then she would not be bored... 
O: Guys like the pornish types. If they say they don't they lie. Trust me. The more depraved the better.
...Yea and then we grow up and realize what we really want and need; realize that depraved and pornish types do not have to be one and same. 
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| Nov 10, 2007 @ 5:18 PM |
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onoudn
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Do guys ever really grow up when it comes to relationships. And BTW, sorry if I offended any ladies with the pornish-type remarks.
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| Nov 18, 2007 @ 10:55 PM |
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thedarkmechanic
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There are a few traits I'm phyisically and mentally attracted to. More-so it's all about her willingness to put up with my derangements...
See, unlike most ppl, I treat ppl like I wanna be treated. I'm fiercly loyal and expect the same back. However that seems to be representative of a HUGE minority of ppl. Therefore my current state of singleness despite having many relationships.
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 8:22 PM |
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painter007
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I dont understand why someone would try to fix or change another person.....I think people make adjustments but other than that it seems so silly...I only wish to find someone who cares for me as I am......and I only want a man to be himself......when that is done I think the relationship is the most real.....jmo
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 11:57 AM |
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AttractedCentaur
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I agree with painter007 I only wish to find someone who cares for me as I am......and I only want a man to be himself......when that is done I think the relationship is the most real
Accept the person for who they are, make adjustments as needed and go from there. If you think the other person needs to be "fixed" then maybe you cannot accept that person for who they are.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 8:51 PM |
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onoudn
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paiter said: I only want a man to be himself
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| Dec 16, 2007 @ 2:51 PM |
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Blondredhead61
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I don't see the woman's comment as an indictment against the guy or that she's someone who's never satisfied. If you've had a string of bad dates/relationships ,the fear of finding out that a good person you're getting attached to isn't who he appears to be (and then getting hurt) probably prompted that statement.
Tell me- who HASN'T had that happen before??
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| Dec 18, 2007 @ 8:55 PM |
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onoudn
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So true blonde. Who sang that song with that line that went " when you're in love you're always insecure".....Most of us guys know that a lady may have been hurt in the past 'cause.....well....we're dogs....always after that one thing.....women know this and are always kind of looking out for themselves....jmo..
i miss these friends haven't seen them cause i'm re-locating due to personal issues, family and stuff, ya know ?
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 9:09 AM |
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jaybird777
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Well, if you really really sit fown and anlylytical about what makes a person a person, it is emotional content. I mean really, that is the what seperartes the computers from the live folks.
THe emotional content is what makes life interesting. That's the reason that people watch games shows on the TV. When somebody loses big, we wanna be their to empathize, when someone wind big, we wanna share in the jubilating.
Ever hear a great joke, or see something great on the tube, then be there when someone else heard it for the firts time? Beeing there to share them experiencing it for the first time is almost as good as when you heard er saw it the first time.
I has been my experience that women, by far, gots more emotional content. Most guys got very little, and a whole bunch, if you walked through the depths a their souls, you wouldn't get the canvas on your sneakers wet.
It really really rankles my feathered arse to hear men complain about women being tempermental, gossipy, er emotional. Dude! I think yer reality check didn't clear yer account!
Women is the only thing makes life interesting. I get so sick of hearing men brag about their cars and motorbikes, er recite sports game statistics. If men weren't necessarry for procreation, the race would have died out by nor from terminal boredom!.
Ever have a class at school that was all men? Ever got to a party that was all men? I have - fer about 5 minutes - long enough to shuvel my arse out the door. It is misearable boring.
Heck, even if the ration is bad it is terrible. If there's only one gal at a party, watch all the men crowd round like little boy scouts round the campfire in the cold dark woods.
God bless women fer making life interesting. Thank-you thank-you ladies fer the wide-eyed wonder in which you see the world. Thank-you for yer emotional outbursts. Thank-you fer getting all pissy when something don't quite suit yer contrary arse. Thank-you fer blowing a gasket when it don't make no friggin sense at all.
And if yer ole man bietches about it, try to forgive him, he's jest too ignorant to realize he's got holt a something good.
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 9:50 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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And sometimes things just aren't what they seem....I'd been yawning so hard I had tears in my eyes. Enter boyfriend...sees the tears, says nothing, just stands there with that look that says oh shit, what kinda woman stuff am I gonna have to deal with now? I break out laughing at the look and tell him I was just yawning but if he wants to analyze the relationship or something, I DO have all X chromosomes, I can do that. Fortunately he had a better idea for stopping the yawns...
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 5:54 PM |
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Kenn159
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when you're in love you're always insecure".....
I don't really agree
When you’re insecure you become jealous, when your jealous you try to control.
Control has no place in a healthy relationship, and you can never make someone love you by trying to control them into it.
I guess a small amount of Jealousy is natural, but many people have a problem with keeping it small, and then it transforms into trying to control your spouse through things like, who they talk to and what time they get home etc.
A person can only blossom when they have the freedom to be who they truly are, that way each of you can be the best you can be, for yourselves and each other.
I feel if two people are right for each other, your feelings for each other will be your bond, and if you are meant to be with each other, so be it, it’s a good thing , but if not, let each other fly.
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 6:12 PM |
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onoudn
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Everybody gets jealous....it's healthy unless you take it too far. JMO
[Edited on 12/22/2007 7:25 PM]
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