| Dec 22, 2007 @ 7:23 PM |
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loisday
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Kenn................................ 
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 7:32 PM |
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BeachCrete
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because ALL MEN..are broken...keep thinkin' that ladies 
just a facade we just agree with  
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 10:43 PM |
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pamdemonium
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then it transforms into trying to control your spouse through things like, who they talk to and what time they get home etc.
A person can only blossom when they have the freedom to be who they truly are, that way each of you can be the best you can be, for yourselves and each other.
You forgot checking car mileage, cell phone records, trash and  lets see....what am I forgetting....
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 10:47 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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I feel if two people are right for each other, your feelings for each other will be your bond, and if you are meant to be with each other, so be it, it’s a good thing , but if not, let each other fly.
Kenn, I think I've mentioned that you remind me of one of my favorite men on the planet...even more now - you've got it, exactly!
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| Dec 23, 2007 @ 11:48 AM |
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Kenn159
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Thanks Heaven and Lois. 
And Pammy, not a good thing 
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| Dec 23, 2007 @ 3:49 PM |
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onoudn
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 You mean no one here has ever gotten jealous, or deliberately made your mate jealous? If for not other reason than the make-up sex. I think a little jealousy is perfectly natural. Its when its gets out of hand that it becomes a problem. Yeah, like stalking behavior.
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| Jan 11 @ 6:37 PM |
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thedarkmechanic
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I never really understood the whole insecurity thing. Seems MAKING the other one jealous is such a waste of time. I've dumped SEVERAL women because of this. If she's NOT happy with me or doesn't think she's getting enough attention, VERBALLY COMMUNICATE THIS!!! It's not our fault that your previous relationship(s) damaged you so badly. Get over it!
And you guys... If someone else that you meet does it better for you than your current relationship, then do her the favor and properly end the relationship. Women are made further crazy enough without all the lying and cheating.
To me, if trustwortyness is a constant issue, it should be handled or just end the relationship altogether. I know TOO many people who raise insecurity to an art form. What I wanna know is... Why all the self-imposed stress? Why did she decide to hook up with the dude who's contantly making her this way?
And the projected guilt trips or passive aggressive behavior. eg: "I'm gonna stop washing the dishes to see if he notices." Why not just verbally ask him to wash them?
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| Jan 11 @ 9:24 PM |
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Loreli
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 Kenn
And, nothing wrong with a small twinge of jealousy, the kind you get as you watch your mate from across the room, and see members if the opposite sex hit on them. Just a twinge, knowing your mate is going home with YOU is all that should matter.
Now, if I had a mate that HEAVILY flirted with EVERYONE, talked sexually-I wouldn't get jealous...we'd be having a nice long talk.
Some things should be reserved for 2. And that's sleazy.
Have I intentionally made a guy jealous?
In high school......
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| Jan 12 @ 12:50 PM |
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painter007
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I can also get a twinge of jealousy and do not like the feeling...so have I tried to make someone jealous......................NO......not even in high school, since I had the same boyfriend for 3 years and he was out of school so he wouldnt know what what I did....Its a waste of time...same with trying to fix someone...you either like them or you dont.....there is tho a time when both people will bend a bit to make the other happy, but thats both people.....jmo
[Edited on 1/12/2008 1:18 PM]
[Edited on 1/12/2008 1:18 PM]
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| Jan 20 @ 4:37 PM |
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bigboi69
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damn it sounds like painter has this one down to a T
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| Jan 22 @ 2:05 PM |
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thedarkmechanic
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I've been in several situations where guys flirt with my significant other. I can actually sit back and laugh while keeping in mind. "Let em buy her drinks and stuff. She's goin home with me tonight anyway."
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| Jan 24 @ 10:03 AM |
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emptypages
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yea, maybe she is going home with you, but no way in hell would I put up with some dude buying my woman drinks. It'd be "F off buddy!"
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| Jan 26 @ 6:48 PM |
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painter007
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^^^^^
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| Jan 26 @ 8:55 PM |
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capobeachguy
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It'd be "F off buddy!" Hopefully you can do it without resorting to the use of profanity.
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| Jan 26 @ 9:45 PM |
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pamdemonium
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capo...you're such a gentleman.
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| Feb 7 @ 6:58 PM |
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onoudn
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back to jealousy a minute
a little jealousy is good
little fights that lead to making up is ok too
stalking, domestic violence, restraining order type..... 
if i want to box i go to the gym
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| Feb 7 @ 7:04 PM |
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katydid438
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 Ono  long time no see! There are only a few broken things that are capable of being fixed!! JMHO
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| Feb 7 @ 7:52 PM |
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MotownManiax
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I don't believe there's enough duct tape in the whole world that can fix us, anyway, so please don't try ladies. 
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| Feb 7 @ 7:54 PM |
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painter007
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I kinda dig men just as they are....a little this and that all mixed together..Keeps things interesting....
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| Feb 7 @ 8:01 PM |
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Angel178
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I used to get a little jealous...but that was not him, it was early in the relationship and my own insecurity. He didn't know about it most of the time cause I knew it was me...
I would never have tried to change him cause that was the "him" that I was attracted to. Once I was comfortable with myself...it was all good
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