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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 11:41 AM |
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candylily
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I admit that in the past I've taken sexy pics and sent them to guys I like. My face is never in the pics because I don't want them showing up online somewhere and embarassing me. I haven't taken any lately, but for a while, I thought it was kind of fun to send them to men who appreciated them. It was my way of rebuilding my self-confidence with very little risk since I was in the privacy of my own home and chose who saw them. The pics were more artistic than slutty. I enjoyed the responses I got from men. I didn't see anything wrong with it because most of my pics didn't show any more than underwear ads do although a few showed more. Some women have stated they would never take or send sexy pics. Some women not only take them but they post them on their profiles. Most men love getting pics, but some of them pretend not to understand that a pic is just a pic. Just because a guy has seen a suggestive pic of a woman, it doesn't mean she's going to show much skin in real life if or when he first meets her and it doesn't in any way mean she wants to have casual sex with him or anyone else. Your comments?
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 11:45 AM |
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drs297
Posts: 4,376
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I didn't get any of the damn pics..
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 11:54 AM |
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candylily
Posts: 1,347
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I don't know you and you won't even take off your flannel shirt in the summer time. 
[Edited on 8/31/2007 11:58 AM]
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 11:58 AM |
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drs297
Posts: 4,376
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well it wasn't summer time.. at daytona in Feb. and it was in the 50's.
I'm Doug.. now you know me.. I'm waiting. 
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 12:05 PM |
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candylily
Posts: 1,347
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I've reformed. No more pics. 
I just want to hear other women's experiences about how men have reacted to their pictures and if it caused misunderstandings.
I want to hear how men interpret sexy pics and whether or not it's unreasonable for women to think that men can look at pics without thinking the woman sending them is promiscuous.
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 12:06 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Nope..no teasing pics for me..well I had one but i had a towel on... 
and.....clothes under the towel. 
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 12:10 PM |
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drs297
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Here is my take on it all.
All you have to do is look through a sales ad, there are advertisements for bras, panties and everything else. Does it mean these women are whores? No
Same with calendars, posts etc. If a man thinks a woman posting pictures, sending pictures means sex is on the way, they are narrowminded and thinking with the little cock between the legs and aren't worth the time of day.
The same can be said with women who make comments or put others down towards women who do this, its a choice, plain and simple. They have the right to say what they think or how they feel but after that leave it the hell alone.
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 12:25 PM |
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candylily
Posts: 1,347
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That was always how I looked at it DRS.
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 1:07 PM |
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Loreli
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Since I was one that discussed this in another thread, I will explain.
In that other thread, the words "like to tease them" with pics like that.
My take is that action could lead to a person thinking there is more interest than exists.To each their own, but if that is what results from sending "sexy" pics, imo it is not fair.
If there is an explanation attached, hey, don't fall for me because of these-they mean nothing....then the recipient knows what they are getting.
I don't think anybody said it was "slutty."
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 1:30 PM |
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Angel178
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Well said Loreli 
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 2:49 PM |
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dooney123
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I think you teach people how to treat you both in real life and on the internet. I don't think you should be surprised if men want to talk to you about sex, e-mail you about sex, webcam, etc. and expect you to be more into casual sex or more sexual in person if you have pics on your profile showing skin, or you send pics like that to them, or you mention sex or sensuality in your profile. I think that's a typical reaction for men to have. I see women on dating sites regularly complain about men making sexual comments toward them, but usually these same women have provocative pics or comments in their profile. To me it's pretty simple; if you don't want that kind of attention, don't instigate it. I rarely get e-mails with sexual comments that I find offensive, because I don't post or e-mail pics showing skin or mention anything in my profile that would make a guy think about sex. I think it's great when women post pics showing skin, but I have to think there is something off with them if they start whining later that they're getting sexual attention because of it; my reaction is always, "Well, DUH!"
[Edited on 8/31/2007 4:49 PM]
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 4:13 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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I rarely get e-mails with sexual comments that I find offensive, because .....
 Jester put out the word that he would hunt down and castrate anyone who did....
I've taken sexy pics and sent them to guys I like
 if anyone I was "talking to" sent me sexy pic's I would assume that there was a deeper relationship that "just friends.."
but if a friend sent or posted sexy pic's, I would know that she was only having fun and sharing pics that she shares with everyone else
perception is everything...
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 4:25 PM |
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KAOS2007
Posts: 6,679
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I never get any offensive sexual mail  .... unless you count the odd "i will lik to kno ur structure" 
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 4:27 PM |
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pumpelly
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Actually CandyLily, the name of your thread says it all. Teasing with pics. Having pictures or sending pictures like that to a man is a huge tease and risk! You have to be more careful about sending pictures Candy!!! There are dudes out there who are nice to your face and when you meet they become Neanderthals, or worse. I always worry about women putting themselves in danger by being virtually naked (not meant as a pun) on these online dating sites by showing too much of themselves. Guys like drs297, me (whom you don't know), and other guys you've talked with are cool and you can trust them. But watch out for the guys who send naked pictures of themselves in perverted poses. I know you know all of this, I know you're able to handle yourself, but you can't be too careful. Take it from me, I stopped a guy who was trying to rape a woman in someone's home who had a big party about 15 years ago. He was the all around nice guy, but it took a rifle butt to the head to knock him out and make him stop. The police came and got him and he had to do a 5-10 bid. He was like a guy who was freaking out on crack, he had superhuman strength.
Anyway dooney23 has summed it up the best very articulately and succinctly.
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 5:14 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 14,546
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 That's in large part why I don't post. Anyone who has asked, that I feel comfortable showing, I show. But never intimates. You're right, Dooney, you train people to treat you the way they treat you. And while it's nice to be attractive, in the end, I'd rather people thought I was a smart person with a good heart, if I had my choice.
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 5:17 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Good answer, I agree. When it's time to get naked, we can do it in person!
Now, if they want to send me some......that's just Jim Dandy!!! 
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 5:44 PM |
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sthnhylander
Posts: 3,521
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I have no problem with each 'friend' sending sexy photo's of each other....
.the meaning of sexy does not always incorporate nude or porn pics...but, just read some reactions on profile posted on this site......"please don't send me photo's of your d..k" Most women would complain in getting naked photo's of guys...
let's face it....how many guys on here are toy boys.....and can compete with the ones that are posted here such as those in the horny thread........and in reverse how many of the women can compete with the female photos that are usually posted in reply.....lets look at the shirtless thread....for example...if that's what you want I have no probs.....
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 6:20 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 14,546
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Women are not usually as visually stimulated as men. And if a woman sends a photo for the sole purpose of stimulating, then she gets what she gets.
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 7:19 PM |
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dt3d2001
Posts: 4,946
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I never get any offensive sexual mail .... unless you count the odd "i will lik to kno ur structure"
OMG!! Kaos,,, you get those too!! if its from "an Asian woman?" and there over 30, they will often add "me love yu much lonn time for all days"
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| Aug 31, 2007 @ 8:19 PM |
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Always_Striving
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me love yu much lonn time
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