| Sep 16, 2007 @ 4:06 PM |
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Pete73052
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Noooo... I'm not rude to others who don't come here to be rude. The ones that are rude are the ones who get a good taste of my darker side. 
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 4:15 PM |
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DarkCity
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Is that suppose to be a threat? your darker side? I noticed your darker side seems to post in the violations thread a lot when you don't seem to get your way as Spirit pointed out.
are you a moderator Pete? again all I'm pointing out is what Spirit kindly pointed out
when it comes to stirring up trouble I notice you are always there.Another thing you seem to forget to do is stay on topic or is that allowed here I don't know like I say I don't post much thanks for your response.
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 4:52 PM |
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Pete73052
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Is that suppose to be a threat? your darker side? I noticed your darker side seems to post in the violations thread a lot when you don't seem to get your way as Spirit pointed out.
 Here we go... OK - thanks for your analysis but you're wrong about this. I report abuse to the mods when people abuse. I think I reported you a while back by a different name... right? 
are you a moderator Pete?
I'm not patient enough to be a moderator.
again all I'm pointing out is what Spirit kindly pointed out
when it comes to stirring up trouble I notice you are always there.
Yes - I love that. I love confronting trolls. 
Another thing you seem to forget to do is stay on topic or is that allowed here I don't know like I say I don't post much thanks for your response.
I don't know if that's such a good thing. Our old friend Nat would ALWAYS post on topic - and still found ways to annoy the crap out of everyone. Anyway - this is a very big place and there's room for everyone... even trolls as long as they play nice. 
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 5:17 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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trolls as long as they play nice.
 I always play nice..yes yes I`m a troll..not by choice..can`t help it if I live under the bridge..
It would be a rather dull forum if it was isolated..variety is the spice of life. 
Just my opinion... 
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 5:35 PM |
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candylily
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Just because someone is new to the site or an infrequent poster, it doesn't make them a troll and just because some people aren't popular on here, it doesn't make them trolls. There's no reason to call anyone names or make insulting personal comments ever.
I report abuse to the mods when people abuse. I was shocked when I read that, Pete. We're all adults and I can't imagine anyone reporting anything to the mods unless there's a vicious personal attack occurring on the forums which happens all too frequently on here. I've never reported that either but I can understand that some might because it's very upsetting to those of us who hate to see people being made fun of and purposely humiliated.
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 5:50 PM |
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Pete73052
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Just because someone is new to the site or an infrequent poster, it doesn't make them a troll and just because some people aren't popular on here, it doesn't make them trolls. There's no reason to call anyone names or make insulting personal comments ever.
I have an extensive set of criteria that must be filled before someone qualifies as a troll in my mind. Infrequent posters are not trolls... but some people are repeat offenders here and their style has become familiar to me (and to others). Those persons, I have no problem identifying. 
I was shocked when I read that, Pete. We're all adults and I can't imagine anyone reporting anything to the mods unless there's a vicious personal attack occurring on the forums which happens all too frequently on here. I've never reported that either but I can understand that some might because it's very upsetting to those of us who hate to see people being made fun of and purposely humiliated.
Yep - that's what I report too - vicious personal attacks. Sometimes the viciousness is cleverly hidden in the posts and it requires a lot of inside knowledge to really "get" how the person is being vicious. Knowing the people here helps. Sometimes, when I come after someone - it appears to be unprovoked. I can assure you, it is not. People here often make comments of a very personal nature that only a very few people will understand... and sometimes those comments can be very vicious, or hurtful, or intended to provoke a response. Yes, people use the open forums to harass people they have had relationships with - or people who don't want contact with them - even people who have blocked them. What some people see here is the tip of a very deep iceberg.
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 6:39 PM |
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DarkCity
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Pete that's why I was asking if you were moderator you seem to get away with a lot of things other users don't.
as Spirit pointed out You stir up as much trouble as the trolls do I don't understand the line of thinking myself.
that's why I asked if you were a moderator.?
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 6:51 PM |
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Angel178
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Pete has a second job?
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 6:52 PM |
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Pete73052
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Well, not everyone shares the same point of view. That seems to be the point of this thread. I certainly don't see myself stirring up trouble here. I'm here enjoying the forums... very likely I will be one of the Matchdoctor success stories someday soon. 
BTW, you didn't respond to my question about you having a run-in with me before... 
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 6:53 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Male Stripper.
I'ts what I heard anyway....rumors on the street and all that.
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 7:03 PM |
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Loreli
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Hopefully this thread will die out as Mod sees fit to deal with offenders.
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 7:28 PM |
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DarkCity
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Pete I didn't say you were stirring up trouble here on this thread.
I meant on matchdoctor in general after I read Spiritenergy's post I agreed with her I think she was kindly pointing out the fact that you say one thing and then do another.Again all I'm pointing out is a fact from what we I have witnessed first hand.
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 7:50 PM |
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candylily
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Sometimes the viciousness is cleverly hidden in the posts and it requires a lot of inside knowledge to really "get" how the person is being vicious. But unless someone is a mindreader, they can't know for sure that a person is doing anything deliberately. I was extremely shocked one day to get an email from another lady on here who I liked and thought was very funny in her posts. She accused me of trying to get little stabs in at her when I definitely wasn't. I responded and told her, she was reading things into my posts that weren't there but she responded with another letter just as hateful. At least this was done in private and she didn't post it on the forums. We had never met in person or exchanged emails so she had me completely wrong. If she had known me in person, she would have known I'm not catty and would also have known that I will never deny doing anything that I've done even if what I did was wrong. It hurt me that she misjudged me like that because I had always thought that if we met, we would probably have liked each other. We did have a crush on the same guy, but I knew he liked her a lot and I encouraged him to meet her. I don't know if he ever did or not, but she seemed to think that every post I made about a guy was about him and that was just crazy. I've dated lots of people and don't need to obsess over someone I've never even had sex with.
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:24 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Hehe, Candy! 
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:32 PM |
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Angel178
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Well...now i guess we are not even allowed to have fun anymore at all...
What is the point in posting and having a good time if 1 1/2 pages of posts get deleted, and there was nothing in them that hurt anyone...and the posts were on topic? 
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:38 PM |
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Loreli
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Where, Angel?
(and as said before, nobody is complaining about having fun
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:40 PM |
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Angel178
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In the "are kisses the secret..." thread....
I was bantering...still on topic...and over a page was deleted....
It was fun, other people joined in with Pete and i ....we were having fun...
Now it is all gone...
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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painter007
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Pete......are.you little trouble maker? I have never seen this....Yes you say what you feel....and so do I.....but thats just how we are....
I think your ok in my book.......not that my book matters......
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:47 PM |
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robodad
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I used to have a book...now I only got a page...
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:49 PM |
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Pete73052
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Well, I guess that will dispel the rumor that I'm a mod...
I guess the No Fun Allowed people win...
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