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Oct 3, 2007 @ 2:41 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
LipGlossQueen9


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The heterosexual questionnaire was basically designed to ask heterosexuals the questions that are often asked of bisexuals and homosexuals..to see if they have a definite answer...and basically to see how they like being asked those questions. Try and answer them. If you don't want to, just think about the double standard in society and why we ask these questions of one group and not the other...and how you'd really feel being asked these questions.


1. What do you think caused your heterosexuality?

2. When and how did you first decide you were a heterosexual?

3. Is it possible your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of?

4. Could it be that your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?

5. If you’ve never slept with a person of the same sex, how can you be sure you wouldn’t prefer that?

6. To whom have you disclosed your heterosexual tendencies? How did they react?

7. Why do heterosexuals feel compelled to seduce others into their lifestyle?

8. Why do you insist on flaunting your heterosexuality? Can’t you just be what you are and keep it quiet?

9. Would you want your children to be heterosexual, knowing the problems they’d face?

10. A disproportionate majority of child molesters are heterosexual men. Do you consider it safe to expose children to heterosexual male teachers, pediatricians, priests, or scoutmasters?

11. With all the societal support for marriage, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?

12. Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex?

13. Considering the menace of overpopulation, how could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual?

14. Could you trust a heterosexual therapist to be objective? Don’t you fear s/he might be inclined to influence you in the direction of her/his own leanings?

15. Heterosexuals are notorious for assigning themselves and one another rigid, stereotyped sex roles. Why must you cling to such unhealthy role-playing?

16. With the sexually segregated living conditions of military life, isn’t heterosexuality incompatible with military service?

17. How can you enjoy an emotionally fulfilling experience with a person of the other sex when there are such vast differences between you? How can a man know what pleases a woman sexually or vice-versa?

18. Shouldn’t you ask your far-out straight cohorts, like skinheads and born-agains, to keep quiet? Wouldn’t that improve your image?

19. Why are heterosexuals so promiscuous?

20. Why do you attribute heterosexuality to so many famous lesbian and gay people? Is it to justify your own heterosexuality?

21. How can you hope to actualize your God-given homosexual potential if you limit yourself to exclusive, compulsive heterosexuality?

22. There seem to be very few happy heterosexuals. Techniques have been developed that might enable you to change if you really want to. After all, you never deliberately chose to be a heterosexual, did you? Have you considered aversion therapy or Heterosexuals Anonymous?
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 2:56 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
Blondino


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1. What do you think caused your heterosexuality?
dont know who s to blame
2. When and how did you first decide you were a heterosexual?
still deciding
3. Is it possible your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of?
yes .. I may do
4. Could it be that your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?
Yes .. many women are very scary

5. If you’ve never slept with a person of the same sex, how can you be sure you wouldn’t prefer that?
never done that
got bored

12. Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex?
thats a stereotype
13. Considering the menace of overpopulation, how could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual?
wars in Iraq will keep population down


19. Why are heterosexuals so promiscuous?
I am not

had enough .. moving on
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 3:00 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
LipGlossQueen9


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And I have one of my own:

Do you really want your kids learning about the heterosexual lifestyle when they're young?
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 3:56 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
Loreli


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I can honestly say I have never tried to seduce a homosexual into my lifestyle. I can't say I agree with their choice,but it's their choice.
What is the pro-rated percentage of gay or lesbian relationships falling apart?

It isn't a fair comparison, because gay marriage was only recently recognized.

I first realized I was hetero when I knew I was only, and strongly, attracted to men. I don't know if I would want to venture into a sexual relationship with a guy that's been with a guy. If I EVEN thought it-AIDS testing.

oops-typo

[Edited on 10/3/2007 5:22 PM]
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 4:09 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
LipGlossQueen9


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don't you ask for your male partners to be tested anyway? chicks can give them AIDS, you must know that.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 5:16 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
candylily


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During the 6 years I worked as a Medicaid eligibiity specialist. Out of my hundreds, maybe thousands of clients, I never had one heterosexual client who had AIDS. I had quite a few gay cleints who had the disease.
I'm like Loreli, I would never ever knowingly date any guy who is bisexual or even bicurious. The risk today of heterosexual people getting AIDS if they're not drug users is very small but for gay or bisexual men, the risk increases dramatically.
And no, LGQ, I don't think kids should be taught about the homosexual lifestyle in school. I'm not politically correct at all. I don't think kids should be taught sex education at all in the way it's taught now. Way back in the days before you were born, girls and boys were taught separately and we were only taught the basics and that was all we needed to know. I was a virgin until I met my 1st husband at 19 and I'm very glad I was. I didn't need much sex education. It seemed like the most natural thing in the world to me after the first time.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 5:18 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
LipGlossQueen9


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I saw an interesting thing in Soc.

In the South, where they are not taught about sexual education, there is a higher teenage pregnancy rate. Interesting, no? I can't get the source because it's on a CD ROM that came with my book but it's indeed true and I find it insanely interesting that people say we only need to teach abstinence.

Also...I like how a lot of people are skirting around the questionnaire. The point was not to talk about how you wouldn't date a bisexual man, or who gets AIDS more.

I want to know how you would react if I decided to ask you these questions right now.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 5:30 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
Loreli


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LGQ-you re right-a little.

Sex is a very scary thing now days, because not everyone is honest about past encounters. i do believe that homosexual relationships and history of drug use will elevate someone into a higher risk category.

I have never looked up statistics, but I know that practicing safe sex-not just to prevent pregnancy-will minimize possible infection.

i am past the point of sleeping with someone "just" to sleep with them, and was tested myself 6 months ago (along with tons of other test to find out why I had nerve damage-whole nother story, though)

i will get to know somebody pretty damn good before I jump into be with them. I think ANY "meat-market" atmosphere is breeding grounds for problems.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 5:37 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
LipGlossQueen9


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Oh I feel the same way at this point in my life Loreli...after Dan and I broke up I was screwing around a lot and luckily I have no STDs but I made Rolf get tested just like I would make anyone get tested that I was going to be with..male or female. It's just a lesson that I've learned after screwing around for so long.

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Oct 3, 2007 @ 5:39 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
johnnysacs


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the fact that kissing a man,,,,,or having another naked man in the same room as me,,,,

does not excite me in the least,,,,,

was the reason i decided i was heterosexual:)
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 5:41 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
drs297


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I've had enough blood taken from me lately that I know I'm safe
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:02 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
Loreli


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~hugs~ Sweetie
Keep being safe
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:08 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
mrobvious444


Posts: 1,751
LGQ Shire the question's are unfair that our society asking stupid questions and trying to
figure out the minority ,people are scared and question what
they don't understand. Bottom line is I don't think anybody should push their
views or get questioned on such (choice) matters .LOL
A big STRIGHT Ty maybe the government can give us all tags !
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:32 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
candylily


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Homosexual people do not have babies and since the survival of every species is dependent on new life being created, heterosexual sex is the norm because it naturally passes our genes on from one generation to the next. So to answer the first question, I'm heterosexual because that's how God created me and the human race would die out if most of us weren't. I have no idea whether homosexuality is genetic or whether it's psychological so there's a valid reason to ask those questions of homosexuals. I would read the results of questionnaires like that just to have a better understanding. I have a feeling it's psychological and not genetic, but I could be wrong. There have been all kinds of studies for heterosexual behavior and attraction already. As you know, men love to cite the results of those studies because they have "proof" that they are genetically programmed to desire pretty young women and to impregnate as many of them as possible.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:51 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
jaybird777


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It is possible ta get aids from a woman, but not nearly as easy as gettin it from a man. Mostly men give to women, and men give it ta other men. More boidly fluids going to the partner and alla that.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 7:11 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
candylily


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The chief reason it’s so hard to spread HIV vaginally is that, as biopsies of vaginal and cervical tissue show, the virus is unable to penetrate or infect healthy vaginal or cervical tissue. Various sexually transmitted diseases facilitate vaginal HIV infection, but even those appear to increase the risk only slightly.
I'm not sure where the original citation for this is. It was quoted in another article but the link to the original didn't work.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 7:37 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
ToucherinSparks


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1. What do you think caused your heterosexuality?

Girls

2. When and how did you first decide you were a heterosexual?

When I was about 6 and looked up some girls dress.

3. Is it possible your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of?

No

4. Could it be that your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?

No.

5. If you’ve never slept with a person of the same sex, how can you be sure you wouldn’t prefer that?

Thinking about jamming my cock in some dude's hairy ass doesn't turn me on.

6. To whom have you disclosed your heterosexual tendencies? How did they react?

To every woman I meet, and they love it!

7. Why do heterosexuals feel compelled to seduce others into their lifestyle?

Because it feels good.

8. Why do you insist on flaunting your heterosexuality? Can’t you just be what you are and keep it quiet?

If you've got it, flaunt it.

9. Would you want your children to be heterosexual, knowing the problems they’d face?

Hell yes, problems build character.

10. A disproportionate majority of child molesters are heterosexual men. Do you consider it safe to expose children to heterosexual male teachers, pediatricians, priests, or scoutmasters?

Sure, hetro women too.

11. With all the societal support for marriage, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?

Marriage is an outdated concept.

12. Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex?

Because it feels so good, and I like pleasure.

13. Considering the menace of overpopulation, how could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual?

Technology has increased the per person productivity so that survival isn't a problem.

14. Could you trust a heterosexual therapist to be objective? Don’t you fear s/he might be inclined to influence you in the direction of her/his own leanings?

A therapist is a therapist, hetro or homo, their training is supposed to keep them nutral.

15. Heterosexuals are notorious for assigning themselves and one another rigid, stereotyped sex roles. Why must you cling to such unhealthy role-playing?

Tradition.

16. With the sexually segregated living conditions of military life, isn’t heterosexuality incompatible with military service?

No, just meet off base.

17. How can you enjoy an emotionally fulfilling experience with a person of the other sex when there are such vast differences between you? How can a man know what pleases a woman sexually or vice-versa?

Experience and communication solve that problem.

18. Shouldn’t you ask your far-out straight cohorts, like skinheads and born-agains, to keep quiet? Wouldn’t that improve your image?

Yes, those nutjobs are a pain in the ass for everyone, they should STFU.

19. Why are heterosexuals so promiscuous?

Because it feels so good!

20. Why do you attribute heterosexuality to so many famous lesbian and gay people? Is it to justify your own heterosexuality?

Give me some references here, I'm not aware of this happening.

21. How can you hope to actualize your God-given homosexual potential if you limit yourself to exclusive, compulsive heterosexuality?

I don't hope to actualize my homosexual potential, that doesn't interest me.

22. There seem to be very few happy heterosexuals. Techniques have been developed that might enable you to change if you really want to. After all, you never deliberately chose to be a heterosexual, did you? Have you considered aversion therapy or Heterosexuals Anonymous?

I did choose to be hetro, and I have no desire to change, so, no, I've never considered therapy or support groups.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 9:04 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
LipGlossQueen9


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Touch, thank you for answering the questions
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 9:05 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
candylily


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And they were very good answers.
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 9:16 PM The Heterosexual Questionnaire    
LipGlossQueen9


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For the sake of being fair, I'll turn them around and answer them.

1. What do you think caused your bisexuality?
It could either be a psychological reaction to sexual abuse or the fact that I have more testosterone than a lot of women. So...either genetic or psychological. I have no idea and will not speculate until I have scientific proof.

2. When and how did you first decide you were a bisexual?
I first felt for a woman when I was four and a man when I was five, but I gave myself the identity of bisexual when I was twelve.

3. Is it possible your bisexuality is just a phase you may grow out of?
No.

4. Could it be that your bisexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?
Obviously not.

5. If you’ve never slept with a person of the same sex, how can you be sure you wouldn’t prefer that?
I've slept with members of both sexes.

6. To whom have you disclosed your bisexual tendencies? How did they react?
Everyone in my life. And they've reacted differently. Some refuse to believe bisexuality exists, some want desperately to believe I am either a lesbian or a straight girl in disguise.

7. Why do bisexuals feel compelled to seduce others into their lifestyle?
I think this is a misconception. What I know I fight for is tolerance and education about my lifestyle, not recruitment or seduction into it.

8. Why do you insist on flaunting your bisexuality? Can’t you just be what you are and keep it quiet?
Because heterosexuals flaunt theirs and what I am is normal to me...it's part of me and I don't care what other people think of it.

9. Would you want your children to be bisexual, knowing the problems they’d face?
I'd want them to be whatever they were.

10. A disproportionate majority of child molesters are heterosexual men. Do you consider it safe to expose children to heterosexual male teachers, pediatricians, priests, or scoutmasters?
I don't care about the sexual orientation of any person that is in a position of authority because quite honestly any person could be a child molester, homosexual bisexual or heterosexual and if you think your child is safe just because they're with a heterosexual authority figure you're being stupid.

11. With all the societal support for marriage, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among bisexuals?
Gay marriage is new and I don't think there is really any data on this

12. Why do bisexuals place so much emphasis on sex?
We don't, this is a myth perpetrated by the media because they don't understand us.

13. You do realise that the human race couldn't survive if everyone were homosexual?
I don't think everyone should be homosexual.

14. Could you trust a bisexual therapist to be objective? Don’t you fear s/he might be inclined to influence you in the direction of her/his own leanings?
Yes I could.

15. Heterosexuals are notorious for assigning themselves and one another rigid, stereotyped sex roles. Why must you cling to such unhealthy role-playing?

16. With the sexually segregated living conditions of military life, isn’t heterosexuality incompatible with military service?

17. How can you enjoy an emotionally fulfilling experience with a person of the other sex when there are such vast differences between you? How can a man know what pleases a woman sexually or vice-versa?

18. Shouldn't you seek your far-out cohorts, like feminine gay men and butch lesbians, to keep quiet?
No. They are a fringe group and sometimes give the rest of us a bad image but they have as much right to speak out as I do.

19. Why are bisexuals so promiscuous?
I know I'm not but a lot of people are no matter what their sexual orientation

20. Why do you attribute heterosexuality to so many famous lesbian and gay people? Is it to justify your own heterosexuality?

21. How can you hope to actualize your God-given homosexual potential if you limit yourself to exclusive, compulsive heterosexuality?

22. There seem to be very few happy homosexuals. Techniques have been developed that might enable you to change if you really want to. After all, you never deliberately chose to be a homosexual, did you? Have you considered aversion therapy or Homosexuals Anonymous?
1. I don't know if I chose this
2. I've tried to change my feelings about women and I've tried to change my sexual orientation, it doesn't work and I won't do it again. It's not right.
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