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Oct 9, 2007 @ 8:35 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
luneib


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Ok men, do you think that a woman who says yes to sex with you on the first date is easy? Or does it not bother you if there is mutual attraction, and would you keep dating her if you felt a connection?
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Oct 9, 2007 @ 11:17 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
LipGlossQueen9


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If I took a girl out and she asked for sex on the first date, I'd lose all respect for her flat out.
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Oct 9, 2007 @ 11:22 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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dosen't bother me and yeah if there is a connection
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 12:15 AM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
blueyes101


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The person, the place, the situation, the chemistry, not just one or two of these, but everything put together. Now that ain't east, so neither is she.


But, "hey ya waanna???????" ??????? Yep!!!!! id say she is....But even then to each his own.....


There have been many times in my life I wish that ^^^^would have happened....... And many times in my life, I'm glad it didn't......
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 2:30 AM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
sensuouswoman


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I say no but really mean yes
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 10:16 AM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
swingpup


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Would I think she is easy? Absolutely not. I always feel in situations as this that she is a sexually mature adult that understands and is in fact in-touch with her emotions as well as her sexuality.

If there wasn't some sort of a physical connection, I wouldn't sleep with her in the first place. Would I continue to "date" her? That would depend upon the out come of the rendezvous. Basic factors on the surface that would be considered; Was she truly passionate and enthusiastic, was she hygienically clean, does our social as well as economic status compliment one another? There are many other variables to in fact consider as well.
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 1:00 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
LipGlossQueen9


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So women with traditional values aren't sexually mature adults?
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 2:55 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
JimNastics


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LGQ - I don't think that was pup's point. I believe his point is that a man doesn't judge a woman based on whether he has sex on the first date, but rather he views her as a complex individual with many characteristics and qualities.

Unless the person is a virgin, I sincerely doubt there is a single person commenting here who honestly hasn't slept with someone on the first date. Even those who say they wouldn't do it, probably have at some point. They can ACT like they are some pure holier than thou individual, but when the chemistry is just right, things can happen that weren't planned. JMO
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 2:57 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
LipGlossQueen9


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Yeah, I've done it but I would not do it again. There have been problems every time I have done it.

I don't like the idea of just sharing myself with anybody just because of "chemistry".
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 3:14 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
Luisa909


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Some men say "No she is not easy".....but when they are with friends they tell the opposite !!!!

Personally I think that men should wait a little......just the right time
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 4:23 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
ToucherinSparks


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You are both adults, if you both want to screw, then why not?
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 4:39 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
swingpup


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Thank you Jim, that was exactly my point

Touch, that is a very direct but oh so honest observation
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 4:41 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
pamdemonium


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Unless the person is a virgin, I sincerely doubt there is a single person commenting here who honestly hasn't slept with someone on the first date. Even those who say they wouldn't do it, probably have at some point.

Not everyone.
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 5:45 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
sensuouswoman


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Exactly.....gee give me a break......2nd date maybe
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 7:57 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
blueyes101


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Which date, the location, or the position is not the important factor here.

If you enter into a sexual relationship, honestly and not selfishly, both of you open to make it more, it should not matter when you decide have sex...... It is the feelings and trust/intent for both parties that makes any relationship work, not what date you decide to share it.

If you simply rely on sex and hope you can turn it into a real relationship, you are destined to fail........ Sperm of the moment rarely works..
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 8:04 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
ToucherinSparks


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Touch, that is a very direct but oh so honest observation

It's the same point whether its said in a 13 word sentence or has a lot of bullshit blathered on it to make it a 500 word essay. Sure I could have written a paragraph to say the same thing, but why?
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 9:08 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
LipGlossQueen9


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If you simply rely on sex and hope you can turn it into a real relationship, you are destined to fail........

Exactly.

"Chemistry" only takes you so far. I used to rely on it but don't anymore. Rolf and I waited to get to know each other and more importantly get tested!!!! before we had sex and I believe we are much better off for it!
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Oct 10, 2007 @ 11:27 PM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
alex_192


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if it is mutual atraction it will not bother me

i will date her, but i will never consider anything serious with her

when i will get tired of the new toy, i will look for some one interested in a real life term loving relationship
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Oct 11, 2007 @ 12:04 AM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
indecipherable


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it would be hard to say no, especially if there's an attraction. We can't turn it on and off like you ladies.
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Oct 11, 2007 @ 8:26 AM SEX: Women who say yes on the first date    
pamdemonium


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You did NOT just say that. What makes you think women can just turn it off?
There are times I'm pretty happy to be a woman, because my feelings don't 'show'.
Just because you're horny or feeling chemistry doesn't mean it's always a smart idea.
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