| Oct 14, 2007 @ 11:42 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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small point...
I wonder what's your idea of 50/50 relationship?
friends with benefits come to mind..
my goal is to find a 100 /100 relationship..
If I start counting percentages..it becomes more like a game ( a sad one at that )
in other words..imho ...Love means never keeping score...
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 12:48 PM |
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Pete73052
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??? If meeting each other's needs sounds like "manipulation" to you, I wonder what's your idea of 50/50 relationship?
Meeting each other's sexual needs is a very small part of a relationship. As Gallows pointed out, above, there's a lot more to a relationship than this. Some men, apparently, can't see past their dick. If you're giving her what she wants in order to get what you want - that's a symbiotic relationship... but most humans are capable of much, much more. Giving without thought of getting is what real love relationships are about. 
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 12:52 PM |
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Sunbabie
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Giving without thought of getting is what real love relationships are about.
 Wise words Pete
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 1:04 PM |
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painter007
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well first you have to have some form of communication to find some lovin
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 1:09 PM |
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xquackheadx
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like hello i am Ed
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 1:11 PM |
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painter007
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hahahahahahahah 
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 1:20 PM |
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Sunbabie
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Painter I would hope that communication comes before sex or love . I know that don't always happen  .
It looks like you could choose your communication with most of these guys on here .... start choosing lady 
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 1:39 PM |
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Pete73052
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like hello i am Ed
That's much better than "Hello, I have ED."
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 1:57 PM |
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xquackheadx
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So true Pete so true
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 1:57 PM |
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xquackheadx
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nnless painter is talking about me
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 3:25 PM |
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capitalview
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Sure, every guy has respect for those he LOVES. The women who are willing to have sex with males who don't love them, on the other hand, hardly can expect ANY respect , that's quite natural , don't you agree? That doesn't mean guys would not use those desperate females for sex, though ( and this is quite natural, too )
Let's put it this way , empath: if you are expecting guys to "fall in love" with you in exchange for you putting out , you are setting yourself up for HUGE disappointment.
Pete73052
Giving without thought of getting is what real love relationships are about.
Yeah, pete, you look just like a guy who'd be giving a woman all she wants without expecting anything in return It's more likely you want your partner to tend to YOUR needs , while you'll be lecturing her on "giving without thought of getting "  Good luck to you in finding volunteers for this kind of scam. The notion of women as "stupid gender" is more like male fantasy than reality , you know
[Edited on 10/14/2007 3:48 PM]
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 4:19 PM |
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Empath
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Let's put it this way , empath: if you are expecting guys to "fall in love" with you in exchange for you putting out , you are setting yourself up for HUGE disappointment.
Nu uh....I hope I didn't imply that was MY thinking. 
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 4:32 PM |
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capitalview
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Just attempting to get my "word of wisdom" heard , ladies. 
And, empath, I sincerely hope this was NOT what you practice. You obviously deserve better.
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 5:05 PM |
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Angel178
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Empath is very sweet and giving her opinion which you twisted. She in no way acts as you insinuate. As far as your "words"....what makes you think that they come from wisdom?
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 5:13 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Nu uh....I hope I didn't imply that was MY thinking .
No honey, you didn't. I certainly didn't get that from your posts.
And we all have a right to our opions. And we don't have to agree with one another.
Oh, and one more thing. Pete is NOT a scammer. He is actually a very nice man. Be careful with the name calling. It's offensive. 
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 5:14 PM |
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Angel178
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CW!!!
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 5:20 PM |
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Pete73052
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Yeah, pete, you look just like a guy who'd be giving a woman all she wants without expecting anything in return It's more likely you want your partner to tend to YOUR needs , while you'll be lecturing her on "giving without thought of getting " Good luck to you in finding volunteers for this kind of scam. The notion of women as "stupid gender" is more like male fantasy than reality , you know
I love it when somebody here (in this case capitalview) is STUPID ENOUGH to make this personal. Your comment above is completely unsupported by ANYTHING I've ever posted. It's an unprovoked personal attack - plain and simple. Your problem here, my friend, is that every time you post - I point out how much you DON'T know what you're talking about... and that makes you angry enough to attack me personally.
Now what I said about "giving without getting" is absolutely true - and it pointed out the flaws in your argument and how clueless your comments (YOU) are about relationships. You've got a long ways to come before you can give me tips on relationships my friend - but pretty much everyone here sees that except you. As for the notion about women as the "stupid gender" - I'm pretty sure everyone here, regardless of gender, can see through your nonsense. You haven't got a clue about women, you've proven this repeatedly, and you continue to prove to this group of very astute people what a jackass you are. 
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 5:22 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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So...my OPINION is that....
Good love should naturaly lead into good sex.
We arn't children any more.
If you can ask a man to turn his socks "right side out" you can ask him for other things too.
If you have good love....that man will LET you do what you want. 
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 5:28 PM |
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Goodman50325
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They both go hand in hand.
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| Oct 14, 2007 @ 8:38 PM |
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LittleMsDangerous
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Sure, every guy has respect for those he LOVES. The women who are willing to have sex with males who don't love them, on the other hand, hardly can expect ANY respect , that's quite natural , don't you agree? That doesn't mean guys would not use those desperate females for sex, though ( and this is quite natural, too )
I haven't seen anything quite so asinine in a very long time. Surely you aren't implying that a woman who has sex with a man who doesn't love her is in any way less deserving of respect than the man who would "use those desperate females for sex"?
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