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Angel178
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Pam...laughter is the best medicine...right?
Now, we just need to get a giggle out of burns 
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 6:20 PM |
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pamdemonium
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We'll have to ask him where his ticklish spot is... 
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 7:55 PM |
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capitalview
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Gallows_Humor
I wonder what's your idea of 50/50 relationship?
friends with benefits come to mind..
my goal is to find a 100 /100 relationship..
Nope, pal, "friends with benefits" are hardly 50/50 relationship - for the simple reason that one "friend" has his PRIMARY need (sex) satisfied, while the other "friend" is having her PRIMARY need (love) ignored  . Such "relationship" is obviously off-balance and won't be tolerated for long. ( Just like male normally wouldn't feel like he's in 50/50 relationship if all he gets is love ...with no sex  ).
I agree , 100/100 relationship is an ultimate goal -it's when EACH partner gives what the other partner needs MOST ( love for females and sex for males ) ...and get their "secondary" needs ( sex for females and love for males ) satisfied in the process . Now, that would be stable relationship
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 8:13 PM |
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Angel178
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 8:15 PM |
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Loreli
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Love doesn't need to be over analyzed.
You like someone, wanna have sex together-FWB.
You care about someone and sex follows the love-relationship.
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 8:16 PM |
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Angel178
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Loreli 
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 8:28 PM |
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Daviator
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Loreli 
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 8:30 PM |
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Sunbabie
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Where the heck do you get this stuff Capital??? I for one am a LADY who loves sex. I don't do sex with anybody or everybody but with the right person .... I LOVE SEX!!!! Ladies stand up and be heard.  I know lots of guys who not only love SEX but happen to LOVE LOVE too and guess what, there are some on MD!!! 
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 8:33 PM |
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Daviator
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 8:34 PM |
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Pete73052
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Once again, our friend here demonstrates he hasn't got a clue about this stuff.
Friends with benefits is FRIENDS - get it? They are friends and the BENEFITS part is meeting BOTH their needs for SEX. Buy a frickin dictionary or something...
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 9:41 PM |
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lynnielou
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Nope, pal, "friends with benefits" are hardly 50/50 relationship - for the simple reason that one "friend" has his PRIMARY need (sex) satisfied, while the other "friend" is having her PRIMARY need (love) ignored
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 11:32 PM |
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Angel178
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Lynn, that is correct....
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| Oct 15, 2007 @ 11:59 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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I'm just trying to figure out how it could possibly happen that each and every time such a discussion arises, capitalview is always right.....
.....and the rest of us are always wrong......ALWAYS!!!!!!
How does that happen?!?!?!?!?!?!? 
I think I'm gonna start buying lottery tickets....my odds of winning are MUCH better! 
(Uh....capital? You may see things differently than the rest of the world, and that's fine. I have no problem with it. You're entitled to your own opinion. BUT...don't come across with that opinion as a statement of FACT, when it's not. That's the one thing that everyone here resents.
But real close to that is your constant attempts to INVALIDATE the opinions of others. Others are just as free to express their opinions as you are. DON'T tell them that their opinions are WRONG!!!! How could an opinion possibly be wrong?!?!?!?!?!?
Geez.....are you sure you're not my first wife with a fake profile on here?  )
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| Oct 16, 2007 @ 12:01 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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and the rest of us are always wrong......ALWAYS well of course we are silly man. what value would we have if we werent ?
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| Oct 16, 2007 @ 12:10 AM |
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| Oct 16, 2007 @ 12:22 AM |
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Angel178
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| Oct 16, 2007 @ 3:35 AM |
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Sunbabie
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JESTER ......
Spoken like a politician 
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| Oct 16, 2007 @ 3:35 AM |
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dt3d2001
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Capitalview,, I have to agree with the others on this..
You seem to be confusing "your opinion" with sound indisputable fact. Everyone has the right to have and state there own opinion, and you seem to hold great value in your own as we all do, but your opinions are far from being factual, nor are your opinions the “word of God” as you seem to present them when your correcting the opinions of others.
From a “factual standpoint” your could not be more wrong,, the term "friends with benefits" is only a metaphor “a figure of speech” meaning that it is an arrangement between two or more people, designed to provide each person involved with the benefits they seek from the agreement. The term “50/50 relationship” is a metaphor also, meaning that 2 halves combined make a whole, or 100%, a total and complete relationship.. but thats just my opinion
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| Oct 16, 2007 @ 3:43 AM |
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Sunbabie
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DT .....
Well spoken too!!!
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| Oct 16, 2007 @ 4:00 AM |
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nah12
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sorry, nope, not gonna pick just 1.... 
<<----------gotta have both...yep it's all or none 
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