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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:17 AM |
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Kenn159
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Not dising anyone’s sexual preferences, just have an inquisitive mind and would like to discuss this subject without anyone thinking I’m picking on anyone.
I have few Lesbian acquaintances and have discussed many topics but a couple things aren’t really clear to me, so it is up for discussion.
If lesbians believe in a relationship absent of any man, then why does atleast one out of the two in this relationship, act and dress like the man?
Just wondering why you would want to emulate someone that you are discounting as important in your relationship.
I would guess a lesbian, someone that is really attracted to women, would be attracted to the femininity of a women, not masculinity as expressed in dress and behavior by many lesbians.
I’m going to suggest if a women, in order to be attracted to another women, the other women would have to dress and act like a man, then maybe there is some level of attraction to men evident in that behavior, and for whatever reason, say maybe abuse from a past male relationship, keeps her from a standard male female relationship because of lack of trust of the male.
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:21 AM |
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pamdemonium
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Way to keep your mind off your own sex, Ken.... 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:24 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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Pam - you're a brat!  
Kenn - isn't the same true of gay male relationships as well, in that one of the partners is typically a bit more effeminate than the other? 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:29 AM |
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pamdemonium
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Pulling up a chair and listening .... 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:32 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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Uh....that wasn't a "chair" you just pulled up..... 
But it sure felt good!!!!! 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:33 AM |
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pamdemonium
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Sorry, big guy... I was reaching for Ken, but some hot lesbians just went by, he moved quickly and ... well... you know the rest of the story... 
accidents happen.
[Edited on 10/29/2007 1:34 AM]
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:34 AM |
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Kenn159
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I guess you are right, although I haven't seen gay men dress like women, as seen in reverse in lesbians ,sometimes Gay men do act even more fem than most women I've known.
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:35 AM |
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Kenn159
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Like you said Pam, maybe sometimes I think to much.
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:36 AM |
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pamdemonium
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And you can't discount the humor and creativity of gay men.
Your thinking too much is part of your charm.
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:38 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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That's true. I haven't seen any gay men dress like women, either, and I know several. I only know a couple of lesbian couples, but it does seem like one of them does dress in a more masculine manner.....interesting, I never really thought about it before.... (which may be a good thing for me!)
And you can't discount the humor and creativity of gay men. And just why do you think people call them gay???? 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:40 AM |
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pamdemonium
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I think this might be where I'm going wrong, Jester. Find myself a nice gay man and he can be my boyfriend AND my creative girlfriend, and so what if there's no sex? There's no sex now, so I'd have everything to gain and nothing to lose. 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:46 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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You might be onto something there, Pammie.....
Oh, and the no sex thing? Don't worry about it....eventually, you forget what sex even is.............................well, almost......................
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:47 AM |
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pamdemonium
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I'm almost looking forward to that! 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:48 AM |
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painter007
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I have a woman friend on this site who digs men and women and she says she gets the intimacy and passion from women.that she cannot get from a man......just adding my 2 cents....
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 1:50 AM |
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pamdemonium
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Not happening in my world. Not judging her, but can't imagine that route for myself.
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 2:00 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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But look at the bright side - she stands a 50% greater chance of having a date on a Saturday night!
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 2:00 AM |
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painter007
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Oh I dont cross that either but I was curious why she included women when she dug men...I happen to love men and everything about them and their passion and intimacy is tops in my book. heya gf 
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 2:07 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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My guess is that she just hasn't met the type of man that is able to give her the type of intimacy she desires. It might be a case where she enjoys the "softer" side of women, yet chooses something completely different in a man. And if she met a man that was "more in touch with himself", shall we say, perhaps she wouldn't feel that the type of intimacy she desires was only available from a woman.
Just....a thought...........
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 8:36 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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more in touch with himself
I touch myself all the time, it hasn't helped me.
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| Oct 29, 2007 @ 9:35 AM |
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xquackheadx
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