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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 4:52 PM |
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lacyvsq
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If a man makes a statement like that, is he likely to be telling the truth or is he likely to be giving a line that he thinks will make him more attractive?
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 4:57 PM |
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englishtrog
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i think the sheets will need changing....lol
does he look and act like he has gone without it for a year, thats the question you should ask yourself.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 5:17 PM |
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lacyvsq
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does he look and act like he has gone without it for a year,
I'm not sure exactly what differences there are in looks and actions between a man who has gone without for a time and a man who is going for it regularly. I know that if I had it last night, I am likely to be smilling today, but I have not been able to check out for a year or more whether this guy is smiling in the AM.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 5:44 PM |
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englishtrog
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babes if a man goes without sex for a year his confidence will be down, his whole body language will be down. if you are another notch he will have different approach to you
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 8:02 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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If a man makes a statement like that, is he likely to be telling the truth or is he likely to be giving a line that he thinks will make him more attractive?
Why would that make him more attractive? I would think it would make him less attractive, after all, who wants to be with some dude that can't get laid?
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 8:05 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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its a ploy plain and simple... have had it tried on me many times... my usual reply is "then a few weeks or more wont hurt ya then huh??" 
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 8:14 PM |
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jamminjerry
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am i just too picky?  the question is "sex with a woman" right?
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 8:29 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 8:52 PM |
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Kenn159
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Yes I think it is possible for a guy to go a year without sex, although I don't buy "am i just too picky? the question is "sex with a woman" right? , unless he has a on and off button on his libido.
I think some guys do hold out for the right girl when searching for a long term relationship, but if one didn't come around and there was a chance to shag a not so right girl, any red blooded guy would do it.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 9:00 PM |
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dt3d2001
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I have not had sex since I divorced almost 7 years ago,, thats just a fact  I dont really think its a good or bad thing, nor do I expect to get sex by admitting it,, its just the way it is..
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 9:28 PM |
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lacyvsq
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who wants to be with some dude that can't get laid?
...can't get laid and hasn't been laid are two entirely different things. People choose times of celibacy for many and varied reasons -- grief, health (or lack thereof) religion, obligations, other priorities...
Actually English is probably right on target there with the confidence mannerisms.
I guess I just wanted to know if any men would play a 'selective' or 'saving myself for the right woman' kind of line -- that was in fact a falsehood. (Maybe you have a friend who did that...) Or would no man claim celebacy if in fact he were not actually practicing it or finding himself in it through circumstances?
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 9:46 PM |
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dt3d2001
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Yes I think it is possible for a guy to go a year without sex, although I don't buy "am i just too picky? the question is "sex with a woman" right? unless he has a on and off button on his libido.
Kenn,, for some of us its not like an "on and off button" that results in not having an active sex life,, but conditions causing a total shutdown in the ability to be that intimate with a woman until enough time has passed to allow those feelings to reemerge again.. I was in a really bad marriage "my 2nd" for several years.. My x was into, drugs, lies, cheating and bouncing checks, like they were a sport.. We would have not lasted 6 months, except for she had 2 beautiful children "5 and 7" that loved her but she did not give a shit about them,, I loved them both like my own almost from day one.. Every time I said its over she responded with "your going to make the kids suffer for my mistakes?" another scar, another day and slowly the years piled up. I did finally divorce her almost 7 years ago, but in walking away I left my heart and soul behind with two children I will always love, but had no legal rights to and will most likely never see again.. For me it was easy to be alone after that, I did not want intimate or any other kind of contact with any woman for several years, now that I have worked through things, even though I will always long for those two kids in my life, I do want an intimate relationship with a woman again,, but I live in an area where the "pickens are few" and no way to meet anyone, no clubs, nothing. For me,, sex is not really available as an option I can say yes or no too..
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 10:38 PM |
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indecipherable
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That Dt can say that, and not give a damn what anyone thinks is pretty cool. I've gone longer than a year, so what? Who really cares? People are too uptight about what others will think if they're not getting any on a regular basis. It's a personal matter folks! I don't discuss (or brag about it) with others. It just shows what a ridiculous society we are when we place so much emphasis on it, rather than good moral values.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 10:43 PM |
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Kenn159
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To DT.
I hear what you are saying and I'm not doubting it .
My point is when men say they won’t have sex with a women because they haven't found "the one" is hard to buy and many times I think playing up to what they think other women want to hear them say.
There is a different prerequisite for most men between just causal sex and a significant long term relationship.
For a guy to say that he wouldn’t have sex with a women when he is single and she is offering ,because she is not the one, I think is bunk in most cases.
This is separate from other real world issues that keep people sexually inactive, including emotional trauma and lack of available opposite sex candidates.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 11:13 PM |
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dt3d2001
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Thanks ID,, your words are kind and very much appreciated 
Kenn,, I get ya bro with the past in the past,,, I cant say that "given the opportunity" I would decline sex just for the pleasure of it, having nothing to do with an ongoing relationship,, I am a normal guy after all
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 11:50 PM |
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JD69350
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I haven't had sex in more than a year...
The last time I would be able to make that claim is when I was about 15 
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 12:28 AM |
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dt3d2001
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Just wait JD,,, age ant caught up with ya yet,, girls still like ya now,, later on , if ya say "Hi" to any girl 10 years your junior, just being nice, your gunna get flogged for acting like an "old-pervert!"
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 12:31 AM |
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JD69350
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DT - bet you beat them off with a stick, and I don't mean an ugly stick
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 12:52 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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It just shows what a ridiculous society we are when we place so much emphasis on it, rather than good moral values.
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 1:20 AM |
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painter007
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I dig the sexy cha cha...maybe sometime soooooooonnnn
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