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Nov 25, 2007 @ 8:59 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
KWhop369


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someone you shouldn't mess with?
No kidding .
I haven't yet, but I want to. Really, really, really want to. Its a bad idea for a lot of reasons but I just can't get it off my mind. It's making me crazy.
I know its stupid.
I know its wrong.
I know you can't un-do it after the fact.
Seven months of trying to ignore, forget, its still making me crazy and I still want it.

I work a lot. I have little free time. I don't mess around. This is the first time I've wanted a person this bad. This sucks.

Any suggestions welcome. Thanks.
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Nov 25, 2007 @ 9:39 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
ColdinWisconsin


Posts: 9,987
Wow. Get a hobby honey.

Are we talking about sleeping with someone? Are they married (if so run, don't walk....keep your diginity)

Is it another woman? Just do it. Get it over with and out of your system.

More details please.



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Nov 25, 2007 @ 9:56 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
lynnielou


Posts: 2,774
Who does she sound like?
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 7:58 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
Angel178


Posts: 36,330
I don't know lynn, who?
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 8:55 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,699
Get some new batts for your vibrator and leave the dude alone.
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 9:00 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
ColdinWisconsin


Posts: 9,987
Again the relationship expert.
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 9:25 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
PolarExpress


Posts: 273
Touch.... You DO need your own advice show.
Move over Dr. Phil!
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 9:30 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
catman602


Posts: 735
live from appleton sqaure. it's the cold shoulder show . cold in wisconsin and catman .
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 9:36 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,699
Touch.... You DO need your own advice show.
Move over Dr. Phil!

If nothing else, I do have the perfect show title.....

Touch me in the Morning!
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 9:49 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
PolarExpress


Posts: 273
Then just walk away....yeah, yeah, yeah...I know that tune...
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 11:03 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
Loreli


Posts: 25,401
OP-
You answered your own question..."someone you shouldn't mess with"

End of story.
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 11:08 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
burnslikethesun


Posts: 13,027
GOSH damn lori is sexy when she ends of story.
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 8:16 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
Always_Striving


Posts: 8,794
Spay or Neuter, It should remove your sex drive.
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 8:19 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
burnslikethesun


Posts: 13,027
lol brutal. lol funny but brutal. And i get shit for being ruff.

my serious answer. Stop looking at them and start looking at yourself.
take all the emotion all that bent up engery and refocus it in a different area of your life. Pick something, do it vigorously til its completed, then take that energy and focus it somewhere else. eventually youll find that you are no longer standing where you dont see is that old obsession anymore.
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Nov 26, 2007 @ 10:55 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
drs297


Posts: 4,862
should'n't mess with???

is it a brother or something
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Nov 27, 2007 @ 12:31 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
dt3d2001


Posts: 4,946
It's not a stupid question at all just a thought though,, switch to decaf and re-think it yoga might help too
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Nov 27, 2007 @ 3:03 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
burnslikethesun


Posts: 13,027
lol
decaf, is it abrother. Oh a tag team duo funny guys.
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Nov 27, 2007 @ 9:24 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
katydid438


Posts: 8,020
Try to keep your mind occupied and your body healthy. Obsessing will make you unable to cope if a personal tragidy should occur. You will not be able to count on that person for support at a time like this.
Personal experience 10 years ago taught me this
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Nov 27, 2007 @ 9:26 PM How do you quit obsessing over    
ColdinWisconsin


Posts: 9,987
live from appleton sqaure. it's the cold shoulder show . cold in wisconsin and catman

Who? What? CatMan...what in the bejebuzz are you talking about?
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Nov 28, 2007 @ 3:40 AM How do you quit obsessing over    
hotdognchilli


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Amazon Bush
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