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| Jan 28, 2008 @ 2:02 PM |
Porn and "Prudish" Women
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Thor1960303
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I've dated both types of women.Women who like porn and women who hate it.I've also introduced some of these women to porn who have never seen it and observed their reactions.How many of you guys have had this similar experience?
I was in a relationship with this girl many years ago.VCR's had just gotten affordable then and porn on tape that you could view in the privacy of your own home was new.The girl I was dating said that she had never seen a porn film before,so I obtained two classics on VHS."Deep Throat" and "The Ecstasy Girls".
Her reaction was with a little bit of the "ewwww" thing,but more often than not,she looked at the screen with curiosity,every now and then saying something like,"I just don't see where the excitement is," or "What's the point?"
Over the years,I've tried this experiment with various women,and this reaction(that is with women who had never seen porn or indicated that they disliked it) seems to be universal.
During viewing they talk bad about the porn,saying how stupid or disgusting it is,yet as soon as the tape ended and the TV went off,these same "prudish" women darn near wrecked my clothes trying to tear them off of me.
Someone want to venture a guess at what's happening here?I mean,if they were really turned off by the porn,wouldn't the idea of sex at that time,as a result of porn's influence be equally repugnant to them?
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| Jan 28, 2008 @ 6:31 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,414
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No.
It doesn't make someone a prude just because they don't want to watch others have sex.
They could be a very given and experienced lover and hate porno.
I have seen it...and really-what's the point? 
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| Jan 28, 2008 @ 10:41 PM |
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painter007
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Im not a porn watcher and trust me Im FAR from being prudish
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| Jan 28, 2008 @ 10:43 PM |
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Thor1960303
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It doesn't make someone a prude just because they don't want to watch others have sex.
I know,L,thanks for pointing that out,you're quite right.I use the word "prude" in quotes.I couldn't think of another word to use,sorry, my bad.
I have seen it...and really-what's the point
Just trying to understand the mechanics here.It doesn't make sense.Someone who hates porn should theoritcally not be aroused by it,yet in my experience,I have seen the opposite.
Either they're lying about not at least inwardly liking porn or there's some really strange mind/sex subconscious link thing going on.
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| Jan 28, 2008 @ 10:45 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 17,854
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Someone may get very aroused by watching it....but still I prefer to not watch it Thats just me....If Im watching Im participating
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| Jan 29, 2008 @ 12:26 AM |
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capitalview
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painter007
If Im watching Im participating
That's quite common,actually. I guess ,it's for the same reason why women are not into watching sports ( they do enjoy participating ,though ).
The old "males are visual" thing , most likely 
Besides, there's one more factor there. Porn producers are cutting filming costs by saving on male actors' fees , so those miserably - looking underpaid male characters in porn movies hardly can hold women's attention like highly paid gorgeous female porn-stars do for guys.
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| Jan 29, 2008 @ 1:41 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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it's for the same reason why women are not into watching sports
Ummm...Giants/Mets/Rangers fan here, and be careful if you're sitting next to me watching a game one of 'my' teams is playing in...like next Sunday. I usually get nearly as much exercise jumping up and yelling and such as some of the players.
(And I know I have company too - I can think of one Tahoe get together where the MD wimmins were watching the Giants vs. Niners and the guys were outside talking)
Oops...back OT - depends on my mood...way back when I remember seeing 'The Devil and Miss Jones' in the movies and what followed when we got home was even more memorable...it's partly about my reaction, partly about my reaction to my partner's reaction, and his reaction to my reaction...etc. Kind of a synergy thing. Other times, zip, nada, zilch.
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| Jan 29, 2008 @ 9:05 AM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,414
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I know,L,thanks for pointing that out,you're quite right.I use the word "prude" in quotes.I couldn't think of another word to use,sorry, my bad.
No apology necessary-I understood what you meant!
I'm kind of surprised some viewed a movie and picked it apart the whole time...maube they enjoyed it, but felt guilty for doing so!
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| Jan 29, 2008 @ 9:42 AM |
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lj450
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so I obtained two classics on VHS."Deep Throat"
You have the original "deep throat"? From what Ive heard, that movie is pretty much unavailable. There was a huge scandal over it (one of the actors might have served time for it) senate hearings. I dont think you can buy it anymore.
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| Jan 30, 2008 @ 4:34 PM |
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st93
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to the o/p...
the vast majority of women like to laugh, be romanced and made to feel special...the rest is history
my advice is lose the hard core porn and try a bunch of flowers and book a good dinner table instead........ 
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| Jan 30, 2008 @ 8:15 PM |
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Thor1960303
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my advice is lose the hard core porn and try a bunch of flowers and book a good dinner table instead....
Done both and based on my experiences,porn works a lot faster,at least with the women I've dated.If you read my post, you can see it's a puzzling phenomena to me.Here's a girl that complained about porn,but practically raped me once the VCR shut off.Go figure.
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| Jan 30, 2008 @ 8:18 PM |
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Thor1960303
Posts: 3,345
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You have the original "deep throat"?
Didn't have a problem obtaining a VHS copy back then (1983).I have an old,faded,battered 16mm print of the movie now,though it's been years since I ran it on a projector,so I don't even know if it would play.
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| Jan 30, 2008 @ 8:36 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I used to watch it on my own, but now I really find it to be absolutely disgusting, and it does nothing for me. The women are ugly (i can't bring myself to be attracted to blow up doll-looking women with vaginas that have so obviously been surgically altered), the men are ugly, the soundtracks are horrendous....what's to like?
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| Jan 31, 2008 @ 3:33 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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You can get Deep Throat on Amazon.com, no problem.
Deep Throat here
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| Jan 31, 2008 @ 2:06 PM |
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Thor1960303
Posts: 3,345
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You're just watching the crappy,cheap stuff LGQ.Ever seen Andrew Blake's work?
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| Jan 31, 2008 @ 2:19 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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No, I haven't. After awhile I moved onto hentai, but that did nothing for me either.
A lot of it, I must be honest, is insecurity. Looking at women with breasts like that (my breasts are asymmetrical and I have been forced to wait until the aunt holding onto my very hefty inheritance dies to be able to get my augmentation done- why do you think I've confessed to wanting an augmentation) and bodies like that makes me uncomfortable as I will never be like that, but it's also a lack of interest in watching other people have sex.
Isn't Andrew Blake a poet?
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| Jan 31, 2008 @ 3:06 PM |
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st93
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Done both and based on my experiences,porn works a lot faster,at least with the women I've dated.
then you are dating the wrong type of 'women'.........
try dating ones that aint after a sex change op........
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| Jan 31, 2008 @ 5:40 PM |
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CathyCRN
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LipGloss...Insurance often pays for that type of surgery for asymmetry if it is causing you psychological harm...ie, poor body image, etc...contact a reputable plastic surgeon and see if they can help
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| Jan 31, 2008 @ 7:54 PM |
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ilikebigbutts
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LipGlossQueen,
Something you said in one of your posts caught my attantion. What is being surgically altered on the vaginas of the women in porn? I haven't watched much porn and in what I have seen, the vaginas didn't look unusual...lol
I agree that the women are ugly though; I like big girls  and you don't see many of them in porn. I have a friend who insists on showing me pics of starving girls in porn mags to to to get me to "admit" the starving girls are hotter than the fat girls I like. 
Anyway, what are the pornstars doing to thier pussies? I thought they all just got boob jobs?
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| Jan 31, 2008 @ 8:19 PM |
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CathyCRN
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I don't know anything about porn, but in San Diego, LA, San Francisco areas many women were having labiaplasties. This is a surgical reduction (trimming of tissue) of the inner labia...It is basically a cosmetic procedure of the cooch!!! Can you say OUCH!!!!
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