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| Jan 28 @ 4:56 PM |
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Crip
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If you talk to a person on here and find out they have a disability....is that a no go for you..like would you still be interested or would you split...?
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| Jan 28 @ 4:57 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,990
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we all have different levels of disabilities...Wouldnt bother me.
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| Jan 28 @ 5:05 PM |
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BeachCrete
Posts: 7,718
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I personnally think it is if the "you" ,as an individual, can cope with it...if you look deep inside and come to a conclusion, that no matter how hard you want to , you could never be happy or fall in love with a person with a disability, then possibly trying to make it work might not be a good idea. I mean not only do you want to be happy and loved, but so do people with disabilities...it's all in ones personal preference....JMHO 
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| Jan 28 @ 5:16 PM |
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CathyCRN
Posts: 3,954
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I met a man on here with a spinal cord injury...we went out several times and I consider him a good friend. It wasn't the chair that stopped us from having a relationship...there were things about "us" that wouldn't work...I think that, as long as a person is totally open with the fact that they have a disability, it shouldn't be a problem. There will be some that are just not interested and some that are...no different than other characteristics....
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| Jan 28 @ 5:35 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 20,311
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As we age, we all will have something "different" or disabling about us.
Could I? It depends on the person's own handling of their disability.
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| Jan 29 @ 7:09 AM |
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catman602
Posts: 574
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I have a disablility . it's the same as congress's brain . forget what I say .
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| Jan 29 @ 12:55 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
Posts: 2,761
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I have a particular and singular story to tell.
Some months ago I was at the wedding of my best friend.
At my table there was a couple: he is disabled since he was born.
he is tetraplegic, he speaks with eyes only , he cant eat or drink alone, he cant move from his wheelchair ....
Since 7 years he is engaged with a normal woman (sorry for the word "normal"...I just would like to give you the idea) who helps him in everything.
After 7 years she would like to marry him.....but he refused to marry her.
I can understand him and his cares about their future....in the meanwhile I'm thinking that they are living together for 7 years....and she is very involved and much in love.
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| Jan 29 @ 1:17 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 8,409
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I have had twisted sexual fantasies about women missing one or more legs.
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| Jan 29 @ 1:19 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
Posts: 2,761
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silly boy Lj 
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| Jan 29 @ 1:20 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 8,409
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ur just mad because you have too many legs.
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| Jan 29 @ 1:22 PM |
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Pete73052
Posts: 19,368
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Worst part about eating your vegetables... getting them back in their wheelchair. 
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| Jan 29 @ 1:28 PM |
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LittleMsDangerous
Posts: 11,147
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tsk tsk, that was bad! 
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| Jan 29 @ 1:34 PM |
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Pete73052
Posts: 19,368
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I have my reputation to uphold... 
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| Feb 3 @ 6:57 AM |
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capitalview
Posts: 675
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Why not to look at the bright side? Disability also means - disability to cheat as well as less likeliness to get into impulsive shopping or to turn the partner into "golf /fishing/sports widow" or spend nights in strip-bars . So, as long as it's not about using partner to save on personal nurse's/aid's/housekeeper's fees , disabled person might be much better partner than regular type. 
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| Feb 3 @ 9:11 AM |
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CathyCRN
Posts: 3,954
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Well, Capital...I know plenty of guys in wheel chairs that frequent the strip joints!!! My friend is a concert fanatic...boys will be boys...whether they walk or not...
On the other hand...he was a great cook...and had a HUGE music collection...nice pool too!!!
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| Feb 3 @ 11:49 AM |
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catman602
Posts: 574
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I am same . want her to TALK
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| Feb 3 @ 11:58 AM |
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CathyCRN
Posts: 3,954
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Being disabled doesn't necessarily mean not having 2 arms, legs and a body...it just might not all work properly!!! As for conversation...who said anything about mentally disabled???
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| Feb 3 @ 5:05 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,088
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want her to TALK
Alright. Fair, but two of my very good friends are "disabled" (I hate calling them this, as they have both fought very hard in their life for the little they have...that is NOT a disability!)...one has spina bifida and the other has cerebral palsy.
The one with spina bifida is a hockey player, a wrestler, and is thinking about becoming a special education teacher.
The one with cerebral palsy graduated with honours from high school and is currently attending a very prestigious and exclusive art school in New Hampshire that only accepts a minimal amount of students a semester.
They are both eloquent, intelligent individuals with a positive outlook on life, a fighting spirit, and a stronger will than most "capable" individuals I know.
Most of this is more than I could EVER say for myself, and I am "able-bodied".
[Edited on 2/3/2008 5:11 PM]
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| Feb 4 @ 12:14 AM |
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Kenn159
Posts: 2,778
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Because of the fluid nature of life the idea that we can control it is an illusion.
This means that any of us could be disabled tomorrow, eg car crash, freak accident etc, somethings happen beyond what we can affect.
The reality is disability is not them, but could be us anytime, and most likely will be us at the end of life.
Disability is a life experience that we will all experience at some point.
We are all the same,so why use it as a reason to not be with someone.
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| Feb 4 @ 4:45 AM |
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catman602
Posts: 574
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I have MILD epilepsy . some can not take hot showers . ( I can . ) some sex makes them have seizures . ( not me ) . Epilepsy is a short curit in the the brain . like turning a light bulb off an on . only with me . the light bulb flickers .
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