| Feb 28, 2008 @ 8:25 AM |
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catman602
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hey let me see . let me see . OH . nothing good . real thing is better . I'll make my own .
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| Feb 28, 2008 @ 3:02 PM |
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Say_Yes
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Suppose you are in a serious relationship with someone, commited to her. You believe her to be very morally upright, conservative, and perhaps even a bit prudish. Just the way you expect a lady to be.
While you are fooling around on the internet, you run across an amature porn video that your SO did several years ago, when she was with another dude. It's her, no mistaking that, and she's doing her ex and another guy every way you can think of, oral, anal, DP, you name it. What do you do?
First of all, if I was in a committed, serious relationship, I would not be searching the net for random porn. If I was, then I think that says a great deal about the level of commitment that I had in the relationship to start with.
As for her activities, that is in her past, in fact, in the example used, it is several years in her past. I'm not going to change my opinion of someone that I care deeply for, because of some sexual escapade invovling other consenting adults that took place, long before she met me. If it involved children, animals or others who were not consenting adults, then I would have a HUGE issue with her. Otherwise, it is none of my business.
Then again, if it was a three some, with another hot chic, I might want to inquire if she is still in touch with her. 
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 11:39 AM |
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BeeHaven
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Each relationship a person becomes involved with, opens up a new world,
a new adventure, and you may never be the same person as you was
before you first met.
Each person you involve in your life, brings forth a different part of you.
Therefore, she is the person you two have built together.
What she has done in her past, is in her past, and she should not be
accountable to you for anything that was a part of her life, prior to
meeting you. As she may not be that same person.
Everyone has skeletons in their closets... things they don't want
to bring into the next relationship.
I would have to ask myself first! What is in my closet, before I
accuse my partner of what is in hers!
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 2:08 PM |
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Always_Striving
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You do what any reasonable person would do.........
You notify her:
Dad & Mom and the Grandparents too.
Church pastor/priest and the congreggation if you can.
Kids (if she has them).
Police precinct.
Also:
Hustler and Penthouse magazines.... so that she could write a column in the dirty mags.
Her local community watch or block watch...... who knows, huh?
Write a letter to the state governor about her behavior
Inform her bank.
Did I miss anything?
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| Mar 6, 2008 @ 10:14 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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but..(anyone...) .please tell me who made the porno here...an inquiring mind wants to know.. 
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| Mar 7, 2008 @ 2:28 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Bee: What she has done in her past, is in her past, and she should not be accountable to you for anything that was a part of her life, prior to meeting you. As she may not be that same person.
...Someone found a cure for HIV? 
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| Mar 7, 2008 @ 3:12 AM |
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SyndilLucian
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My understanding was that anyone expecting to date or whatever anymore had to have checkups every 6 months with medical proof on no existing conditions or diseases....
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| Mar 7, 2008 @ 6:24 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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 otherwise...one can look..but .......
can't touch this....
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| Mar 7, 2008 @ 7:37 PM |
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BUSTED616
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You watch it with her!
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| Mar 7, 2008 @ 7:59 PM |
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jamminjerry
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women! gotta have moving pictures! can't lay still and let a fella releive himself! LOL we be jammin 
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| Mar 8, 2008 @ 4:34 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
Posts: 14,543
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 ... what did he say......
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| Mar 8, 2008 @ 5:34 PM |
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Palomino
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SayYes said:
First of all, if I was in a committed, serious relationship, I would not be searching the net for random porn. If I was, then I think that says a great deal about the level of commitment that I had in the relationship to start with.
Excellent reply!  
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| Mar 9, 2008 @ 10:07 AM |
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dntejas
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The past is the past. Live for today. 
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| May 4, 2008 @ 3:04 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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Now that I found her porno, I want to watch it to see if its as good as mine. If not I will share mine with her.
Unless you are under the assumption that she isnt normal and her needs and desires are not supposed to be present when she is alone?
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| May 5, 2008 @ 8:14 PM |
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BeachCrete
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You found her porno - now what?
Get naked with her and watch it 
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| May 5, 2008 @ 8:16 PM |
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Makya
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Excuse my ignorance, but wth is DP?
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| May 5, 2008 @ 8:18 PM |
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BeachCrete
Posts: 8,600
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?????????
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| May 5, 2008 @ 8:33 PM |
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Makya
Posts: 1,131
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Glad I'm not the only one,  I saw it in the OP and thought I was out of touch or something since nobody else asked.
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| May 5, 2008 @ 8:43 PM |
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willowy1
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Double penetration, intromission of a penis in the vagina and another in the anus .
I looked it up sounds uncomfortable yikes!
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| May 5, 2008 @ 8:45 PM |
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BeachCrete
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No naked man in the room with me...NOOOOOOO THANK YA  
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