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Feb 6, 2008 @ 6:21 AM Sex and religion    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,699
Does your religion have any strange rules about sex? I just came across this bit about Hasidic Jews and sex...

Many Orthodox Jews believe in personal modesty, said the speaker. Coleman said there are certain Hasidic sects that use a specially designed sheet during sex that contains a strategically placedhole. The sheet goes between man and a woman to avoid too much contact.

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Feb 6, 2008 @ 1:29 PM Sex and religion    
Bluebonnet72


Posts: 2,832
Italy is a catholic country and some people who have strong and deep faith do not make love or have sex before wedding
I'm catholic with not a great faith
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Feb 6, 2008 @ 3:50 PM Sex and religion    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,951
Not really, but it says this:

3. No illicit sex. Nowadays sex outside of marriage is dangerous, as well as undesirable. Sex should be kept within the confines of marriage.

Oh well, LOL.

I only follow religion when I'm depressed, anyway. Otherwise I don't give a rat's ass about it.

[Edited on 2/6/2008 3:53 PM]
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Feb 6, 2008 @ 5:18 PM Sex and religion    
Gallows_Humor


Posts: 13,645
..........sex rules.........
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Feb 6, 2008 @ 5:38 PM Sex and religion    
pamdemonium


Posts: 17,347
the little head....(ooh, looky, finishing your thoughts...)
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Feb 6, 2008 @ 5:54 PM Sex and religion    
kattsmeow


Posts: 22,625
I have to say that the Jewish people seem to have the most Laws in thier religion on sex.

http://www.jewfaq.org/sex.htm

Niddah: The Laws of Separation

One of the most mysterious areas of Jewish sexual practices is the law of niddah, separation of husband and wife during the woman's menstrual period. These laws are also known as taharat ha-mishpachah, family purity. Few people outside of the Orthodox community are even aware that these laws exist, which is unfortunate, because these laws provide many undeniable benefits. The laws of niddah are not deliberately kept secret; they are simply unknown because most non-Orthodox Jews do not continue their religious education beyond bar mitzvah, and these laws address subjects that are not really suitable for discussion with children under the age of 13.

According to the Torah, a man is forbidden from having sexual intercourse with a niddah, that is, a menstruating woman. This is part of the extensive laws of ritual purity described in the Torah. At one time, a large portion of Jewish law revolved around questions of ritual purity and impurity. The law of niddah is the only law of ritual purity that continues to be observed today; all of the other laws applied only when the Temple was in existence, but are not applicable today.

The time of separation begins at the first sign of blood and ends in the evening of the woman's seventh "clean day." This separation lasts a minimum of 12 days. The Torah prohibits only sexual intercourse, but the rabbis broadened this prohibition, maintaining that a man may not even touch his wife or sleep in the same bed as her during this time. Weddings must be scheduled carefully, so that the woman is not in a state of niddah on her wedding night.

At the end of the period of niddah, as soon as possible after nightfall after the seventh clean day, the woman must immerse herself in a kosher mikvah, a ritual pool. The mikvah was traditionally used to cleanse a person of various forms of ritual impurity. Today, it is used primarily for this purpose and as part of the ritual of conversion, though in some communities observant men periodically immerse themselves for reasons of ritual purity.

It is important to note that the mikvah provides only ritual purification, not physical cleanliness; in fact, immersion in the mikvah is not valid unless the woman is thoroughly bathed before immersion. The mikvah is such an important part of traditional Jewish ritual life that traditionally a new community would build a mikvah before they would build a synagogue.

The Torah does not specify the reason for the laws of niddah, but this period of abstention has both physical and psychological benefits.

The fertility benefits of this practice are obvious and undeniable. In fact, it is remarkable how closely these laws parallel the advice given by medical professionals today. When couples are having trouble conceiving, modern medical professionals routinely advise them to abstain from sex during the two weeks around a woman's period (to increase the man's sperm count at a time when conception is not possible), and to have sex on alternate nights during the remaining two weeks. When you combine this basic physical benefit with the psychological benefit of believing that you are fulfilling G-d's will, it is absolutely shocking that more couples with fertility problems do not attempt this practice. The rejection of this practice by the liberal movements of Judaism is not a matter of "informed choice," but simply a matter of ignorance or blind prejudice.

In addition, women who have sexual intercourse during their menstrual period are more vulnerable to a variety of vaginal infections, as well as increased risk of cervical cancer.

But the benefits that the rabbis have always emphasized are the psychological ones, not the physical ones. The rabbis noted that a two-week period of abstention every month forces a couple to build a non-sexual bond as well as a sexual one. It helps to build the couple's desire for one another, making intercourse in the remaining two weeks more special. It also gives both partners a chance to rest, without feeling sexually inadequate. They also emphasized the value of self-discipline in a drive as fundamental as the sexual drive.
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Feb 6, 2008 @ 7:00 PM Sex and religion    
painter007


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BlueBonnet....Im with you on that one....Look out here comes the ruler slapping down on my hands......
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Feb 7, 2008 @ 2:46 PM Sex and religion    
swiftdragon


Posts: 153
i don't know of many religions that don't have some peculiar concepts about what constitutes 'correct' sex, and most of those that don't usually have some kinky concepts themselves(think pagan and tantric sex riuals)...personally i think we should go for the bacchanalian-hedonistic view of sex...as long as all parties agree and doesn't do any lasting harm, it's all good
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Feb 8, 2008 @ 8:13 PM Sex and religion    
academicgirl


Posts: 161
Catholic rule: Don't have any unless need children. This staunch Catholic: "forgive me Father for I have sinned....."
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Feb 13, 2008 @ 4:03 PM Sex and religion    
Gman762


Posts: 3,291
Seems as though the ex GF always use to point her heels at the heavens and scream, "GOD...I'm coming".

Does that count as sex and religion?
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Feb 13, 2008 @ 5:30 PM Sex and religion    
painter007


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Feb 27, 2008 @ 2:55 PM Sex and religion    
swiftdragon


Posts: 153
as good a philosophy as any
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Feb 27, 2008 @ 4:12 PM Sex and religion    
catman602


Posts: 735
isn't sex a religion or is that religon is a sex cult . I can't keep up with all the new fads .
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Feb 27, 2008 @ 4:14 PM Sex and religion    
ColdinWisconsin


Posts: 9,987
If your on your knees...does that count?
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Feb 27, 2008 @ 8:31 PM Sex and religion    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
On your knees is the only way to have sex.

Only...I usually call it by its correct name:







BEGGING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Feb 28, 2008 @ 1:49 AM Sex and religion    
beachgirl82


Posts: 91
In LA...sex is a religion......
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Feb 28, 2008 @ 5:43 PM Sex and religion    
Thor1960303


Posts: 3,345
Since I practice no dogma or religion,this doesn't apply.However,with regards to others who are vocal about their religious sexual morals and how they would like everyone to follow their example,I offer this....


Keep your Jesus off my penis
Keep your bible off my balls
Keep your prayers out of my ears
And your crosses off my walls
You can keep the virgin mother
And the resurrection too
Keep your Jesus off my penis
I'll keep my penis off of you

Well I'm frickin' sick and tired
Of turning on the news
And seeing the religious right's
Ungodly fight to take our right to choose
When to bear our children
Who to love and how
Education and protection
If we're just practicing for now
So dubya look obey a book
If that's what works for you
But I don't tell you how to pray
So don't tell me how to screw

Keep your Jesus off my penis
Keep your bible off my balls
Keep your prayers out of my ears
And your crosses off my walls
You can keep the virgin mother
And the resurrection too
Keep your Jesus off my penis
I'll keep my penis off of you

So you're screaming bloody murder
'Bout the taliban regime
For subjugating women
And being too extreme
And basing legislation
On some ancient holy book
Does that sound a bit familiar?
Here's a mirror, have a look

And as for the ten commandments
They need one more at least
Thou shall never cover up
The acts of pervert priests
How'd they let that happen
Unless they just abhor us
Well anyway it adds
Another layer to the chorus

Keep your Jesus off my penis
Keep your bible off my balls
Keep your prayers out of my ears
And your crosses off my walls
You can keep the virgin mother
And the resurrection too
Keep your Jesus off my penis
I'll keep my penis off of you

So you'll execute a person
And protect a single cell
But mercy-kill the terminally ill
And you're goin' straight to hell
I don't know much about
The word of God
Far be it from me
But I can tell you what it ain't -
Hypochristianity

I am not anti-Christian
Before you grab a rope
There is beauty in religion
And joy and love and hope
We're all looking for an answer
Some colossal cosmic cause
But who the f*** are you
To turn your views into my laws?
It's just believers in the bible
That would have abortion banned
Anti-choice agnostics?
I could count'em on one hand
And as for killing babies
I have but one retort
If someone raped your daughter George
You'd beg her to abort

And if some young girl from your church
Shows up with child or some infection
`Cuz you taught her what a horrid sin
It was to use protection
One day you'll face the pearly gates
And whatchu gonna say
When that long-haired Jewish peacenick
Sends your ass the other way sayin'

Keep your Jesus off my penis
Keep your bible off my balls
Keep your prayers out of my ears
And your crosses off my walls
I've had it up to here
With all the biblibile you spew
Keep your Jesus off my penis
(at least that's what I would do)
Keep your Jesus off my penis
I'll keep my penis off of you
That's if'n you want me to
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Mar 13, 2008 @ 8:12 AM Sex and religion    
drs297


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I'd screw in a church if I could find someone willing
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Mar 13, 2008 @ 8:42 AM Sex and religion    
Silvertongue62


Posts: 6,932
Lol....... I have screwed in church.

But I will say, growing up in the church I have learned that they too are people, and most happen to be some of the biggest freaks going.
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Mar 13, 2008 @ 8:43 AM Sex and religion    
drs297


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plus they already have those little things for you to get on your knees
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