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Mar 11 @ 6:49 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
LOUISE872


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look me up
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Mar 13 @ 5:01 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
Thor1960303


Posts: 1,876
Well,Louise,if I'm ever in St.Lucia.....
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Apr 10 @ 6:19 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
gibby61172


Posts: 2

Most women associate sex with how much they can profit from it no matter what they say. The ones who say men just used them are the vast majority who don't really like sex a lot anyway if they did they would use the man.
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Apr 10 @ 7:58 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
DipityDoo


Posts: 376
Most women associate sex with how much they can profit from it no matter what they say. The ones who say men just used them are the vast majority who don't really like sex a lot anyway if they did they would use the man.

Why, what a misogynistic and simply incorrect statement.

I wonder how many women you'll get to date you with that attitude.
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Apr 23 @ 5:28 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
swiftdragon


Posts: 153
while the statement may be such, it often does work out that way,a t least on a subconscious level, so don't fret to much about that dipitydoo, men function on that subconscious level as well, which is why all men are horny, wanton pigs right? seriously though, i wish there were more options for NSA sex, trying to find a woman for that purpose is extremely difficult in our society where you can get arrested for making a sexual comment about parts of a person's anatomy, much less actually accost them to ask for sex outright, one would think that that would also be part of our first ammendment rights, but then again we have a history in this country for the past 50 years or so of denying first ammendment right protections for anything of any sort of a sexual nature, as well as denying these rights for television and radio altogether (thanks to the FCC, which is an appointed body, not elected)
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Apr 30 @ 4:22 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
Thor1960303


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seriously though, i wish there were more options for NSA sex, trying to find a woman for that purpose is extremely difficult in our society

This is one of the things that should've changed during the sexual revolution.I believe that if prostitution was legal AND destigmatized,then there would be fewer people getting played and dumped on by guys looking for this and going after women looking for a relationship.

Also if women who wanted NSA sex,and they do exist,weren't labeled as "sluts" or "whores" by society,then much of this confusion and bad relations between the sexes would disappear.
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May 3 @ 8:07 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
SpiritEnergy


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You know, the funny thing about No strings sex is some guys tend to think they are the only one that needs to be satisfied. My experience has been most guys think it is all just THEIR needs that are important. So THEY screw it up for everyone else.
If you say you are going to call and don't, screw you (without the sex). Our time is just as important as yours. It really is not about women not wanting sex. It is about us REQUIRING respect. And don't call late at night after you have struck out everywhere else. Ok, and if WE are horny RIGHT NOW and you are not available but we have to be available RIGHT NOW, guess what? Same thing...screw you, without the sex involved.
The problem I have seen is not sex, it is thought. It is garnering results from behaviours. This is why women require some sort of commitment. Without SOME definition to the relationship, it sucks for the women. We get the stigma, the unanswered phone calls and messages, the excuses, etc. Fine! End of NO strings sex. There is no such thing as NO strings except as prostitution.
There HAS to be some sort of an agreement. I have ended relationships because my needs were not considered. I am NOT a depository for some man's seed so do not treat me like a blow up doll. Hell, some blow up dolls get more tender loving care than we do. They have to worry about plastic fatigue, holes, tears, etc. Instant respect there. And DRAMA! Woooo. How 'bout THEM apples for drama baby when your blow up, blows up!
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May 3 @ 11:12 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
signme


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Spirit!
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May 3 @ 11:14 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
SpiritEnergy


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May 3 @ 11:15 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
katydid438


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May 3 @ 11:57 PM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
SpiritEnergy


Posts: 16,997
Do I sound pissy? Well, I AM!
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May 4 @ 12:15 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
LittleMsDangerous


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You know, the funny thing about No strings sex is some guys tend to think they are the only one that needs to be satisfied. My experience has been most guys think it is all just THEIR needs that are important.

This is SO true!!
Kinda brings to mind the old saying - "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am!"

Hell, some blow up dolls get more tender loving care than we do. They have to worry about plastic fatigue, holes, tears, etc. Instant respect there. And DRAMA! Woooo. How 'bout THEM apples for drama baby when your blow up, blows up!
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May 4 @ 2:50 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
blueyes101


Posts: 8,307
Yank me, crank me, but don't bother to wake me to thank me......


LMD
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May 4 @ 2:56 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
LittleMsDangerous


Posts: 11,147
hey cutie
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May 4 @ 3:00 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
blueyes101


Posts: 8,307
I was going through songs ( by artist ) at the bar tonight, and you came to mind as we looked at Ted's listings.
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May 4 @ 3:01 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
ragtopcookie


Posts: 688
so whats going on in here in the middle of the nite?....
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May 4 @ 3:05 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
LittleMsDangerous


Posts: 11,147
awww, thank you Blue
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May 4 @ 3:07 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
Silver1961


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Call a call girl !!!
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May 8 @ 2:53 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
SpiritEnergy


Posts: 16,997
Call girls usually cost more than dates.
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May 8 @ 6:15 AM Options for the guy looking for casual sex    
SensualGemini


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Call girls usually cost more than dates.

...Dates are a maybe, so we would need to use the average 3 date rule to have an average comparison. Dates are usually around a $100, so $300 is arbitrary.

...On the other hand, as I was going through the divorce, it costs right at $2 million for 19 years; not including maintenance, upkeep, room and board, etc. Given that in the beginning, sex was multiple times per day and in the end it was down to once a day. But, we have to deduct about 25% of the time it was out of service. So, just take an average of once per day for 19 years is 6,935 times, divided into $2 million, equals about $288, or close to the $300.

...And now, we have a value for sex....

...Thus, I have to conclude, that if a relationship is just about sex and if a Call girl is less than say $250, then the Call girl is a bargain!

...On the other hand, I am not certain that NSA actually exists, as there is always a price. Each and every time that anyone sleeps with someone else, they leave a piece of at least their emotional self behind, which they are never going to get back.

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