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Mar 25 @ 1:59 AM older women?    
aniana


Posts: 37

Am I just paranoid or is there this trend toward older women ie in their forties (forget even thirties) esp. by younger guys like in their twenties? Maybe I'm insecure cause I never felt this way when I was younger?
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Mar 25 @ 4:13 AM older women?    
jamminjerry


Posts: 3,780
i guess you are right in a few instances but usually when the desire is an actual relationship we gravitate unto our own. as for dating, i prefer the company of a woman 10 years or so on either side of my age. i like to think i am able to distinguish between dating and a relationship. i don't have a problem dating just about any age as long as communication isn't a problem. as for diagnosing "mental" problems with one or both people in a age difference, i'm sure that there are many armchair psychologists who will agree or disagree with you. one simple answer as to why is that the older woman is not so "clingy" or posessive.
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Mar 25 @ 9:45 AM older women?    
SaintBacon


Posts: 1,709
I don't know what the dating trend currently is. But from my own experiences, I always enjoyed the company of older woman. Whether for friendship or relationships, for me I found that I learned a lot about life from them. I appreciate their maturity. I dated several older women back in the day and eventually married someone two years older. When I was 22 I dated a women in her early 30's. For whatever reason, I found older women more interesting, insightful and certainly more secure and confident in themselves. Not to mention that they are very sexy!
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Mar 25 @ 11:51 AM older women?    
Loreli


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Mar 25 @ 6:15 PM older women?    
painter007


Posts: 15,990
Loreli.....pssst they want to know our womanly expertise
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Mar 25 @ 6:19 PM older women?    
Loreli


Posts: 20,311
Heck...it's been so long, I need to re-learn!

Seriously...I tell these guys, "I have sons your age."
They say, "so?"
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Mar 25 @ 6:24 PM older women?    
painter007


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hahahha Thats what they say to me also....I tell them they couldnt handle a older woman....and get a book.
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Mar 25 @ 6:25 PM older women?    
JenRNinOhio


Posts: 1,280

Loreli & Painter
yeah

I tell them, "You're too young for my daughter!"

Then, of course, they want HER #!



silly men/boys
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Mar 25 @ 6:31 PM older women?    
painter007


Posts: 15,990
hahahhahah Yes silly boys/men but what would we do without them.
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Mar 25 @ 6:33 PM older women?    
JenRNinOhio


Posts: 1,280
I don't EVER want to find out!!

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Mar 25 @ 6:35 PM older women?    
painter007


Posts: 15,990
Me either........They are too much fun...
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Mar 25 @ 11:05 PM older women?    
SunBabe


Posts: 12,251
If they're hot, well mannered, and halfway articulate, I just ask them if their father's single.
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Mar 26 @ 10:59 AM older women?    
SaintBacon


Posts: 1,709
Loreli, Jen, Painter and SB...you've given me a great idea for a second career...therapist to young men rejected by older women...I'm gonna make a fortune!!!
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Mar 26 @ 11:09 AM older women?    
burnslikethesun


Posts: 9,609
Find a need, fill the need! Bigwell

[Edited on 3/26/2008 11:10 AM]
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Mar 26 @ 11:09 AM older women?    
burnslikethesun


Posts: 9,609
Age has nothing to do with it. Heart, and mind does.
Just because shes older, doesnt make her better.
A great heart and a strong mind makes the better lover.

Sex is sex, the end reslutes are pretty much like one and the next. Its the before and after that important. The price of the package may just not be worth it.
Mental and Emotional instabilty is so very unattractive at any age.

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Mar 26 @ 4:59 PM older women?    
swiftdragon


Posts: 153
older women are attractive to young men because they have a certain amount of experience (usually) in the sack and also aren't (usually) out for a relationship, basically the young guys are looking for no strings attached sex...also older women sometimes go for younger men so that they can feel younger, or at least feel attractive still, being with a younger guy makes them feel like they've still got it. these are not universal, but are a generalization of the setup...myself i've actually been with a women old enough to be my grandmother (chronologically anyway, my mother was too old when she had me to make it likely for that to be true) and we had a great time of it...and honestly she didn't even look that old...she could easily pass as someone 20 years younger
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Mar 26 @ 5:32 PM older women?    
CathyCRN


Posts: 3,954
I've met a really nice 27 yr old man on here. We talk all the time and I will probably meet him next time I go home. Friends...that's it...he's a nice guy, I enjoy talking to him. What is his motivation?? Who knows....

Are you saying that the only motivation for a young man to approach an older woman is for sex? That may be the case the majority of the time, but certainly not all the time. I know and am friends with many younger men. There has never been a time that sex has come up in conversation except in a joking manner. Perhaps they just like to converse with a women who will not judge them harshly or that they can actually hold a conversation with????
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Mar 26 @ 5:42 PM older women?    
painter007


Posts: 15,990
I Agree, it doesnt always center around the sexy.
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Mar 26 @ 9:04 PM older women?    
capobeachguy


Posts: 3,660
CathyCRN said:
Are you saying that the only motivation for a young man to approach an older woman is for sex?

Of course not!!! Sometimes they need help with a difficult homework assignment!
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Mar 26 @ 9:05 PM older women?    
kattsmeow


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