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| Apr 6 @ 4:41 PM |
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whyzeeguy
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I have this dilemma, I’m dating someone whom I care deeply about, she is quite the find. My challenge is this, anal sex. I just love the backside of a woman, it’s just so erotic. I love anal. How do I let her know this is a passion for me? This was how my cherry was busted many moons ago. My first experience was with the girl across the street who just loved it. Later on in life, while in college my girl friend loved it and wouldn’t let me “Blow my Top” unless I was in her backside. After that I was married for 15 years and this was definitely a no no. She’d occasionally concede, when enough liquor had been consumed, otherwise it was missionary on for 15 minutes the 15th, with a full moon. Gotta love them Catholic’s. So anyway. 
Now I’m divorced and have dated several “prospects” but like this lady as she possess many of the qualities I seek. Smart, articulate, secure, confident, positive vision, and very sexual. 
I’m so insecure in asking her weather she would do anal or not!! My experience as a man is this sucks big time! I go to the doctor for a prostrate exam and the ole sphincter contracts like a boa constrictor. I’m serious, you couldn’t get a pin needle up that mofo with a Cat D9. When the doctor does his “Exam” it seems as if he has his arm up to his elbow in my arse!!! Freakin’ hurts!!! Is it the same for women? Or is this latent homophobic thinking keeping me puckered up? (Whatever) I’m really to shallow to care anyway. 
How do you broach this? I slid my finger back there but she jumped and said oh no, she didn’t like that. Should I tell her my desire or just keep quiet? Should I talk about this before or after a night’s romp? 
Thanks
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| Apr 6 @ 6:00 PM |
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ladros
Posts: 170
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is it same for women!!!?? i guess you really are to shallow to care!
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| Apr 6 @ 6:59 PM |
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AngelLight
Posts: 5,449
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If you care deeply about her, you'll talk to her ahead of time and do not push anything if she does not want to do it.
If she already indicated she doesn't like it, she probably is not going to change her mind about engaging in the activity.
If your desire outweighs her response, you may just need to find yourself another woman.
Good luck.
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| Apr 6 @ 7:18 PM |
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Skydognc
Posts: 2,336
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I have a suggestion.........
have her strap a dildo on, and shove it up ya ass.......
then see if you still want to ask her !
..ok.....jus havin fun here.to each their own!
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| Apr 6 @ 11:07 PM |
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Kenn159
Posts: 2,572
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slid my finger back there but she jumped and said oh no, she didn’t like that.
Looks like you got your answer already.
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| Apr 8 @ 4:22 PM |
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SaintBacon
Posts: 915
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What Kenn said! Anal sex can be a pleasure. But it's not for everyone. Respect her wishes and focus on all of the other beautiful and sexy things you can do together.
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| Apr 9 @ 10:36 AM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,041
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Check her ass cheeks carefully, there are many of us that have a small tattoo on one of the cheeks as well as an arrow pointing towards the ass hole stating "EXIT ONLY." 
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| Apr 9 @ 12:30 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 7,941
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Shes just playing a game with you. Keep after it.
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| Apr 9 @ 12:31 PM |
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BeachCrete
Posts: 7,242
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^^^^^^
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| Apr 9 @ 3:50 PM |
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swiftdragon
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you can go slow about it, like rim the outside of it with a finger as part of foreplay, sort of massaging the orifice, later use your pinky finger with lube and then use your larger fingers and work up to butt plugs and the like then head for it (it is recommended that you take these steps over the course of several nights and weeks before full penile penetration) this can help her get used to the idea as well as prepare her butthole for you so that you don't rip anything when you go for it...and of course discussing things with your patner is always important and you can even give her these general steps and maybe you might succeed when before their was no hope...and jfyi, this is advice that i've paraphrased from either the penthouse or playboy advice column so you can gaurentee its authenticity
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| Apr 9 @ 4:14 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 7,941
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as well as prepare her butthole for you so that you don't rip anything when you go for it
Great advice
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| Apr 9 @ 4:37 PM |
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swiftdragon
Posts: 153
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don't need her to start bleeding out that end just because you want a piece of it
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| Apr 12 @ 1:14 AM |
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burnslikethesun
Posts: 8,747
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Dude. relax. Keep being good to and with her. And sooner or later it will be offered as a gift.
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| Apr 12 @ 1:26 AM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 13,947
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I wish I knew how to make men quit this....
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| Apr 12 @ 1:29 AM |
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Snappygoddess
Posts: 3,603
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Some people just have no desire for anal.. why is that such a difficult concept to grasp?
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| Apr 12 @ 1:31 AM |
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burnslikethesun
Posts: 8,747
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Pams, I never start it. Just make sure that its finished.
I never know snippers, I dont ask but its always been offered or requested.
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| Apr 12 @ 1:34 AM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 13,947
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I'm clenching. 
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| Apr 12 @ 4:34 AM |
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steveemac
Posts: 2,336
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I wish I knew how to make men quit this... Not all men even start this, Pam-far as I'm concerned, that door is marked "Exit Only."
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| Apr 12 @ 8:05 AM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 13,947
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 I love him. ^^^^^ 
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| Apr 12 @ 11:20 PM |
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eastham
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Not all men even start this, Pam-far as I'm concerned, that door is marked "Exit Only."
Thank you, God! Ugh, the thought of it makes it uncomfortable to sit on a wooden chair.
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