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| Apr 14 @ 5:01 AM |
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cybermate3000
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If you asked random people what the most important element of a healthy relationship was you would likely hear the answer of "sex". I've heard it said many times that if the sex is bad in a relationship, then the relationship itself is bad.
Then again, i've also heard it said that trust and respect are also important elements. There are also ideas such as personality, sense of humor, honesty, religion, and so on, that very much play an important part in a healthy relationship as well.
So here's the question for you. Would you rather have everything perfect in the bedroom but completely lousy in every other aspect of the relationship? Or would you prefer to have everything perfect in every aspect of the relationship but lousy in the bedroom?
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| Apr 14 @ 5:52 AM |
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Danger
Posts: 1,180
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everything perfect in every aspect of the relationship but lousy in the bedroom!
theres always BOB;s AND it's something to work for... 
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| Apr 14 @ 10:22 AM |
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sciurusniger
Posts: 2,959
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cybermate3000's profile:
Are you looking for something more?
about myself:
Hi. I'm a 42 year old married man looking for an (online) romantic relationship with a woman 30 to 39. If you are looking for a mature relationship, and are open to the possibility of maybe something long term I welcome you to send me an email.
Please no porn, or women just looking for sex chat. Thanks.
Hope to hear from you soon.
My email addy is: ***********************
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| Apr 14 @ 10:35 AM |
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redtigr
Posts: 660
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^ ^ ^ ^ ^
I looked there first too... seemed such a "loaded" question...
Answer?
If everything is lousy in either place... look to thyself and render change... 
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| Apr 14 @ 10:37 AM |
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whatagal
Posts: 810
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To thine own self be true!
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| Apr 14 @ 10:50 AM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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Perfect and lousy are very strong and different words much like night and day.
One is sometimes able to change "night to day" with a little time and patients. If irreconcilable differences are plaguing a relationship, it's time for a change. Life is to be totally enjoyed.
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| Apr 14 @ 11:00 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
Posts: 15,342
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Would you rather have everything perfect in the bedroom but completely lousy in every other aspect of the relationship?
Speaking for myself, if the relationship's lousy there won't even be anything in the bedroom. 'Lousy' relationships are major turnoffs. 'Perfect' relationships are something I've never encountered, but even 'Good' ones pretty much have to include enough communication that you can likely improve anything lacking in the bedroom. I don't think it should be necessary to have to put a lot of work into a relationship but I don't think they just happen either - they're something that's built over time and sometimes the best foundations are put together from some rocky roads...
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| Apr 14 @ 11:10 AM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 21,280
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Communication. Haban and I talk a lot!!
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| Apr 14 @ 11:19 AM |
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redtigr
Posts: 660
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with a little time and patients.
I can't help it... It's such a perfect Freudian moment...
I just don't want to be one of the OP's patients...  I think he should practice at home.
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| Apr 14 @ 11:22 AM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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used as an adj. 
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| Apr 14 @ 11:50 AM |
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Danger
Posts: 1,180
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dang dang dang...i knew i should have looked at the profile first...
i'll blame it on the pain killers...lol
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| Apr 14 @ 12:34 PM |
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SaintBacon
Posts: 1,709
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I think if you have a good, solid and enjoyable relationship with a person, than the sex can certainly follow suit. A relationship that is based only, or primarily on sex probably isn't going to last. But a relationship that is fullfilling in all other ways can last even if the sex isn't all that, or changes as time goes on. Mrs Bacon got colon cancer 5 years ago. The scar tissue and other problems resulting from radiation treatments made it very difficult, if not impossible to have intercourse. It also left her with the inability to orgasm. Though we still have intimate relations of a sort, our sex life certainly changed drastically from what it was for the first 20 years. What didn't change was our overall relationship. It's as solid and enjoyable as it's ever been. We might not be able to enjoy intercourse...but she's alive and we can certainly enjoy continuing our life together. 
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| Apr 14 @ 8:29 PM |
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kissmya55
Posts: 290
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Gotta love that man.
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| Apr 14 @ 9:06 PM |
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cybermate3000
Posts: 14
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I see some reference here to my profile when also refering to this post of mine "Tricky Question". I can't say that I understand the reason for that. In a way it suggests that I had some kind of hidden agenda behind the question itself.
The "Tricky Question" post was just a random post typed up for the hell of it for the mere purpose of trying to be an active member here, as well as a little social.
As for my profile, yes, I am married, and am looking to have an online relationship with another woman. I'm sorry if that makes some people uncomfortable, that wasn't my intent. I can only hope that my posts aren't treated as being solely born from my profile or the intent/interests behind my profile. Copying and pasting my profile into my posts can very quickly get a little old.
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| Apr 14 @ 9:36 PM |
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CathyCRN
Posts: 3,954
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Hey Cyber...
I, personally, think that if the rest of the relationship is great, then sex will follow...barring physical barriers, that is. There is no such thing (in my opinion) as good sex in a lousy relationship...just doesn't work...
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| Apr 15 @ 12:51 AM |
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Always_Striving
Posts: 7,596
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Ahhhhhhhhh............. run away , run away
None of the above as an either-or answer. I have to have both.
But..... there are people just in the market for an uck-buddy.
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| Apr 15 @ 11:36 PM |
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Makya
Posts: 1,131
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prefer to have everything perfect in every aspect of the relationship but lousy in the bedroom?
I got toys  We'll be alright.
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| Apr 18 @ 6:49 AM |
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alivealiveoh
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a relationship wont work if its only based on sex. course its even better if the sex is great, but not on its own.
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| Apr 18 @ 11:34 AM |
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christianna
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see.... personality and trust and humor and etc is what makes it good for me in the bedroom... so... it kinda goes hand-in-hand for me
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