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| Apr 22 @ 9:30 PM |
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BeachCrete
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Why is it that some people try to ruin or destroy a relationship when it blossoms on here?
People will always have their personal opinion about a each and everyone that they come into contact with on here, wheather they have ever emailed them or not. They form this opinion from our profiles,our post, our past relationships(if any),what others tell them, and the way we present ourselves.
My question is, Why do some people insist on believing every negative thing that they hear about someone...why do people believe that just because a pervious relationship failed that they should form an opinion about this person and believe that he/she is to blame for it failing, when it all reality, they were uninformed as to the whole picture as to why the last one didn't work, yet still believe that that person was to blame and is a bad "egg".....I just can't, for the life of me, understand why people butt into a budding realtionship trying to ruin it based on on their misinterpretation of the failed previous one......
Sorry for being long-winded about this subject....I just simply want to know why people insist on ruining others realtionship just because they can?   
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| Apr 22 @ 9:32 PM |
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Goodness_Gracie
Posts: 708
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Jealous and insecure in themselves.
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| Apr 22 @ 9:38 PM |
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Loreli
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GRACIE!!!!!!!!! 
They are just sad people with nothing better to do.
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| Apr 22 @ 9:39 PM |
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LittleMsDangerous
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If one or the other allows an outside party to ruin a relationship I'd say there was most likely already a problem there. At the very least there's some existing doubt concerning the relationship when outside opinions are permitted to interfere.
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| Apr 22 @ 9:41 PM |
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Goodness_Gracie
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LORELI!!!!
And psssssst Beach sometimes it is just not worth figuring out the WHY people do things.....
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| Apr 22 @ 9:48 PM |
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BeachCrete
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Gracie, I am just confussed as to why someone would do these things and was looking for some input....I mean I would never interfere in someone elses relationship especially if I didn't have all the FACTS  
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| Apr 22 @ 9:54 PM |
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Goodness_Gracie
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Perhaps they just thrive on bringing other's down due to their unhappiness, jealousy and insecure in themselves.
I know people thrive and feed off on interferring in other's relationships. As getting input well as my father always said "Go to the source " and ask?
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| Apr 22 @ 9:54 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Hey Gracie!!!!!!!!!! Good to see you and glad to see what you have in your profile...much joy to you both!
Beach - I'm just gonna echo what others said - there are some sad people in this world who want to share their sadness and insecurity. I think for every one of those though, you're going to find 10 or 20 who'll be cheering on a new relationship.
Sometimes we just keep our mouths shut though, but we're still well-wishing.
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| Apr 22 @ 10:00 PM |
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Goodness_Gracie
Posts: 708
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Hey Heaven!! Good to see you as well. I just been lurking the forums!  And thanks been together 3 years now!! Woo Hoo and thanks to MD as well. 
Beach there are always gonna be the bad with the good......focus on the good and to hell with the bad.......... 
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| Apr 22 @ 10:03 PM |
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BeachCrete
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 ^^^^^ I try to Gracie, but sometimes it just gets so frustrating that I have to vent!
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| Apr 22 @ 10:07 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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If its ment to be it cant be ruin.
Dont let it shake your tree. Ya just fuel their fires. The way I see it, is its strong enough to withstand, or its not. Shady that others play in the nots, yet at lease then ya know the making of her meaning.
Good luck, stand strong.
Ya know, even people I dont like have friends. And even if we dont like one another, they cant help but see a few things in the same light.
I wonder if the heat would cool off if they knew why so soon is there a move on when it wasnt more then 8 days or so ago the heat was on in a different flame. I mean, what would ya tell ya daughter if she herself went from one heated relationship to the next so quickly? < RITORICAL ya dont need to explain shyte to anyone. 
(of course Im not your daughter, Im just a brother from another mother)
[Edited on 4/22/2008 10:11 PM]
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| Apr 22 @ 10:07 PM |
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Goodness_Gracie
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Awww Beach I know.......it can be frustrating........but vent away it helps the soul.......but sometimes we never can find the answer's or solutions but venting does a body good........(Or is that milk? Hummm)
Here ya go Beach May the blue bird of happiness shit on there head!! 
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| Apr 22 @ 10:08 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Oh and the other halvish are pincher crabs.
ya take a pincher crab and put it in a bucket, it will climb out. Put two in a bucket and as soon as the other starts to climb up, it will reach up and pull it down. They want your fate to be their fate, just keep climbing.
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| Apr 22 @ 10:13 PM |
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BeachCrete
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I wonder if the heat would cool off if they knew why so soon is there a move on when it wasnt more then 8 days or so ago the heat was on in a different flame.
Burns...when ya know, ya just know! and 8 days was not how long it was ...it had been shaky for a while
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| Apr 22 @ 10:16 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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And there ya have it peeps. Now lay the f*** off. Theres no abuse to be seen here.
Its not a very comfy feeling to have peeps meddle. Get a new hobby.
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| Apr 22 @ 10:24 PM |
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signme
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There's always someone who enjoys being a spoiler. But I think most of us cheer on the new romances and hope they work out!
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| Apr 22 @ 10:27 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Its no secret for many. Paints and Beach and myself havent aint on the best buddy lists, yet, hey they both got, and lost and re-found. Good for them I aint booing, just whisper caution. As always. BUT GOOD for it, lifes short. Get the goods while the goods are there to get.
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| Apr 23 @ 12:51 AM |
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Always_Striving
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I have RARELY seen anyone on here attempt to ruin a good relationship between people. I am assuming that you are talking about a romantic relationship.
I see quarelling here frequently but that is pretty normal because that is happening on every single website on the internet that has blogs, participant comments and forums. Fighting and bickering happens on websites whether we like it or not, plus all websites have their trolls too.
So tell me BeachCrete what are some examples of ruining a relationship on this website?
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| Apr 23 @ 6:15 AM |
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Automotor
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Huh? What's going on here? Sombody hitting on your old lady?
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| Apr 23 @ 6:42 AM |
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BeachCrete
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So tell me BeachCrete what are some examples of ruining a relationship on this website?
Always, here are some:
sending emails to you're SO stating their dissapproval and how appauled they are that "you" was their choice
fabricating untruths or lies about you to try and persuade your SO to believe them and end the relationship
bringing up a past relationship and how it(supposedly) ended to cause conflict
people trying to convince your SO to take sides against you and not to go any further with the relationship.Mainly because those same people didn't see the whole picture about your previous relationship/relationships or didn't have all the facts concerning your reasons for ending it/them.
And the list goes on...........
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