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| May 2 @ 11:47 PM |
Who's to blame in the game?
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tru2me
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I used to side and sympathize with the played victim, but in retrospect I think they're both to blame- the player and the played. It takes two to play the game doesn't it? And who's letting who taking advantage of who? Anyone care to agree or disagree?
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| May 3 @ 2:10 AM |
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willsmalto
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I fundamentally disagree. just like the saying goes "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me.
In this "game", it takes just one. the player's the one playing the game and the one being played is pretty much like the "ball' .
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| May 3 @ 2:22 AM |
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blueyes101
Posts: 8,307
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Don't jump in head first until are sure how deep the water is.
If you rely on strictly what someone told you, you are still to blame to for not knowing yourself.
If it is meant to be, take your time, and have a good idea what your doing.
Blame shmame, in the end, does it really matter. You are the one who must learn from your mistakes, tread lightly, and carry a big stick.  
Love/relationships are a fine balance of gut feeling and following your heart, and analyzing things as an on going basis. Call it a three legged stool, without all three, you find yourself on your ass, wondering what the hell happened.
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| May 3 @ 2:58 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
Posts: 8,063
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something to think about.. if the player is telling lies..(no matter how sweet... )how can the one being played be blamed for "falling for them" 
edited for..finishing the thought..
but if someone knows the person is "a player".. but plays anyway...and gets played.. they are at fault (imho...)
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| May 3 @ 3:21 PM |
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emptypages
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i agree with both being at fault. i think a lot of the time, people might suspect their being played, but they think they can change that person. In the end, nothing changes.
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| May 3 @ 6:14 PM |
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jamminjerry
Posts: 3,780
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let us blame the player! for the rest of us only endure the game with hope. but, then the paradox. what if the player does not realize that he or she is the player? very few players realize they are playing. selah
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| May 3 @ 6:32 PM |
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SpiritEnergy
Posts: 16,997
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Personally, I look at it as opportunities for growth and education. Consider everything a lesson to be learned and you have a win/win situation.
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| May 4 @ 2:58 PM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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In most situations I find that most people share in contributory neglegence.
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| May 4 @ 3:06 PM |
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painter007
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in my opinion both are to blame.....the player, who lures people in, but also the other person for not paying attention to ALL the red flags. But its a learning experience. I wish all hearts to be filled...Im just gonna pay attention more to the actions, and not what is said.....I learn more and more each day.......and thank those for reminding me to pay attention to actions.
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| May 4 @ 5:57 PM |
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honeybunnygirl
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It takes two to make or break a relationship. What good does it do to place blame.
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| May 4 @ 6:04 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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| May 4 @ 6:07 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,990
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yes it takes two.......but sometimes its ones actions that are very wrong, to cause the other to leave.
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| May 4 @ 6:18 PM |
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honeybunnygirl
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yes it takes two.......but sometimes its ones actions that are very wrong, to cause the other to leave. Sounds like you had a bad trip with somebody. 
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| May 4 @ 6:26 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,990
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Dishonesty......but I still wish them all well.....
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| May 4 @ 6:57 PM |
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Brass_Wolf
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. . .well we all shine on. Like the Moon, and the Stars, and the Sun.
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| May 4 @ 8:27 PM |
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BeachCrete
Posts: 7,718
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Dishonesty......but I still wish them all well....
Painter...I have repeatedly sit back and watched you put me down and dog me throughout the forums for the past week......I will not sit back and keep quiet anymore  ....You were dishonest and deceitful throughout the whole ordeal and to try and make yourself look good and put me down and make me look like the bad one and the reason that we ended is untrue...and you know it......Play nice and take this as a learning experience or be prepared for some of your own medicine...I don't usually get like this but I am fed up with this  ...I was one of many men who you were talking to at the same time so if there is blame to be put anywhere I think you should be prepared to carry your load 
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| May 4 @ 8:28 PM |
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willowy1
Posts: 4,937
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It takes real talent for a man to become a player. Not so much for women.
Look before you leap I guess.
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| May 4 @ 8:30 PM |
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SpiritEnergy
Posts: 16,997
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Yeah, I am sick of it too, Beach. 
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| May 4 @ 8:37 PM |
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rascally1
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Any one for popcorn?
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| May 4 @ 8:43 PM |
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willowy1
Posts: 4,937
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I was hoping for a comedy? 
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