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| May 8 @ 8:28 AM |
Deal-Breaker Sex - Past Deeds
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SaintBacon
Posts: 915
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Everyone has their own ideas of what is "acceptable" in regards to sexual acts. Some enjoy plain, basic sex and are very satisfied with that. Others like to experiment and try all sorts of things. In other threads, members have expressed their objection to specific acts (anal sex and threesomes to name two)...to the point that they don't even want to associate with someone who enjoys, has participated in, or has even just thought about engaging in that particular act.
So the question I put before you is this: What, if any, sexual act that a potential partner has engaged in during the course of their past life that would eliminate them from potential partnership with you.
Rules: We will exclude criminal acts such as rape, incest, pedophilia, beastiality and the like, as they are on a whole different level that goes way beyond mere "kinks" and involves a victim(s).
Also, it will be assumed that the potential partner is NOT trying to pressure you into performing said act, only mentioning that THEY enjoy it, or have tried it sometime in their sexual past.
As for the Saint? There are lots of things I haven't had an interest in exploring myself, but I don't think I would eliminate a potential partner (assuming I was single) because they have tried it, or enjoyed it.
What's a deal-breaker for you?
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| May 8 @ 8:42 AM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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A deal breaker for me is someone in the totally ooposite direction. Someone who is not willing to compromise. Now thats with sex and anything else iwithin a relationship. Then there are those (mostly women) who use sex as a weapon or another form of control. Another no no. Many women dont even realize they do it.
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| May 8 @ 11:06 AM |
Deal-Breaker Sex - Past Deeds
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burnslikethesun
Posts: 8,706
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the word no to me is a deal breaker, or the word yes to everyone plus me. Another deal breaker.
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| May 8 @ 7:26 PM |
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minky
Posts: 236
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Crossdressing,
I would be afraid to leave him alone with my undies 
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| May 8 @ 7:29 PM |
Deal-Breaker Sex - Past Deeds
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Pete73052
Posts: 19,368
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Oooo... especially if he isn't the same size...
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| May 8 @ 9:00 PM |
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Angel178
Posts: 21,992
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Waited an hour and a half to do that 
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| May 8 @ 10:26 PM |
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DJ1024
Posts: 147
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no deal breakers. the past is the past.
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| May 8 @ 11:49 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,070
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I think I'd only be concerned about someone who'd been involved in cruelty/force/S&M and liked it...afraid they'd want to go back to that lifestyle eventually. (Not my thang  ) I'd be worried, too, that it wouldn't be confined to the bedroom ~shudder~
(I have to admit that I've had a few giggles over a couple of things partners/potential partners admitted to from their past.  )
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| May 8 @ 11:52 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 9,929
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S&M
S&M does not equal cruelty, and we that are SERIOUS about it do not bring it outside the bedroom.
Deal breaker for me = someone who only likes regular sex
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| May 9 @ 2:08 AM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,070
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The "/" slashes meant three separate things. I was too busy listening for a radio broadcast to look for commas
Also, "THE lifestyle" is often brought out of the bedroom...
LOL, I'm not big on domination and control or pain, in case you haven't guessed.  (In the bedroom or out)
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| May 9 @ 3:00 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 9,929
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There are some people that do bring it out of the bedroom but they are best avoided. The people that like caging and things like that? Yeah....they're a little weird.
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| May 9 @ 3:04 AM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,070
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Yep, I'm not much into cages. (Well unless I hook myself a wild hottie   )
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| May 9 @ 3:09 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 9,929
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my friends and i used to look for ads on personal sites for S&M people when we were like 14 just for shits and giggles and i remember specifically this one guy who said
"I WILL PUT YOU IN A CAGE AND PUT YOU ON A STRICT DIET UNTIL YOU HAVE A BODY THAT IS TO MY LIKING"
I was like ".....ew. that's too extreme even for me."
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| May 11 @ 12:24 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
Posts: 6,365
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the past is just that...people change every day they get older, so I never look at the past as an indication of what lays ahead... what comes today is more an indication of what ... 
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| May 13 @ 11:52 AM |
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Automotor
Posts: 258
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I don't know what you call it, but it's where people like to shit and piss on each other to get off. That's just wrong.
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| May 13 @ 11:57 AM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,853
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Anything involving force, cruelty, or animals...I really dont want to talk with someone about their sexual encounters
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| May 13 @ 12:17 PM |
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Silver1961
Posts: 2,937
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Anything involving force, cruelty, or animals
I'd have to be with Painter on this one 
It wouldn't be a deal breaker if a gal was doing some exploring in her younger days, as long as she was now decent and STD free. I don't mind hearing about some of their past experiences... So far I haven't met any that were fond of barn yard friends
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| May 13 @ 1:22 PM |
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SensualGemini
Posts: 3,052
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Saint: In other threads, members have expressed their objection to specific acts (anal sex and threesomes to name two)...to the point that they don't even want to associate with someone who enjoys, has participated in, or has even just thought about engaging in that particular act.
...Having met those types, that vehemently deny, openly express their outrage of such potentially perverted actions, are often the same ones that fantasize about the forbidden to arrive at the top of the mountain... and then feeling guilty, dislike themselves for doing so.
..."Thinking," or having just a thought about engaging, or fantasy, is eventually a normality for most everyone. Yet, even though fantasies are quite normal, they are seldom shared with their partner for a variety of reasons; including lack of trust, their partner would be offended because of ego, morals, etc.
...I dare say, anyone that has masturbated, has to be thinking about something and that something is not always missionary standard, but often the forbidden. In one's mind, the fantasy being created to attain orgasm, remains absent of a conscious during that last 15 seconds to completion... it could be anyone, which is the mental reality, as well as the denial after that moment.
...Personally, I could care less what other people do behind closed doors, as I am not the moral police. Yesterday is not a deal breaker, but who and what they are today could be... I don't share well, not into pain, nor acts of humiliation.
...Oh, since I support certain aspects of PETA, leave my pooch alone! 
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| May 14 @ 5:50 PM |
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Kenn159
Posts: 2,560
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think I'd only be concerned about someone who'd been involved in cruelty/force/S&M and liked it...afraid they'd want to go back to that lifestyle eventually. (Not my thang ) I'd be worried, too, that it wouldn't be confined to the bedroom ~shudder~
Sunbabe said it for me.
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| May 14 @ 10:25 PM |
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Thor1960303
Posts: 1,772
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So the question I put before you is this: What, if any, sexual act that a potential partner has engaged in during the course of their past life that would eliminate them from potential partnership with you.
I've had girl friends and f buddies say they like to watch two guys kiss,make out and do each other and I've refused because I have no homosexual desires.Nothing against it,and I would never ask a woman to do similar (ffm)if she did not have a bisexual or bi curious nature,it's just that guys don't do anything for me.They're Viagra antidote for me.Now if a woman wants mmf threesome,that's fine too,but I don;t touch the other guy,just not my thing.
That..and..don't try to stick anything up my butt.I suffer 'roids.I'm not really into anything anal anyway.
There are no deal breakers as far as I'm concerned,a person's past is their past.Unless their past infected them with HIV or full blown AIDS or some other incurable deadly bad shit,I'm cool.
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